So all the sex talk has me thinking...

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Do you regret your first time? I hear so many people say they do.
Mine was with my boyfriend of 4 years. I waited until I was 18. I don't regret it at all and am glad it was with someone I loved and trusted.

[sewf]

I don't regret that it happened or how it happened, just who it happened with. Plus, I was doing it because I was curious and all my friends were doing it. Yeah, not a good enough reason.

[rodeored]

Aug 10, 2012 22:17:28 GMT -5 @t2j said:

Do you regret your first time? I hear so many people say they do.
Mine was with my boyfriend of 4 years. I waited until I was 18. I don't regret it at all and am glad it was with someone I loved and trusted.

I do, it was with my first boyfriend and he definitely pushed me to do it before I was ready.

[papie]

No. I was 16, we had been dating for a month. But seriously, I was like the boys in american pie, depserate to finally get laid. So it was all good. And anyway, I was in loooooove.

[pantsparty]

No. I was 17 and in love with my boyfriend. It didn't end well, but my memories of that particular time are sweet. We were each others' first and believed we would get married. LOL.

[Deleted]

I definitely do. I was way too young.

[caffeinebean]

Aug 10, 2012 22:22:25 GMT -5 rodeored said:

Aug 10, 2012 22:17:28 GMT -5 @t2j said:

Do you regret your first time? I hear so many people say they do.
Mine was with my boyfriend of 4 years. I waited until I was 18. I don't regret it at all and am glad it was with someone I loved and trusted.

I do, it was with my first boyfriend and he definitely pushed me to do it before I was ready.

This is me, also. I wasn't ready at all.

[birdistheword]

I don't regret it at all. But it was with a douchey guy I had only been casually seeing. I was 18, a freshman in college, and the only one of my friends who was still a virgin. I just wanted to do it already. I had never planned on waiting until marriage...so it was what it was, lol.

[Marle]

No it was with my ex with whom I spent 9 years total.

I especially don't regret any of them. And yet DH is the best.

[verycontrary247]

I don't regret it. I just wanted to get that first awkward experience over with. I was 15, and it was with a friend.

[mrsjuleshs]

As crazy as it sounds, losing my virginity wasn't a big deal to me. Do I wish I had been older sure but it wasn't horrible. It wasn't with someone I was in love with though. I guess I have always looked at sex as more just a physical act for pleasure and not something really emotional.

[omeomi]

Kind of. He pushed it way too hard. I wasn't quite ready (at 18).

Turns out he was a pencil dick, too. At least it wasn't painful lol

[amberlyrose]

Aug 10, 2012 22:33:56 GMT -5 birdistheword said:

I don't regret it at all. But it was with a douchey guy I had only been casually seeing. I was 18, a freshman in college, and the only one of my friends who was still a virgin. I just wanted to do it already. I had never planned on waiting until marriage...so it was what it was, lol.

Almost mine to a T, but I regret it. We were both drunk but not wasted. I'm not even sure it was in at all because I didnt feel a thing.
I wish the second guy was my first. He was my ex but we casually dated after that. Nice guy, really liked and cared for me. After the first guy, I was like.. "well, I already lost it, might as well have fun with this guy!"

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Aug 10, 2012 22:36:00 GMT -5 mrsjuleshs said:

As crazy as it sounds, losing my virginity wasn't a big deal to me. Do I wish I had been older sure but it wasn't horrible. It wasn't with someone I was in love with though. I guess I have always looked at sex as more just a physical act for pleasure and not something really emotional.

This is pretty much me to a T. Except it was with a random and the next 4 guys were all fairly random, though one was a consistent friend with benefits. I will admit my view on sex has changed a bit because of H and the whole being in love stuff, but I don't regret it. I just didn't have any emotional attachment to sex until H.