Fess up Ladies!

[jojoandleo]

Aug 21, 2015 12:43:44 GMT -5 1234FIF! said:

Aug 21, 2015 9:45:30 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

I checked mine and MH's. Nada. Im not surprised. I totally trust MH. But, I also know he's totally smart enough to use a fake email.

I feel like the poster who said she found her H's email, but he told her he heard about it on Howard stern and wanted to check it out is lying to herself. But that may be my trust issues. No way would I buy that story from MH, even though I DO trust him. I'd buy "huh? Someone must have used my email address" before I believed someone is dumb enough to use their ACTUAL email address just to check it out out of curiosity.

I think the folks who didn't pay money may skate by with a lame excuse about being curious, some side-eye from a spouse and maybe a good long talk about the state of the marriage to be sure everything is as it should be, but folks should still stay woke, though. I would have my third eye on that mofo for a good long while.  

Now, the folks who actually spent some money on there who don't have open marriages and/or didn't have some kind of permission or whatever from their spouse, they got some 'splainin' to do. 

Yeah, if MH's email popped up, I'd be digging into whether he paid anything. I don't know if that poster looked for more info. She seemed to blow it off right from the beginning.

[redredwine]

Aug 20, 2015 20:18:21 GMT -5 abcdefu said:

Who has checked if their ex-h or stbxh is on the Ashley Madison site??

My ex-h isn't on there, but then again he didn't need to use the internet to cheat on me.

I did! 

I checked both my H and my XH (admit it married ladies..you checked!). Both came up clean in all the email addresses I knew. I honestly wasn't worried about either using it, even though XH had an emotional affair before he left me. I dont' think he was looking to stray, but something better came along and it was a better fit for him.

 Curiosity killed the cat. Eh. 

 Now, I wish I knew my BIl's email...

[pinkdutchtulips]

I looked !

The one email addy I have for xh wasn't there BUT for all I know he could have created another email addy that I didn't know about :/ I wish you could have searched by cc # ...

[abcdefu]

Aug 22, 2015 7:14:03 GMT -5 pinkdutchtulips said:

I looked !

The one email addy I have for xh wasn't there BUT for all I know he could have created another email addy that I didn't know about :/ I wish you could have searched by cc # ...

I had a client whose husband was on there. AM charges don't come up as 'Ashley Madison dot com' on credit card statements. I forget how it was listed.

Also, locally, there are a bunch of employees of a big city near me that used their work emails to register (email addresses ended in ".city"). Now they are investigating whether the employees were using the website and meeting up with women on the city's clock. 

[cam13]

I checked XH's two emails that he uses now because I can't remember the one he used while we were married, but nothing popped up.