Thanks ladies... I've put the outfit together on polyvore, but can't figure out how to copy and paste on here. The shirt that I posted is a tunic and I was planning to wear a white button up shirt underneath it (with the sleeves rolled up) and with dark skinny jeans. Not sure on the shoes yet...maybe ballet flats or boots. My daughters are wearing pink and aqua, so they're pretty brightly colored, so I didn't want to wear anything with too much color.
Unfortunately, your stripes and white are going to be more color than your daughter in pink and aqua.
White creates a "dead space" in a photograph that the eyes are immediately drawn to. The stripes create an optical effect via the lens that muddies the lines/colors. Again, as someone who has been studying photography as a hobby for many years now, I strongly urge you to stay away from stripes, black and white.