I think most of us probably saw it and just ignored it. Because all we'd hear is, "no, not really a real bully, haha. She just rules the playground at school!" Or some such nonsense.
Post by andrewsgal on Oct 27, 2014 19:12:47 GMT -5
Wow um I just spent all day with an 8,5 and 6 month old who doesn't nap on the go at the happiest fucking place on earth then came back to this. There is no fucking way this timing wasn't totally planned. Have is totally my BEC. Welcome it should keep me busy if you come back. Just wait to start the bigoted, racist and sexist comments until next week I am busy this week. Oh and plus also because I can
I think those of us that are still mad were talked about, called rude names and generally treated like shit by her at the end, so I wouldn't expect everybody to feel the same way, but I would think those of us who still have issues with her have a pretty decent reason. Plus BEC.
I think those of us that are still mad were talked about, called rude names and generally treated like shit by her at the end, so I wouldn't expect everybody to feel the same way, but I would think those of us who still have issues with her have a pretty decent reason. Plus BEC.
She called me hateful. She didn't say I was "acting hateful". But I didn't tattle about it, so she didn't get banned.
I mean she's entertaining so fine whatever.
And yes, of course she loves that Hadley has an attitude. Of course.
I think those of us that are still mad were talked about, called rude names and generally treated like shit by her at the end, so I wouldn't expect everybody to feel the same way, but I would think those of us who still have issues with her have a pretty decent reason. Plus BEC.
This makes sense. I honestly can't even remember what happened at the end. She and I rarely agreed about anything. Many of the things she said were....hateful, uneducated...I don't know how to categorize them. But I surprised that because of that we were all supposed to jump on her the moment she came back.
I mean plenty of people say dumb stuff and get to hang around. See the George Zimmerman post (yeah I'm still holding a grudge).
I think those of us that are still mad were talked about, called rude names and generally treated like shit by her at the end, so I wouldn't expect everybody to feel the same way, but I would think those of us who still have issues with her have a pretty decent reason. Plus BEC.
This makes sense. I honestly can't even remember what happened at the end. She and I rarely agreed about anything. Many of the things she said were....hateful, uneducated...I don't know how to categorize them. But I surprised that because of that we were all supposed to jump on her the moment she came back.
I mean plenty of people say dumb stuff and get to hang around. See the George Zimmerman post (yeah I'm still holding a grudge).
Oh I don't think everybody should jump on her...I mean, I do think it's crazy to think she can just waltz back in her and be a member of the community we have without saying sorry, really changing, etc.
This makes sense. I honestly can't even remember what happened at the end. She and I rarely agreed about anything. Many of the things she said were....hateful, uneducated...I don't know how to categorize them. But I surprised that because of that we were all supposed to jump on her the moment she came back.
I mean plenty of people say dumb stuff and get to hang around. See the George Zimmerman post (yeah I'm still holding a grudge).
Oh I don't think everybody should jump on her...I mean, I do think it's crazy to think she can just waltz back in her and be a member of the community we have without saying sorry, really changing, etc.
I agree. She probably needs to privately apologize and hash some things out with quite a few people.
I quoted you but I was referring to comments made earlier about the responses this post was getting. Quote fail.
I just can't get it up to care because it's the internet and I don't know her.
If DW or Dizzy, or Leslie or poopchute, or someone that I am friends with off-boards said something, I'd be hurt. But I don't really know Hav, she's not a part of my life outside the board, so I can't really take long-term offense.
Post by Kcthepouchh8r on Oct 28, 2014 9:35:09 GMT -5
Yeah I've been told far worse things on this board than hav has ever said (I'm bitter because my kid has autism comes to mind) and I don't dwell on it every time some poster who said something nasty posts.
Yeah I've been told far worse things on this board than hav has ever said (I'm bitter because my kid has autism comes to mind) and I don't dwell on it every time some poster who said something nasty posts.
But we all own the things we say and know how to admit we were wrong and apologize. She always tried to excuse her behavior by saying things like "well, where I come from...". That was one thing that always bothered me about her.
Yeah I've been told far worse things on this board than hav has ever said (I'm bitter because my kid has autism comes to mind) and I don't dwell on it every time some poster who said something nasty posts.
But we all own the things we say and know how to admit we were wrong and apologize. She always tried to excuse her behavior by saying things like "well, where I come from...". That was one thing that always bothered me about her.
Yeah, I have never been apologized to. Not that I need it. It's the Internet and I don't take it that seriously for the reasons rora mentioned above. I just find it interesting the people who dish it whine incessantly when someone calls them a name.