Does DH know when you're ovulating?

[winecheery]

Do you keep track together?

I presently have opted to keep track of when I'm most fertile without sharing that news with DH as we start to ttc.

I just told him that whenever I said go, he has to jump to it! lol I told him any time could be game time, so he can never turn me down.

Truthfully, I guess I wanted to eliminate any stress from him to like, I don't know, perform differently or something just because "ok, this is the only week we've got...we're trying for a baby". And in the meantime, as cheesy as it sounds, we're enjoying being together and having a nice time of it too. (Sorry if TMI...)

Just wondered what other people's set up was!

[Jalapeñomel]

At first I told him, buy it really stressed us both out, and we decided I would just keep it to myself. However, he mst have some weird pheromones, because we are both super horny around ovulation.

[Jalapeñomel]

And yes, I said horny, lol.

[winecheery]

Aug 21, 2012 22:36:11 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

And yes, I said horny, lol.

Well I'm glad, it made me lol And good for you, yahoo!

[statlerwaldorf]

Not in the beginning. It stressed him out and he didn't want to know.

[Deleted]

We just talked about this last night. I asked him how much he wants me to share with him, and he wants to know all of it:-) It's cute how interested he is in the whole process (the charting, the temps, the OPKs). So as long as he wants me to tell him, I'll be keeping him in the loop.

[Cheesecake]

I keep it to myself, but he obviously knows, since suddenly we're doing it way way more than the rest of the month...

[jenn1298]

My DH is in the loop. I don't think I could keep it a secret even if I tried.

[sunflower22]

Ugh my DH doesn't want to know, I wish I could tell him though! I understand he doesn't want to feel any more stress or pressure about it than we already feel. When we first started trying (a year ago) he knew, and I will admit it made things a little less spontaneous/fun.

[thoseareradishes]

He generally knows, although I've been trying to not say much this month. Sometimes he asks about how things are going. We've been trying for sex EOD, and of course this month it looks like I will O later then the first 2. Argh!

[nevafaye]

He occasionally asks how it's going, and knows that I'm keeping track of all that, but doesn't want to have planned/scheduled sex.

So, I'm pretending to not plan it, lol.