Tuesday Randoms

[pantsoffdanceoff]

I slept weird last night so my neck is hurting.

I have a dinner date tomorrow night with a new guy that I've been texting with, I'm hopeful.

2 dresses that I bought a month ago from Nordstrom went on sale so I re-ordered them (plus another pair of matching bras and underwear) and will return the other ones (they still have the tags). I felt very savvy because I only spent $1 more.

[bl]

pantsoffdanceoff that Laura Mercier lip stain you gave me is GORGEOUS. I am in love!

I still have not gotten my credit from Sephora and will be calling them today. I feel like complete crap today and have bowling league tonight which is the last thing I want to do.

[1confused1]

I have a raging headache and don't want to go to work :-(

[glitzyglow]

I have a flameful: I really like Justin Bieber's new song.

My fridge at work is broken and all my meals planned for this week are cold. I need to buy an ice pack for my lunchbox today since I don't have one. I guess I'm going to go buy one at lunch and pick up lunch.

I get my haircut on Friday. I am pumped!

[pantsoffdanceoff]

Sept 1, 2015 9:20:05 GMT -5 bl said:

pantsoffdanceoff that Laura Mercier lip stain you gave me is GORGEOUS. I am in love!

I still have not gotten my credit from Sephora and will be calling them today. I feel like complete crap today and have bowling league tonight which is the last thing I want to do.

I just looked at your FOTD and it looks SOO good on you! It did not look like that on me, lol.

[bl]

Sept 1, 2015 9:30:17 GMT -5 glitzyglow said:

I have a flameful: I really like Justin Bieber's new song.

So do I and the new Selena Gomez song.  

I am irrationally annoyed.  My BFF text me and asked if I got a package today.  I told her no and she says Fedex says it was delivered at 9am.  I contacted our shipping and receiving dept and they confirm they have it, but are really backed up and won't get around to checking the boxes in for several hours.  Quit holding my package hostage . 

[achase123]

My friend came over last night and she was wearing Younique lashes. They looked scary and she said they're super heavy. I don't think I'll be rushing out to buy any.

It's been over a week and no word from Xh about scheduling a visit with P. I've called both facilities and so has my attorney to give them notice. We've covered our bases now it's up to him. Ps counselor seems to think he won't actually follow through with the visit. I know we have plans to go OOT this weekend so I'm not waiting around to see what he wants to do.

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I called out from work to take care of some paperwork for my out of state license application.
Everything is friggin impossible to take care of in one shot. It is so FRUSTRATING.
I had to go to 3 different places before I actually found a notary that was working today. Then I had to go to my local police for some paperwork...I drove around for 30 minutes looking for parking and when I finally got there they told me I needed a "money order only" to pay. So I left to go to the pharmacy for a money order. I pay and they printed it out, but the machine ran out of paper and they had no more. Then I stood there for 20 minutes while they figured out how to refund my money. Then I had to drive somewhere else for a money order. Finally got money order, drove back to police precinct, find parking, come in and find out the only person that does fingerprints is at lunch and will be back in 30 minutes. Fuck, fuck, fuck!!!!! At least 5 officers are sitting here playing with their cell phones and joking around, but none of them can help. When this is done I have to run home, make copies of all this shit and then go to the post office and send it out. An all day affair. Grrrr

[redshoejune]

@blueyes623 I went through the same thing last year and it was such a pain.

I'm getting my house appraised right now and the guy doing it is cute.

[cam13]

Per the divorce decree, XH and I agreed to sell the house in December. I'm trying to get it ready- painting, slowly packing closets, landscaping, etc. He's being an ass about it all, of course. And he's being an ass over text bc I refuse to call or answer his call. Ugh

Anyway, I am so happy it's September! Bring on all the goodness of the last few months of the year, I am so ready to cozy into my house and enjoy the last holiday season with my sister, BIL, niece, and little brother all under my roof.

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Sept 1, 2015 12:41:45 GMT -5 redshoejune said:

@blueyes623 I went through the same thing last year and it was such a pain.

I'm getting my house appraised right now and the guy doing it is cute.

I feel like all state or government paperwork is such a pain. I work M-F during business hours and doing this on a Saturday wouldn't have been possible so it really stinks. I thought I'd possibly be done with this by noon and maybe, just maybe, I could go to the beach for a couple of hours. But now it's 3pm..I'm going to pick up something for a late ass lunch and then decide what I can do to relax a bit.

[sweetchix]

I GOT MY QDRO MONEY!!!!!!!

Sorry for shouting, but I've waited almost 2 1/2 FUCKING YEARS for this!!!

[1confused1]

Sept 1, 2015 14:33:53 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

I GOT MY QDRO MONEY!!!!!!!

Sorry for shouting, but I've waited almost 2 1/2 FUCKING YEARS for this!!!

Congrats!

Can I ask how?  I can't get mine until xh is of retirement age.

[sweetchix]

Sept 1, 2015 14:45:31 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

Sept 1, 2015 14:33:53 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

I GOT MY QDRO MONEY!!!!!!!

Sorry for shouting, but I've waited almost 2 1/2 FUCKING YEARS for this!!!

Congrats!

Can I ask how?  I can't get mine until xh is of retirement age.

I honestly don't know. Maybe it was worded a certain way in our agreement?!?

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I've been texting + Skype with my ex boyfriend for almost a week, after a 5 years hiatus....

The really horrible part : he's "unhappily" married.

Here's what pisses me off (and I need someone to smack some sense into me) he claims that he's been unhappy for the duration of the marriage (8+ years) and has cheated on her multiple times. They have no children. Yet, he's still with her.

He's never promised me he'd leave her or anything. He just says he's unhappy and grateful to have me in his life again.

But dude. The fuck.

And what the fuck am I doing.

This is probably more a flameful but I haven't told anyone irl and I needed to get it out.

[1confused1]

@blissoff I would end the conversations. That doesn't sound like a healthy human being and you don't want to get dragged into that mess.

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Sept 1, 2015 15:48:48 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

@blissoff I would end the conversations. That doesn't sound like a healthy human being and you don't want to get dragged into that mess.

It's not healthy at all. Then he texts me and I'm 19 all over again.

I should just block him before he gets off work.

[1confused1]

Sept 1, 2015 16:01:14 GMT -5 @blissoff said:

Sept 1, 2015 15:48:48 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

@blissoff I would end the conversations. That doesn't sound like a healthy human being and you don't want to get dragged into that mess.

It's not healthy at all. Then he texts me and I'm 19 all over again.

I should just block him before he gets off work.

And, who would want to be involved with someone who knowingly has been unhappy for 8 years and thinks it's ok to cheat (and tell an ex-girlfriend about it).

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Sept 1, 2015 16:12:21 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

Sept 1, 2015 16:01:14 GMT -5 @blissoff said:

It's not healthy at all. Then he texts me and I'm 19 all over again.

I should just block him before he gets off work.

And, who would want to be involved with someone who knowingly has been unhappy for 8 years and thinks it's ok to cheat (and tell an ex-girlfriend about it).

Reading that was like a punch in that gut. Wow. You're completely right. I don't need this bullshit.

Thanks. I've blocked him.

[1confused1]

Sorry for the tough love :-)

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Sept 1, 2015 16:36:15 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

Sorry for the tough love :-)

Don't be sorry. I needed to hear it.

And I'm feeling relieved now that I've blocked him. I'd been feeling in edge the last few days... And he's why.

As much as he's grown into the man I've always wanted, he's also grown into a cheating coward. And that definitely not someone I want in my life.