Double Time: Two Things Tuesday

[travelbug]

2 Things you love about your Husband?

2 Things you'd change? {Not that we would change anything }

Pick one or pick both!  

[MrsMB]

Loves: 1. He's SO darn handy and fiscally responsible around the house. That saves us so much time, stress and money. 2. He loves to snuggle and hold hands.

Change? I'll let God handle those I've come to determine He's better at changing my husband than I am (i.e. nagging.).

[Skyesthelimit1212]

Loves - He's a lot more thoughtful then I am when it comes to doing nice random things for me. He loves to cuddle without expecting anything to come of it. Wink, Wink.

Change - He doesn't think before he speaks or apologize when he's wrong.

[Deleted]

2 things I love: his sense of humor and his generosity.

2 things I'd change: extreme night-owl and has a giant sweet tooth!

[rockinrobyn]

I love: how he treats our dogs, how much he cares about those around him

Change: how messy he can be, how much he nags me

[estrellita]

Love:
1. He's been pretty helpful lately, like offering to carry heavy things even when they're ok for me to carry, cooking, and other random things!
2. We're so alike in our weird hobbies or likes/dislikes. It's good that we understand each other in a way I don't think anyone else could!

Change:
1. Sometimes he's really clueless. I can be super upset and he will have no clue. I know I need to work on telling him how I feel, but it would be nice sometimes if he realized it on his own!
2. I wish he was more ambitious. He wants to lose weight, but doesn't do a whole lot about it. He doesn't do a lot of things unless I ask him. I always feel like I have to take the lead on everything and it stresses me out (ties in with #1!).

[luv2rn4fun]

1.  I love his love for God, his loyalty and commitment to our marriage, his love for the outdoors and sense of adventure, that he calls on his way to work and during lunch to check in and see how my day is going, his desire for me to stay at home with our kid(s), and he's super sexy!

2.  I'm with MrsMB- I have my list but I give it to God and let him decide which one of us He will do the work on in each of the requests (sometimes what I think is a DH issue really is a me issue...but sometimes He does grant my wishes for positive changes in my DH- these changes are always better, last longer, etc than if I tried to do them on my own).

[pooh8402]

1. A. His kindness
B. His skill with computers lol

2. A. Wish he could direct more of that kindness towards me... Sometimes can be an asshole. But aren't we all?
B. His insecurities, especially about kids and money.

[travelbug]

1) He can always make me laugh and is a good listener!

2) I also agree with MrsMB & luv2rn4fun but if I had to pick something it would be self motivation. I have to "nag" him a lot to do specific things or they would never get done otherwise. So I'd like for him to self motivate himself a little better. and help with the dishes without me having to ask!

[tiptoetulips]

He's also good with his hands. He can build and fix things around the house and doesn't expect me to help with it.

He cooks dinner most nights which was a huge stressor for me he cooks I clean it works

[krystee]

1. I love that he is very loving and that he has a hilariously goofy sense of humor.
2. I would give him a higher self-esteem and I would give him a love for cooking so that he would make all dinners.

[wanderingenough]

1. I love that he has this whole separate personality that he really only shows to me. The stuff he shows to outsiders is pretty great as it is, but I always feel special when I'm getting a glimpse of this person no one else knows about. I also love how determined and ambitious he can be.

2. I hate navigating the GPS while he is driving. It's one of the quickest ways to get him to snap at me. He could also help with cooking more, but I'm sure there are 100 things I could be doing more of so that's not a huge deal.

[awick14]

Loves:
1-he is very affectionate (cuddling, holding hands etc.)
2- he does so much handy stuff around the house which is nice

Change:
1- he needs to pay more attention to my schedule, I work shift work and he never remembers that it's written on the calendar and he just needs to look
2- sometimes he takes what I do around the house for granted and it drives me crazy.

[christy082]

2 Things you love about your Husband?  He's so hardworking- he works a lot, works on his side business, works around the house.   He's handy. Anything he doesn't already know how to do, my dad (a carpenter) can show him once, and he knows how to do it. He's an engineer so he can actually design and make things. And now his side business (3D printing) comes in really handy, too. Like, the broke one of the plastic window locks on our window, and he designed and printed me a new one!

2 Things you'd change? His inability to say no to his family. I feel like they take advantage of his kindness (always asking for "favors"- but bigger things that they should really be paying a professional to do. My appreciation of his handiness bites me in the ass when other people take advantage of it, lol). I also wish he's relax more. He HAS to be busy. Sometimes in the summer we sit outside and relax when it's nice out, and I can just tell he can't really be relaxed and feels like he should be doing something. 

[katespade]

H doesn't let very many people in, but he is fiercely loyal to the few that he does.
He is also incredibly patient and kind. I am not an easy person to live with, and he rarely bats an eye at my craziness.

He is indecisive, which can be annoying because I am also indecisive.
Also, he tends to pick expensive hobbies. Haha.

[Deleted]

Loves:
- he is affectionate and buys flowers often just to make me smile.
- he is hard working

Change:
- his housework skills are non-existent
- he lets things go too easily instead of trying to get things done the right way

[bk1]

Likes:

1. He is extremely handy and has saved us lots of money over the years.
2. He is very dedicated and hard working in everything he does.


Changes:

1. He won't apologize when he is wrong
2. Sometimes he can sacrifice himself too much for others (example: he will stop what he is doing at work to help fix problems for others even when it puts his work behind)

[mac08]

Love:
1. He is very hard-working, as far from lazy as you can get
2. He is very responsible, with money and really all things.  He always does things immediately and never puts them off til the last minute

change:
1. He is not as affectionate as I would like
2. His patience leaves something to be desired

[MrsAggie]

Love:
1. That I can be so freely myself around him.
2. That he is usually more cool-headed and will be the first to apologize. Both of these aspects have rubbed off onto me for the better.

Change:
1. His terrible memory of accounts/conversations.
2. His absolute insistence that conversations never happened, even though he's notorious for forgetting.