RP from ML- T asked me to go to a wedding with him

[Bernadine]

In the beginning of October, so two months away. Is that a big deal?

He's so hard to read, because he's so quiet. I like how things are going with us, we've been keeping things pretty casual. Can we be casual and still making plans for two months down the road?

[ravenb1111]

No because October isn't to far, like 6 weeks. So it's good he sees you around 6 weeks from now but not like "hey next year want to go somewhere" like whoa we just met

[heavenly]

I don't see why not. If things do not work out, you can always cancel but I don't think is too far off.

[bullygirl979]

Sorry, but how long have you been dating again?

[Bernadine]

We've been dating about 2 months.

[blackkitty]

I prefer to wait until after 3 months to make any longer term plans including weekends away.

[bullygirl979]

Eh, I don't think it is *too* soon then. I mean, I would agree to go knowing that there may be a chance that I would bail because a lot can change in the span of 6 weeks especially seeing as you've only been dating 2 months.

To answer your question though, I don't think asking someone to a wedding 6-8 weeks away is 'casual' per se.

[ravenb1111]

I agree with the 3 months too, but it's a wedding so he probably has to RSVP and can't wait. I would have totally taken somebody I was super serious with to a wedding because at the end of the day it's suppose to be fun

[starburst604]

He liiiiikes you. Bernadine and T, sittin' in a tree.....