Muddled ... I think so, yes. We have the same goals...house, pets, babies, retirement... But we can't reach those goals until we overcome certain issues... as in the issues he things I need to overcome in order to make him feel comfortable enough to move forward. I'm learning to recognize this as codependency? And of course I will never be able to over come them to his standards.
And frankly none of this matters because BABY MUDDLED
How are you doing?
Will we get to see a picture? Pretty pretty please?