So I technically didn't get bad news from the u/s this morning. I was told that it's just too early and they need to do a repeat, there was no fetal pole or heartbeat. (Today's u/s was in an office that is not attached to the OBs office, so they can't see last weeks scan.)
But my OB did the last u/s last week and he showed me the fetal pole and what he thought may be the heart beat. (He just couldn't get a good angle.)
So I'm not optimistic at all, I'm at home now with DH waiting to hear back from the high risk OB.
DH is trying to be optimistic and cheer me up but it's not working.
Edit: my doctor just called and said that in measuring 6w6d, so 2 days ahead of last Tuesday. She wasn't concerned, she said this can happen and she's seen it with good outcomes before. She booked me another u/s for next Thursday, so another week waiting, as well as 3 more betas. (Starting tomorrow)
Update: my HCG levels on Friday were 31,861, which can be completely normal for how far along I'm showing by u/s as well as how far along I should be. (6w6d-9w) obviously this doesn't show much until our next beta.
Love of my life baby boy born 11/11. One and done not by choice; 3 years of TTC yielded 4 MMC and 2 CPs, through 4 IUIs and 2 IVFs. Focusing on making the world a better place instead...and running.
Oh dear. I'm so sorry. I've still got everything crossed for you. I'm know it's hard to be hopeful after everything you've been through but just remember you have a lot of friends here who will keep the hope for you and all the positive vibes are headed your way. I hope your OB calls soon. Massive hugs for you and H! <3
Post by cactuscookie on Oct 8, 2015 16:25:48 GMT -5
That's so confusing. I thought I was reading last week's update for a minute there, because it's so similar. I hope you get resolution soon. I'm so glad your husband is there with you.
Trying for #3; FET 8/18 -- BFN. Leaving things up to chance for now... After three years, three IVFs, and two FETs, we finally have our miracle babIES!
Another week?! Come on! Ugh. Hopefully the betas are encouraging.
I'm sure the betas will determine what is going on , because waiting until next thurs may kill me.
We haven't told any family about the u/s's yet, and I have no idea how I'm going to get through the ILs (Canadian) thanksgiving dinner this weekend. (Just immediate family, they will want to talk only about the pregnancy.) at least mine is with a whole bunch of extended family that don't know so it won't be talked about. I think I may get DH to tell MIL and SIL that I am struggling with this pregnancy and don't want to talk about it. Maybe that will help. Ugh.
I'm so sorry that you didn't get better news yesterday. How frustrating! I will be keeping you in my thoughts and praying that you get amazing news next Thursday.