I freaking hate when my husband does this.

[saraandmichael]

He texted me around 6 that he is at a happy hour. I was all "great! have a good time! see you when you get home."

Then about 30 minutes ago I realized that this thing called Fetishcon is happening tonight and its right near his work. He went last year and I was sure he was there again (which I confirmed).

Just effing tell me thats where you're at. Don't be all "oh, happy hour!"

Please note: I do not care in the least that he is at this thing. Thanks.

[cahabalily]

Maybe you'll get a Dick dance when he gets home...

[saraandmichael]

Aug 3, 2012 19:31:36 GMT -5 @smace said:

dude, I'd be really pissed that he lied. I mean, fine go to the sex fetish convention, but omg -the lying would infuriate me.

thats exactly it!

and i guess its not technically lying...more omission? but its sneaky and i don't like that shit.

[cahabalily]

No that's lying...

[peachykate]

Super annoying, do you call him out on it when he does it?

[kdmac]

ugh my h does shit like that and when i find out(which I always do) He`s always like "well i thought you`d get mad". For some reason he still doesn`t get that I get more mad when he does that though.

[saraandmichael]

Aug 3, 2012 19:33:43 GMT -5 peachykate said:

Super annoying, do you call him out on it when he does it?

hell yes i do.

and i don't really get angry at many things...but i am angry.

[flex]

Aug 3, 2012 19:26:37 GMT -5 saraandmichael said:

He texted me around 6 that he is at a happy hour. I was all "great! have a good time! see you when you get home."

Then about 30 minutes ago I realized that this thing called Fetishcon is happening tonight and its right near his work. He went last year and I was sure he was there again (which I confirmed).

Just effing tell me thats where you're at. Don't be all "oh, happy hour!"

Please note: I do not care in the least that he is at this thing. Thanks.

So do you know for sure that he's going to the Fetishcon thing?

[emilythorne]

Sorry he decided to be a lying ass. On the plus side, maybe you will have angry/fetishcon sex? Could be interesting.

[bab]

I would not consider that a lie "by omission." He told an outright lie. I would be so fucking through the roof over something like that. It would make me question how many other lies he tells with a totally straight face.
Kick hs butt dude

[saraandmichael]

Aug 3, 2012 20:06:06 GMT -5 flex said:

Aug 3, 2012 19:26:37 GMT -5 saraandmichael said:

He texted me around 6 that he is at a happy hour. I was all "great! have a good time! see you when you get home."

Then about 30 minutes ago I realized that this thing called Fetishcon is happening tonight and its right near his work. He went last year and I was sure he was there again (which I confirmed).

Just effing tell me thats where you're at. Don't be all "oh, happy hour!"

Please note: I do not care in the least that he is at this thing. Thanks.

So do you know for sure that he's going to the Fetishcon thing?

yes. i texted him saying that when he said happy hour i now realize he meant fetishcon. he texted back saying 'its such a freak show' and i said "next time don't hide it from me."

and there is no way i am in any mood to have any sort of sex with him tonight. eff that.

[Deleted]

That's so annoying -- I hate that crap.

[flex]

Aug 3, 2012 20:37:04 GMT -5 saraandmichael said:

Aug 3, 2012 20:06:06 GMT -5 flex said:

So do you know for sure that he's going to the Fetishcon thing?

yes. i texted him saying that when he said happy hour i now realize he meant fetishcon. he texted back saying 'its such a freak show' and i said "next time don't hide it from me."

and there is no way i am in any mood to have any sort of sex with him tonight. eff that.

I'd be livid--absolutely livid.

[Deleted]

No. Not okay. I'd volunteer to go to the fetish convention and kick him in the balls repeatedly. But then I'd be worried that the ball-kicking fetishers would line up.

[eb777888]

Yeah, that would upset me, too. I mean, I wouldn't be at defcon 1 over it, but I'd be pretty pissed off.

[Deleted]

I would definitely be upset at the lying, especially since clearly you wouldn't have told him he couldn't go or something if he had been honest.

[Deleted]

Did he lie about it last year, too? This would definitely irritate me.

[lemondrop]

Aug 3, 2012 19:33:04 GMT -5 saraandmichael said:

Aug 3, 2012 19:31:36 GMT -5 @smace said:

dude, I'd be really pissed that he lied. I mean, fine go to the sex fetish convention, but omg -the lying would infuriate me.

thats exactly it!

and i guess its not technically lying...more omission? but its sneaky and i don't like that shit.

Agreed on all accounts.

[saraandmichael]

Aug 3, 2012 21:35:20 GMT -5 @jezebel said:

Did he lie about it last year, too? This would definitely irritate me.

nope! he went and showed pictures and we had a few good laughs over it. its just so weird.

[Deleted]

Well then that's super dumb. Oh well, men are so weird sometimes.