Evening Randoms

[Eureka1984]

Because it's Sunday and I finally have a moment.


I'm going to vent about dating. Two months ago I took myself off of the dating websites and basically gave up. I focused more on work and myself but sometimes it just sucks. I miss having conversations with the opposite sex. I miss the normal banter and funniness. No I'm not looking for a relationship or to get back out in the dating world but I'm just feeling a bit lonely. Ugh

[glitzyglow]

I understand, Eureka1984. I've been there.

I'm back from my trip. It was gorgeous and nice to get away. There were NO single guys on the entire cruise ship (seriously), but my roommate and I made the most of it and talked a lot about what we want out of our futures, men or no men in our lives. We did miss our day in Turks and Caicos due to Hurricane Joaquin, which was disappointing, but I'd rather be safe than sorry.

I have so much laundry to do. I bought some cider to help me get through all the boring house errands I have to do tonight, lol.

[abcdefu]

I know how you feel Eureka1984. FB is filled with relationships, engagements, weddings, and babies. Then here I am like, I just want to experience the things you mentioned above; just banter and conversation. I just feel like I am never going to get to a place where I can have that. I honestly think I am going to die alone.

[abcdefu]

I finally stood up for myself today. I am prepared to go to the wedding I was going back and forth on attending. I made an announcement at my parents house during dinner and it went something like this:

 "Just so everyone is aware, I am bringing my chair to the wedding. If anyone here says anything negative to me about it, I will not be attending the wedding and the mother of the groom (my dad's sister) will know the EXACT reason (who said it and what they said) I am not attending. If someone says something to me while I am there, I will promptly leave."

My family was all like at me and I was like, "oh, can someone pass the pepper?"

[pandora]

I kicked my airbnb guest out this morning. She sucked and I literally told her that she had to leave and held the door open. My guests from thurs are back again and I would let them stay for free. So nice and respectful. We just sat and chatted for 2 hours while they relaxed with some drinks. Love them. I'm burning out from shitty, stressful guests and having people here 7 days/week. I need a vacation.


Oh, and I'm cooking a bun in the oven and I've seen the heartbeat twice! Not sharing on FB or IRL so shhhhh on there.

[abcdefu]

OMG pandora!!!!! Congratulations!!! SOOO excited for you!!!

[Eureka1984]

I hear ya abcdefu you're not going to die alone. I'll be sitting next to you. Lol. It just sucks when so many have someone to come home and talk to and I'm just like yep. I go home and pass out. It's depressing

[sweetchix]

Congrats pandora!
Glad to made it back safely glitzyglow.

I spent the day lazing around the house with mini hours of cleaning. I did some laundry, cleaned the bathrooms, organized the fridge, and went grocery shopping. I was going to wait to go until after the Bills game, but they were playing horribly so I went during the 3rd quarter. Found out while I was shopping that they lost

[pandora]

Oct 4, 2015 19:14:14 GMT -5 abcdefu said:

OMG pandora!!!!! Congratulations!!! SOOO excited for you!!!

thank you and GO YOU with your family! Put them on the hook for their atrocious behavior! Hugs, you are not going to die alone. We all feel that way while single at (many) times so it's normal and human but know that it's not true. You rock and when the right guy is there, you'll know.

[abcdefu]

Oct 4, 2015 19:22:34 GMT -5 Eureka1984 said:

I hear ya abcdefu you're not going to die alone. I'll be sitting next to you. Lol. It just sucks when so many have someone to come home and talk to and I'm just like yep. I go home and pass out. It's depressing

Blahahaha!! Trueee! Thank god there are a ton of gated-communities!

[cuddlyevil]

Oct 4, 2015 19:28:30 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

Congrats pandora!
Glad to made it back safely glitzyglow.

I spent the day lazing around the house with mini hours of cleaning. I did some laundry, cleaned the bathrooms, organized the fridge, and went grocery shopping. I was going to wait to go until after the Bills game, but they were playing horribly so I went during the 3rd quarter. Found out while I was shopping that they lost

Yep. They stunk it up.

[redshoejune]

I'm working on trying to accept the fact that xh is practically married, at least how it applies to my kids. We've been divorced for 8 months. My kids spend lots of nights at her house with her kids, and now she is spending night's at xh's apartment with my kids and without hers. He can't even spend one weekend night without her I guess? Or something. He treated me so bad that I left. He was supposed to be miserable and alone.

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Congrats pandora!!! And abcdefu you should be so proud of yourself! @euereka1984, yep I totally get it. I also feel out of the "club" persae as the only single person a lot. Like I just don't understand what being in a good relationship is like so I'm no help for advice and can't really relate to a lot of my friends at times.