I know you guys are a little busy right now, but I'm throwing this in here anyway. I didn't want to put it in jermys' thread because I'm not very happy with myself about it.
I am very pro-choice and continue to feel that way, but the jermys thread about F's birth mom is kind of fucking with me. I am 4 months along today, same as her, and I couldn't help but think, "she's killing her baby!" And it's not fair and not right to think about it in that way, but man. My baby has arms and legs and he wiggles around and his little heart is just a-goin'. The thought of this baby being killed is just awful to me right now. In a way that it never has been before. I do understand that this is incredibly flameful.
I know you guys are a little busy right now, but I'm throwing this in here anyway. I didn't want to put it in jermys' thread because I'm not very happy with myself about it.
I am very pro-choice and continue to feel that way, but the jermys thread about F's birth mom is kind of fucking with me. I am 4 months along today, same as her, and I couldn't help but think, "she's killing her baby!" And it's not fair and not right to think about it in that way, but man. My baby has arms and legs and he wiggles around and his little heart is just a-goin'. The thought of this baby being killed is just awful to me right now. In a way that it never has been before. I do understand that this is incredibly flameful.
You can be personally pro-life and politially pro-choice. The flameful part would be disallowing everyone the opportunity to decide for themselves because you don't agree with their choice.
I know you guys are a little busy right now, but I'm throwing this in here anyway. I didn't want to put it in jermys' thread because I'm not very happy with myself about it.
I am very pro-choice and continue to feel that way, but the jermys thread about F's birth mom is kind of fucking with me. I am 4 months along today, same as her, and I couldn't help but think, "she's killing her baby!" And it's not fair and not right to think about it in that way, but man. My baby has arms and legs and he wiggles around and his little heart is just a-goin'. The thought of this baby being killed is just awful to me right now. In a way that it never has been before. I do understand that this is incredibly flameful.
I get what you're saying. My husband has had a vasectomy and we have made the decision that we absolutely do not want another kid and therefore in the tiny possibility that I get pregnant again, I would have an abortion. I don't judge but it makes me feel differently about it when it's so far along. I suppose I always think of abortion on the terms of first tri. (I fully realize that the reason she hasn't done it sooner is because she financially could not).
I am very pro-choice and continue to feel that way, but the jermys thread about F's birth mom is kind of fucking with me. I am 4 months along today, same as her, and I couldn't help but think, "she's killing her baby!" And it's not fair and not right to think about it in that way, but man. My baby has arms and legs and he wiggles around and his little heart is just a-goin'. The thought of this baby being killed is just awful to me right now. In a way that it never has been before. I do understand that this is incredibly flameful.
Oh man. You're on a slippery slope there, Isabel. And please don't use the world "killed" when it comes to abortion.
God, I know! I'm sorry!
I truly don't judge her decision. She certainly has enough on her plate without adding another kid to the mix. It's just making me sadder since she's further along.
Post by cheeseandcrackers on Oct 23, 2014 17:46:01 GMT -5
I'm a little farther along in my pregnancy, but this is a wanted pregnancy, honestly I can't judge someone on getting an abortion this far along because i'm sure they have completely different feeling about their pregnancy than what I do. Plus you never know the circumstances.
I know you guys are a little busy right now, but I'm throwing this in here anyway. I didn't want to put it in jermys' thread because I'm not very happy with myself about it.
I am very pro-choice and continue to feel that way, but the jermys thread about F's birth mom is kind of fucking with me. I am 4 months along today, same as her, and I couldn't help but think, "she's killing her baby!" And it's not fair and not right to think about it in that way, but man. My baby has arms and legs and he wiggles around and his little heart is just a-goin'. The thought of this baby being killed is just awful to me right now. In a way that it never has been before. I do understand that this is incredibly flameful.
I know you guys are a little busy right now, but I'm throwing this in here anyway. I didn't want to put it in jermys' thread because I'm not very happy with myself about it.
