I'm still on mat leave but will be going to our annual conference for the next 2 days. H took those days off work to take care of C. He works from home and is very involved with her care so he totally knows the drill, my Inlaws live right around the corner from us, several of his girlfriends are on mat leave right now and around for playdates (I see them regularly too so C knows all the kids) and if worst comes to worst, even though I'm sleeping over, I'm really just an hour away and could come home any minute. Should be no problem, right?
H is suddenly all nervous and stressed like "I don't know how to do this, omg!!!!!". I gave him a list of what an ideal day looks like from a timing perspective (ie naps and food) and he has like totally reworked it into a comprehensive schedule that he has printed out and everything. Lol!! I'm like, look babe, there is a complicated way to do this and an uncomplicated way to do this. You will have more fun if you pick the uncomplicated way! Basically, if she looks tired put her to bed. If she looks hungry then feed her. Even if you completely screw it up, no one will ever find out! She can't talk!
I feel for the guy, but I think this is going to be so good for him!!