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ooglie26 Full Member Goonies never say die! Posts: 2,595 Likes: 1,008	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 22:59:03 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ooglie26 on Nov 26, 2014 22:59:03 GMT -5 poof Thanks for the advice and the thoughts....I'm going to make it through tomorrow, and then we'll have a heart to heart talk.
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stephogirl Full Member Posts: 1,933 Likes: 4,284	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:00:27 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by stephogirl on Nov 26, 2014 23:00:27 GMT -5 Oh damn. That hurts. (((((Hugs))))))
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sequins Senior Member If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. Posts: 7,543 Likes: 17,463	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:00:40 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sequins on Nov 26, 2014 23:00:40 GMT -5 I'm sorry Hugs
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wowhead Full Member Posts: 4,722 Likes: 5,991	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:01:13 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wowhead on Nov 26, 2014 23:01:13 GMT -5 Ouch, that one hurts. I'm sorry.
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themoneytree Full Member Posts: 4,532 Likes: 4,018	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:01:18 GMT -5 via mobile jumpon8 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by themoneytree on Nov 26, 2014 23:01:18 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. That must really hurt. You need to have a real talk about this, that sounds pretty disrespectful. : (
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Deleted Posts: 0	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:02:09 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Nov 26, 2014 23:02:09 GMT -5 I'm sorry. I would definitely try to talk with him about it soon.
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Eagles Elder Posts: 10,790 Likes: 22,811	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:02:15 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Eagles on Nov 26, 2014 23:02:15 GMT -5 There is nothing wrong with you at all. Nothing. I'm so sorry.
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eb777888 Elder Posts: 38,325 Likes: 41,350	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:03:11 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by eb777888 on Nov 26, 2014 23:03:11 GMT -5 It sounds like porn addiction? I've heard about people who get so into porn, they just don't want sex with their partner anymore. I'm really sorry I'd be really upset, too.
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Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:05:28 GMT -5

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H and I didn't have sex for a year.

I am sorry things are strained and you're feeling badly. It sucks and it's a shitty position to be in.

I don't have any advice.

My husband have had a better go of it for about a couple of years, but sometimes things slow down a bit occasionally. These things can get better.

Remember you can rub one out too.

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lime Senior Member Posts: 8,197 Likes: 4,891	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:05:39 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lime on Nov 26, 2014 23:05:39 GMT -5 Sorry ooglie. There's nothing wrong with you.
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btay Full Member Posts: 3,166 Likes: 2,192	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:06:58 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by btay on Nov 26, 2014 23:06:58 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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bohemianmango Full Member Posts: 1,783 Likes: 4,722	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:07:02 GMT -5 via mobile farmvillelover likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bohemianmango on Nov 26, 2014 23:07:02 GMT -5 I'm sorry It's not you. He needs to communicate what's going on with him.
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luvvy Full Member Posts: 4,228 Likes: 2,086	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:08:19 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by luvvy on Nov 26, 2014 23:08:19 GMT -5 I know exactly how you feel. My ex-h preferred porn over me. It hurts. It hurts a lot. Be honest with him, he needs to hear how you feel and you deserve an explanation.
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usuallylurking Full Member Posts: 4,065 Likes: 4,396	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:10:52 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by usuallylurking on Nov 26, 2014 23:10:52 GMT -5 I'm sorry, I would feel hurt and rejected too
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speckledfrog Elder Posts: 23,204 Likes: 25,200	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:15:14 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by speckledfrog on Nov 26, 2014 23:15:14 GMT -5 Well, damn. Do you think he was intentionally trying to hurt your feelings?
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FastHands Elder Posts: 19,751 Likes: 30,001	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:17:51 GMT -5 via mobile agnes, farmvillelover, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by FastHands on Nov 26, 2014 23:17:51 GMT -5 It may be an uncomfortable conversation, but it has to happen, and soon. I'm so sorry you are hurting.
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silva Elder Posts: 10,590 Likes: 12,351	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:25:50 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by silva on Nov 26, 2014 23:25:50 GMT -5 Nov 26, 2014 23:17:51 GMT -5 FastHands said: It may be an uncomfortable conversation, but it has to happen, and soon. I'm so sorry you are hurting. Agree. I'm sorry. Will you be with family this weekend at all?
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AHappierHour Senior Member One glass of champagne and I smile, two and I grin, but three I'm ever so ready to sin. Posts: 8,893 Likes: 4,514	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:33:50 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by AHappierHour on Nov 26, 2014 23:33:50 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:35:00 GMT -5

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Nov 26, 2014 23:29:32 GMT -5 mofongo said:

Nov 26, 2014 23:05:28 GMT -5 @imback said:

H and I didn't have sex for a year.

I am sorry things are strained and you're feeling badly. It sucks and it's a shitty position to be in.

Remember you can rub one out too.

This seems helpful!

Sarcasm? Look, I am sorry that she's suffering, but things can improve. That is important to know. And she can help herself sexually. I think everyone else's advice to talk about it, is very helpful too.

Sometimes when a person is in a situation and it's painful, it can feel very static and immovable and like the present will go on forever, but things change and improvement is a possibility.

You might not like my contribution, but whatevs. I am trying to help.

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ooglie26 Full Member Goonies never say die! Posts: 2,595 Likes: 1,008	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:37:32 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ooglie26 on Nov 26, 2014 23:37:32 GMT -5 Nov 26, 2014 23:15:14 GMT -5 speckledfrog said: Well, damn. Do you think he was intentionally trying to hurt your feelings? I have no idea. I don't think so.
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wysiwyg Full Member Posts: 2,319 Likes: 1,973	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:41:45 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wysiwyg on Nov 26, 2014 23:41:45 GMT -5 Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. There is nothing wrong with you. You will need to talk about this with him, though.
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olegregg Full Member Posts: 1,790 Likes: 719	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:49:10 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by olegregg on Nov 26, 2014 23:49:10 GMT -5 I'm so sorry, that sucks. I hope you can resolve whatever is happening, and soon.
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starlily Elder Posts: 12,355 Likes: 10,656	Didn't see that one coming... Nov 26, 2014 23:54:25 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by starlily on Nov 26, 2014 23:54:25 GMT -5 I'm sorry. There's nothing wrong with you. He owes it to you to communicate what's really going on.
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