Yikes! That really sucks that she did that, but at the same time, I probably wouldn't have posted pics of myself on FB that were unflattering in the first place because once they're out there, they're out there, and you really have no control over people downloading them and doing whatever with them.
How did she get those pics, anyway? Is she your FB friend? If not, you might want to make them private...
Maybe send her a few pics for this year's slideshow, and make a point of telling her you're sending them so she doesn't need to go hunting for any others?
Yeah, I wouldn't have been impressed either. I actually would have been less impressed with the person that posted the pictures online and tagged me in them.
Uh huh, so what you are telling me is you vote "no" towards my submitting the following suggestion:
"Yo Bitch, How about you don't take postpartum pix without permission and put them up on a movie screen...on repeat. But really, the last reunion was quite lovely, carry on!"
I think you should totally say that, then report back, of course.