Why do newbies assume there will be

[gogadgetgo]

Puppies and rainbows 24/7?

I'm all for support but good lord.

[boop]

I guess it's personalities? When I first started getting BOTB (a long time ago and wasn't ready to TTC) I researched and lurked on my own. I never even thought to ask on the board. I figured a few pages back or a quick google search would answer me. I've also never looked outward to others for support though. I'm an introvert and prefer to answer my own questions. I use the board for socialization with others who may be like-minded and entertainment.

[statlerwaldorf]

The whole idea of joining a message board for support is foreign to me. I have found support, but I wasn't seeking it when I joined. Plus the other p&r type boards piss me off. I spent one day on the What To Expect boards and ran running and screaming.

[gnomesweetgnome]

Aug 18, 2012 8:10:00 GMT -5 statlerwaldorf said:

I have found support, but I wasn't seeking it when I joined.

I agree with this. I think the branding on the Bump leads people to believe that everyone is blissfully TTC/KU and we all just sit around thinking "isn't this great!?" all the time.

[btay]

Aug 20, 2012 9:24:38 GMT -5 gnomesweetgnome said:

Aug 18, 2012 8:10:00 GMT -5 statlerwaldorf said:

I have found support, but I wasn't seeking it when I joined.

I agree with this. I think the branding on the Bump leads people to believe that everyone is blissfully TTC/KU and we all just sit around thinking "isn't this great!?" all the time.

you mean you don't?