Post by downtoearth on Sept 1, 2015 13:36:27 GMT -5
I mean, it sounds like they were having some fun and then he drops this?! I'd be all...
... you thought telling me you want to have sex with a casual acquaintance that we see at the parent-teacher-meetings or book club would spice up our sex life.
If my husband even mentioned something like that I would stomp his balls.
Okay, I'm new here, but I can already tell I like you.
I'm usually nice and sweet and play nice at the park but if you start up any shenanigans with my kids, or talk some bullshit like "Please dress-up like Renee next door," I will finish you with whatever I have handy.
Post by oscarnerdjulief on Sept 1, 2015 15:07:34 GMT -5
I don't get the big deal. We do this all the time. (just kidding)
Super specific clothing? Wonder if she's a nun? That reminds me of Nixon and the pregnant nun. His slogan was "Nixon the one," so this liberal activist went around dressed as a nun with a sign saying "Nixon's the one."
I'm having a hard time figuring out if my marriage would survive this request.
If I'm completely honest with myself, mine wouldn't.
Yeah, I am thinking not insta-divorce, but over time the thought of "Darlene" and wondering if he was still thinking about Darlene would eat me up. Our marriage definitely would never be the same. Maybe I should give DH a heads up- hey just in case you fantasize about anyone in real life, NEVER TELL ME. I think this is a great example of healthy secrets to keep lol.
If I'm completely honest with myself, mine wouldn't.
Yeah, I am thinking not insta-divorce, but over time the thought of "Darlene" and wondering if he was still thinking about Darlene would eat me up. Our marriage definitely would never be the same. Maybe I should give DH a heads up- hey just in case you fantasize about anyone in real life, NEVER TELL ME. I think this is a great example of healthy secrets to keep lol.
Right? I would NEVER forget this request. If we stay together after this, you are on permanent sideeye. And you lack commonsense to even ask it out loud, so there's that.
Had someone I loved with every inch of me. Lived with him. Best sex of my life. We did lots of fun stuff. I even went along when he asked for this role playing. It's just fantasy, right?
We split up (for a different reason). He followed through with the fantasy and fucked my BEST FRIEND.
I will always wonder if I sort of encouraged him in that direction because I went along with the fantasy role playing. Or if he was already fucking her and I was just too stupid to see it.
Yeah, I am thinking not insta-divorce, but over time the thought of "Darlene" and wondering if he was still thinking about Darlene would eat me up. Our marriage definitely would never be the same. Maybe I should give DH a heads up- hey just in case you fantasize about anyone in real life, NEVER TELL ME. I think this is a great example of healthy secrets to keep lol.
Right? I would NEVER forget this request. If we stay together after this, you are on permanent sideeye. And you lack commonsense to even ask it out loud, so there's that.
I would seriously spend the rest of my life wondering "Why HER?!?!?" ... and not be able to let it go.
And when I wasn't wondering about that, I'd be all "...and who the hell does he think he is thinking it's cool to ask me that like it ain't no thang?!?!?!"