Post by NomadicMama on Aug 12, 2012 13:42:49 GMT -5
It hasn't even been two months and I'm spent.
Why did I ever think that moving into a house where the garden is off limits to the dog (for the purpose of pottying) was a good idea? Sure, walking the dog in the vineyards is lovely, until my tiny tyrant refuses to walk and I have to carry him. Last week, he disobeyed me, so I strapped him into his stroller. He totally worked himself up crying and yelling--and puked on himself. Twice. And that leads me to. . .
For those of you who are not yet parents, or whose kids are still tiny, be forewarned. Sure, the terrible twos are rough, but two has nothin' on three. Honestly, had I known how challenging LO would be, I might not have so readily agreed to this set of orders.
I'm sure that I will feel better (soon, I hope). But I am tired. Oh--and we have LO's well child doctors appointment tomorrow. At 7:50am. Not my choice. Ugh. Please pass the wine before I whine some more.
Thanks for listening. :beer: Here's a good German beer for your time.
Post by honeybadger on Aug 12, 2012 14:42:10 GMT -5
I'm sorry things are challenging right now
I totally agree about 3s vs. "Terrible Twos", though. Late 3 and 4 has been more challenging than 2s mostly due to the ability to mouth off, verbally defy us, etc.
Stock up on the fantastic beer and wine there and hopefully this rough patch works itself out!! Thinking of you.
I'm sorry he's being tough on you Does he go to pre-school or DC at all?
Day care is my sanity saver these days. He only went two days last week, so that may be part of my problem. Though, in September, he starts German kindergarten--five days a week, six hours a day. I am so excited for him and relieved for myself. Before our move, I did not anticipate wanting to send him five days a week, but circumstances being what they are. . . It is best for both of us!
I totally agree about 3s vs. "Terrible Twos", though. Late 3 and 4 has been more challenging than 2s mostly due to the ability to mouth off, verbally defy us, etc.
Stock up on the fantastic beer and wine there and hopefully this rough patch works itself out!! Thinking of you.
Yes, it is the ability to sass back and be defiant. Ugh.
I am enjoying a Kahlua and Cream (well, milk) now with Oreos. (TT wanted them when we were at the commissary. Far be it from me to deny him his first Oreo experience!)
Post by crimewatcher on Aug 12, 2012 15:39:20 GMT -5
I am sorry things are rough. 3 was always my favorite age but that is probably because I don't have any children of my own.
I agree with Honeybadger, stock up on the that awesome German Beer!! Hopefully he will get through this stage quickly and you will be able to keep your sanity.
Post by prettyinpink on Aug 12, 2012 16:09:47 GMT -5
I'm sorry things are tough right now. September will be here before you know it and maybe with being away from you for so long during the day he will be his sweet self more when he is with you!
Post by NomadicMama on Aug 13, 2012 1:59:23 GMT -5
Thanks, ladies! I will be thankful when September arrives, for kindergarten. My parents arrive in October and they will be here for three months. It will get better.
We made it for LO's appointment, which went fairly well. We are now enjoying cinnamon rolls before I drop him off at hourly care. Then, I'll head home to pay attention to the dog, who is feeling rather ignored these days.
Post by honeybadger on Aug 13, 2012 8:00:39 GMT -5
That is great that your parents will be there for an extended visit! That should help out a LOT.
I, too, am looking forward too September. Soccer starts in a few days and school starts for DS on the 5th. He is so excited and I can't wait to use that time to nap until the baby is here (lol, jk. kind of.)!
You are doing a great job and your messages have been so encouraging to me and will be a huge source of encouragement throughout the year.
Oh, yikes! I know I got off easy with L (but I am paying for it and then some now and she is pushing 9). Hoping against hope that EJ will be a relatively easy toddler…
Post by mom2many2012 on Aug 14, 2012 17:38:00 GMT -5
3 is a crazy age. I, for one can not wait for school to start. Today my mom asked me if I was sure I didn't want just "one more". No. WAY. I have 5 and she had 2. lol Hang in there!