I am very pro-choice and continue to feel that way, but the jermys thread about F's birth mom is kind of fucking with me. I am 4 months along today, same as her, and I couldn't help but think, "she's killing her baby!" And it's not fair and not right to think about it in that way, but man. My baby has arms and legs and he wiggles around and his little heart is just a-goin'. The thought of this baby being killed is just awful to me right now. In a way that it never has been before. I do understand that this is incredibly flameful.
You know what's more annoying than amoosed? People quoting her every.time.she.posts, commenting on it. She's not going anywhere, either block her or move on. Also, while extremely stupid and potentially harmful, I truly don't think she posted the info on purpose.
you mean (in her own words) "the gem" she posted?
lol, if she truly didn't know then she is dangerously stupid.
It's not like pagas and I had some longstanding feud or beef with each other. I generally enjoyed her posts and even liked her daughter's smock dresses.
I fully admit that I can be a huge space cadet and not think things through (I mean, I later accidentally posted my OWN info). However, I think dangerously stupid is taking things a bit far.
I fully admit that I can be a huge space cadet and not think things through (I mean, I later accidentally posted my OWN info). However, I think dangerously stupid is taking things a bit far.
If not posting personal info is THIS hard for you, maybe you ARE dangerously stupid
This is really mean of me to say, but Mormon underwear and leggings don't work well together. To be fair, I think underwear lines of any kind are distracting in leggings.
I think that it just hit a little close too home for isabel and that she didn't mean for it to sound like it came off.
xoxo, Asian Pollyanna
I get that but its inflammatory language (and inaccurate) like baby and killed that the anti choice movement uses for shock value that bothers me
That isn't really "inflammatory". I mean, they're going to stop it's heart. When you smash a bug you "kill" it. When you spray Lysol on an amoeba you "kill" it. And she's pregnant with a 16 week old organism she's sure as shit been calling a baby.
Really? She posted personal info. It is hard to know the level of hate that is appropriate in the circumstances because EVERY OTHER PERSON in ML history that posted personal info LEFT THE BOARD.
So how long are we allowed to bitch about it before forgetting and pretending it never happened???
This is really mean of me to say, but Mormon underwear and leggings don't work well together. To be fair, I think underwear lines of any kind are distracting in leggings.
holy HUGE picture lol
Sorry, can't resize on my device. I'll edit and make it a link instead.
That isn't really "inflammatory". I mean, they're going to stop it's heart. When you smash a bug you "kill" it. When you spray Lysol on an amoeba you "kill" it. And she's pregnant with a 16 week old organism she's sure as shit been calling a baby.
Post by karmasabiotch on Oct 23, 2014 18:25:59 GMT -5
I'm FB friends with Dovey and her story with her IRL friends and family is consistent with what she posts here. I believe her and she needs our support. C'mon ML, this is a circumstance that if you can't support her and/or just be friendly please don't respond to her posts.
That isn't really "inflammatory". I mean, they're going to stop it's heart. When you smash a bug you "kill" it. When you spray Lysol on an amoeba you "kill" it. And she's pregnant with a 16 week old organism she's sure as shit been calling a baby.
Maybe you oughta just sit this one out.
Trust me. That was going to he the extent of my contributions.
It's not like pagas and I had some longstanding feud or beef with each other. I generally enjoyed her posts and even liked her daughter's smock dresses.
I fully admit that I can be a huge space cadet and not think things through (I mean, I later accidentally posted my OWN info). However, I think dangerously stupid is taking things a bit far.
If pagas wants to block me I understand.
Here's what I don't get.
Wasn't the link you posted to a blog that was specifically shit-talking Pagas?
So, even without the personal info, what was "the gem" part about it?
I didn't read it fully (cute dangerously stupid encore). I skimmed and thought it wasn't as malicious as I now realize. Plus there is a backstory I wasn't (and still aren't) fully aware of.