We are fairly certain we are going for #2 in June, and I'm freaking out. I don't think I'm ready to be pg again.
This is me. I do NOT want to destroy my body and I don't want to give birth either (and I rock at giving birth- the babies just fly out of me- but in a fast and painful way, not in an ommmmmmmm way). Birth SUCKS. It HURTS. Can I just get a well attached 2 year old delivered to me?
This was totally our thinking for having our kids 21 months apart. And you know, it actually worked out really well.
haha, good to know in case I get a BFP in another week I feel like #2 is going to be a lot harder to pull the trigger on than #1 was-- now I know all the work that is involved! I'd almost rather it just be an oops!
Our second was an oops and it was probably the best thing that could of happened. I know I would of had a very hard time pulling the trigger on the second for various reasons. Our boys are three days shy of 16 months apart and it has been awesome for the most part. They go through stages back to back so we don't ever feel like we are starting over and the youngest is always trying to keep up with the oldest so in many ways its like having twins.
Post by UnderProtest on May 18, 2012 17:11:54 GMT -5
I kind of want another one which is funny because I always thought I wanted two kids and my husband wanted three. Now he is at two and I'm at three. They were such good babies that it doesn't sound too bad. But I don't think I can go through IVF again, so I think we are stuck at two.