Saturday randoms

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Happy Saturday! We don't really have any plans for the weekend, just kinda playing it by ear. I had all sorts of weird dreams last night and my Nana and stepdad were in some of them.  I miss them.  

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I'm emotionally drained. A very close friend was assaulted by his boyfriend. He came and spent the night with me and my heart just hurts. We were up until 4am and then I had to get up to take a work call. I just want to crawl back in bed but I have a date to watch football with A which will be fun but I'm just sad and tired today.

[imalwaysme79]

I found out last night that my grandfather passed away. I haven't seen or spoken to him since I moved to Florida 19 years ago. I'm feeling a lot of guilt right now

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Hugs imalwaysme79

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Lots of heavy feelings this morning -- positive thoughts to everyone who needs them.

I'm trying to get over my writer's block and get a decent amount of work done so I'm not feeling guilty when I go to the beach with my friend later today.

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((imalwaysme79))

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((@pdx18)) that's rough.  Glad he has a good friend like you

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Oh god I'm reading a thread
On ML where the husband had plans to go away for the weekend. The thing he was going away for got cancelled so he decided to stay and do different activity with the same peeps. And the wife is pissed that he didn't come home to her. I just can't with this kind of crazy neediness.

[starburst604]

Sept 5, 2015 20:43:58 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Oh god I'm reading a thread
On ML where the husband had plans to go away for the weekend. The thing he was going away for got cancelled so he decided to stay and do different activity with the same peeps. And the wife is pissed that he didn't come home to her. I just can't with this kind of crazy neediness.

In my old life I would have felt the same way. But now, if one of us is being left alone with the baby, it's because the other is doing a particular special thing. I'd be sort of annoyed that my whole day was shot because he was just dicking around. It's hard to explain - I'm basically a hater if he gets to have "away" time for a dumb reason (and this happens frequently so I'm familiar with it). I hate that I get that way but it's such an adjustment and my lifestyle has changed a lot more than his.

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starburst I guess I just feel like both people need their time away, he gets a weekend you get a weekend. But this mentality is what ruins relationships for me. You each need your friend time. If you wann dick around that should be okay.
I hope I'm never in a position where my partner taking a nap and hanging with his friends breeds resentment.

[starburst604]

Sept 5, 2015 21:28:15 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

starburst I guess I just feel like both people need their time away, he gets a weekend you get a weekend. But this mentality is what ruins relationships for me. You each need your friend time. If you wann dick around that should be okay.
I hope I'm never in a position where my partner taking a nap and hanging with his friends breeds resentment.

Oh I want to smash his face in when he takes a nap lol. IF I CANT NAP, NO ONE NAPS!!!

We do both get time away, but it's just the normal order of things that the mom usually gets less of it. It can make me cranky. You have no reason to worry about any of this since you don't want kids.

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Hi starburst604! I was recently thinking that I haven't seen much of you lately. Hope you're having a good summer.  How is the cutiepie?

[starburst604]

Sept 6, 2015 1:38:54 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

Hi starburst604! I was recently thinking that I haven't seen much of you lately. Hope you're having a good summer.  How is the cutiepie?

Heyyy! I know, now that I'm back to work life is so busy. The summer went by in a flash. My babe is doing great, getting so big and such a good girl. We are slowly adjusting to life as parents as you can see

She was 4 months yesterday.

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starburst604, wow I can't believe she's 4 months already!  She is so precious!