TrickyBob (and others) Thanking by sex isn't a tit for tat thing. I could substitute making a meal or an equally nice gesture but I just bought new breasts a couple weeks ago so I am all about the sex right now.
I'm thinking if your need for new boobs trumps your need to budget for the week so you don't have to borrow money and use your vagina for payment, you need to readjust your priorities.
"Ladies days" is way more flammable than thank you sex. Thank you sex is a total win. You get to look nice and both of you enjoy it!
Plus, I'm pretty sure thank you sex is mentioned pretty frequently on here in the form of "H cleaned the whole house today. I can tell he wants some." If sex happens under these circumstances is it not a thank you?
TrickyBob (and others) Thanking by sex isn't a tit for tat thing. I could substitute making a meal or an equally nice gesture but I just bought new breasts a couple weeks ago so I am all about the sex right now.
Wait, what? You bought new breasts, but you can't afford gas?
"Ladies days" is way more flammable than thank you sex. Thank you sex is a total win. You get to look nice and both of you enjoy it!
Plus, I'm pretty sure thank you sex is mentioned pretty frequently on here in the form of "H cleaned the whole house today. I can tell he wants some." If sex happens under these circumstances is it not a thank you?
I prefer to judge based on her whole post. Ladies days and thank you sex coupled together irked me. Plus borrowing the money.
I feel like ML writes it a little more..tactfully generally.
TrickyBob (and others) Thanking by sex isn't a tit for tat thing. I could substitute making a meal or an equally nice gesture but I just bought new breasts a couple weeks ago so I am all about the sex right now.
Wait, what? You bought new breasts, but you can't afford gas?
Maybe she meant chicken breasts? I think you can get bags of frozen ones cheap at Costco.
Confession: I'm in a cycle of being tired of my single status. And I feel like I'm not trying hard enough, but when I was trying hard with online dating, it affected my self esteem and wound up feeling crappy about the whole process. What am I doing wrong? ::sigh::
(((hugs))) I am 100% in the same camp. Too bad you live so far away
I'm thinking if your need for new boobs trumps your need to budget for the week so you don't have to borrow money and use your vagina for payment, you need to readjust your priorities.
well when you put it like that, sounds a lot less legit...
I really miss my life with just H and the dog. Like, a lot.
I hear you. After school lets out my kids are going to go stay with my parents for several days and H wants me to join him on a business trip (he was just going for the day but he was thinking I should come and we can extend it) to San Diego. I would rather just stay home and enjoy our house and dog and spend the time walking downtown, sleeping in our own bed, some day drinking at the wineries around here etc. Our kids are in 6th and 4th grade and all we do is shuttle from school to games to their friends etc. Which most of the time is just fine but a few days in our own house with no responsibilities or places to be sounds amazing!
Post by VeryViolet on Apr 28, 2015 14:49:11 GMT -5
I am not defending, lady days, thank you sex or the weirdo new boobs thing but I do get all money that I steal from my husband's wallet in increments of $20. That is how he gets it out of the atm. LOL
Post by textbookcase on Apr 28, 2015 14:51:56 GMT -5
I seriously need a vacation. Alone. I'm so overwhelmed with kids and pets and house and everything. I feel like I'm constantly picking up after every single person in this house, and at least 3 of them (older girls and H) should be able to pick the hell up after themselves!
This might be party due to the fact that I just spend the entire weekend dealing with the Stomach Bug From Hell. All 3 kids.
This is me and yogurt. I have no desire to like cottage cheese, though.
you've both captured my feelings on hummus. It actually makes me a little sad. Why can't you taste better, hummus? I wish to consume you.
Have you tried different kinds? I was very VERY anti-hummus initially, and still am decidedly unimpressed by some hummus offerings, but the selected hummuses (hummi) I enjoy? I enjoy the SHIT out of them.
you've both captured my feelings on hummus. It actually makes me a little sad. Why can't you taste better, hummus? I wish to consume you.
Have you tried different kinds? I was very VERY anti-hummus initially, and still am decidedly unimpressed by some hummus offerings, but the selected hummuses (hummi) I enjoy? I enjoy the SHIT out of them.
I haven't. I'll do that next. I tried making my own and it was worse. And the tahini is expensive!
Have you tried different kinds? I was very VERY anti-hummus initially, and still am decidedly unimpressed by some hummus offerings, but the selected hummuses (hummi) I enjoy? I enjoy the SHIT out of them.
I haven't. I'll do that next. I tried making my own and it was worse. And the tahini is expensive!
Yeah, leave it to the experts! My faves (which I think are pretty widely popular) are Sabra roasted red pepper and their Tuscan herb. Bonus -- neither of those flavors were part of the recall!
TrickyBob (and others) Thanking by sex isn't a tit for tat thing. I could substitute making a meal or an equally nice gesture but I just bought new breasts a couple weeks ago so I am all about the sex right now.
This seems like the literal definition of tit for tat then, no?
I'm sorry it was spoiled for you, but I am surprised this is the first spoiler you've seen of this! I'm almost caught up with this season but I wasn't able to avoid this past week's spoilers because of social media. I still don't know the details, but I get the basic gist of what happened.
Entertainment Weekly has been getting really bad with posting immediate spoilers on their FB feed. I don't watch GA, but I knew immediately what happened. I think that same night.
I think I don't get quite as worked up about spoilers as some people. I get it if the show, like, JUST ENDED or it's the next morning or something, but it's been four days.
I hate the "HIDE SPOILERS!" Thing with book or shows that were published YEARS ago.
No.
And FYI, Old Yeller got Shot and Bruce Willis is actually dead.
I feel like a shitty parent lately. I'm very focused on losing weight and I feel like parenting beyond the basic minimum of feeding, bathing, and clothing her has been pushed aside while I try to get down to my goal. If I go to the gym before work, I'm falling asleep by 8, usually as I'm cleaning up dinner dishes. If I wait until after work, I lose about an hour of spending any time with her while I'm doing whatever workout I've got planned. I'm trying to find activities that will include her (I got a bike trailer to take her with me for rides, sometimes she'll do yoga with me), but I'm being hit with a heavy dose of mom guilt if I go for a run or decide to make a dinner that takes two hours to prepare. I keep trying to tell myself that I'll be a better mom when I'm at a healthy weight and can run around with her, and that I'm teaching her about healthy eating, but that nagging guilty feeling is still hanging around in my head.
Your whole life doesn't have to be motherhood and in order to put something else in the mix, something has to give. How you do the juggle and what you choose to include is up to you. Personally, I am not happy with my weight, so that is a priority for me. I am autopiloting food and doing the same meals over and over again. I also prioritize my son and his schoolwork and reading. My drawing work suffers in my current mix. There's only so much of me to go around. I give it my all, which is probably what you're doing too and you shouldn't fault yourself.
I'd probably have assumed it was okay to do too at this point. I don't think she needs to leave it up, but I also don't get the OMG DUDE TAKE IT DOWN reactions either. But then, I spoil myself for everything. I love reading spoilers.
Same here. I used to just look up the entire plot of a movie to make sure no dogs died and it has evolved into me spoiling every single book, tv show, movie, you name it. My H gets SO mad.