I might kill my husband

[prettyinpink]

OMG! He is been the biggest asshole today. I have been nothing but patient this last week with all this stupid truck stuff we are dealing with but today was the straw that broke the camel's back.

This morning he texts me at 7:30 that he can't pick me up from work at 5. Maybe he could pick me up at 4 and then I could go back after I drop him off at school. I said " Um no I can't leave its only the two of us today and between 3 and 4 is witching hour with patients so no sorry, I'll just take light rail home". He doesn't want me taking light rail in the evenings because of the people who ride it here in the evenings ( homeless primarily). My coworker offers to take me home, so that was awesome problem solved. Nope way too easy. He hooked the fucking security bar on the front door. I got fucking locked out for the second time in a week!!!! I call and he says " I'm busy I can't come help you right now" Well FU! Anyways he finally comes home, and sits in the drive way and honks, I had no idea it was him I was in the backyard. He comes around and says come on lets go. I was like why am I going anywhere? He's like well how am I suppose to get to school!!! I said " Dude all I needed as for you to come open the garage door so I could get in the house!!!!" So he lets me in and leaves.

I'm so pissed. So so pissed. I'm trying so hard not to be mad at him because I know its been a long week for him too but he isn't the one with no car! Ugh!

[brandienee]

Wow, I don't think I've ever seen you use swear words... you are pissed.

I am sorry everything is so stressful. It is an adjustment, for sure.

Is there a way you can get a key pad so you can open your garage door?

[prettyinpink]

Aug 15, 2012 21:15:48 GMT -5 brandienee said:

Wow, I don't think I've ever seen you use swear words... you are pissed.

I am sorry everything is so stressful. It is an adjustment, for sure.

Is there a way you can get a key pad so you can open your garage door?

Thanks B.

You're right, I never swear unless I'm really upset.

I decided I'm going to take the spare garage door opener out of his truck and stick it in my work bag in case this happens again. I'm seriously contemplating removing the security bar from the door.

I'm trying to get the mad out before he gets home. He really doesn't deserve me to be so mad but he will know that he hurt my feelings pretty badly today.

[prettyinpink]

Aug 15, 2012 21:22:32 GMT -5 killercupcake said:

I know you're angry because you dropped the eff bomb like three times.

I'd be thoroughly annoyed too.

And FWIW, I've ridden the light rail up there. I think you'd be absolutely fine during rush hour. It's not like you're on one of the last routes of the night.

Its the area I work in. I work up in Rancho, both the stations near my work have a huge homeless population that hang out around them and ride frequently in the evenings. If I was coming from downtown to where we live I'd be fine but since I'm coming from Rancho to right before Sac State I'm not so sure. I totally have no problem in the mornings though.

[brandienee]

Making sure you have an opener is a great idea.

[prettyinpink]

Thanks girls.
I had a melt down about riding it after work last Wednesday so he just doesn't want me to be upset. But I had no problem riding it but he just threw such a fit about it that I let D bring me home.

[basilosaurus]

He honked as a way of announcing his presence?! That alone would make me livid.

What's wrong with riding among the homeless? Just because people are poor doesn't make them automatically dangerous. I used to take a bus with a ton of homeless. Mostly they're just there to stay warm/cool. Occasionally they'll talk to you while you're waiting at a stop because, you know, they're humans. And humans engage each other.

[prettyinpink]

Aug 15, 2012 21:40:35 GMT -5 basilosaurus said:

He honked as a way of announcing his presence?! That alone would make me livid.

What's wrong with riding among the homeless? Just because people are poor doesn't make them automatically dangerous. I used to take a bus with a ton of homeless. Mostly they're just there to stay warm/cool. Occasionally they'll talk to you while you're waiting at a stop because, you know, they're humans. And humans engage each other.

Nothing. I just don't feel safe. I'm a very shy person and don't like riding the light rail to begin with and then I get around people that I don't know and that makes me nervous and then I start to get overwhelmed.

[basilosaurus]

I understand more since you posted above (as I was posting) that you had a bad experience. The OP read as though he was banning you based on his own feelings.