"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
I'm so used to having a specialist for everything. I'm not sure why this is so weird to me. Like i usually need a lot of mental preparation to go to the gyno. I'm not sure why I don't want this guy looking at my vagina. Haha.
I guess my PCP has always been a GYN? I've always seen my PCP for this and other things relating to OB/GYN.
ETA: I looked up my favorite Dr and I guess she's an Internist? I don't know exactly what that means. And my current Dr.'s specialty is Family Medicine.
Post by marylennox on Oct 22, 2015 14:52:42 GMT -5
Wut.
Lol. I don't see why this is weird.
But if you're that uncomfortable with it can't you just go to a gyno instead? I mean there are tons of doctors out there. Find another one that you're more comfortable with. No need to freak out.
My PCP changes every couple of years, as it's a teaching hospital and I usually see a resident. I loved this one dr, so just had her do my paps. Well, then I show up a couple of years ago, and it's this SUPER green SUPER awkward guy. During the medical history portion, he says "Oh, it says your husband is alive. That’s cool, that’s cool.” He left and the nurse came in to give me a gown, and I said to her "you know, it's running a little late, I think I'd better skip the pap and breast exam so I can get back to work on time," because I just wanted OUT and wanted the awkwardness to end. Dr comes back in, and after checking the notes, says “That’s a shame – I was really looking forward to doing your pap smear!” He stammered for a second and then said that he had to perform a certain number of them to be certified, and most of his patients were post-menopausal and didn't need them. He further went on to comment, while checking my eyes, ears, and lungs, that “those (paps) aren’t really [his] forte. I mean, there’s a reason [he] didn’t go into GYN as a specialty.” After a pause, he continued further, “Now, breast exams, I could do those all day!” It was so. so. bad. I felt like Tobias Funke was my Dr. I will never forget walking back to my office and like randomly bursting out laughing at the insanity of it.
My PCP changes every couple of years, as it's a teaching hospital and I usually see a resident. I loved this one dr, so just had her do my paps. Well, then I show up a couple of years ago, and it's this SUPER green SUPER awkward guy. During the medical history portion, he says "Oh, it says your husband is alive. That’s cool, that’s cool.” He left and the nurse came in to give me a gown, and I said to her "you know, it's running a little late, I think I'd better skip the pap and breast exam so I can get back to work on time," because I just wanted OUT and wanted the awkwardness to end. Dr comes back in, and after checking the notes, says “That’s a shame – I was really looking forward to doing your pap smear!” He stammered for a second and then said that he had to perform a certain number of them to be certified, and most of his patients were post-menopausal and didn't need them. He further went on to comment, while checking my eyes, ears, and lungs, that “those (paps) aren’t really [his] forte. I mean, there’s a reason [he] didn’t go into GYN as a specialty.” After a pause, he continued further, “Now, breast exams, I could do those all day!” It was so. so. bad. I felt like Tobias Funke was my Dr. I will never forget walking back to my office and like randomly bursting out laughing at the insanity of it.
My PCP changes every couple of years, as it's a teaching hospital and I usually see a resident. I loved this one dr, so just had her do my paps. Well, then I show up a couple of years ago, and it's this SUPER green SUPER awkward guy. During the medical history portion, he says "Oh, it says your husband is alive. That’s cool, that’s cool.” He left and the nurse came in to give me a gown, and I said to her "you know, it's running a little late, I think I'd better skip the pap and breast exam so I can get back to work on time," because I just wanted OUT and wanted the awkwardness to end. Dr comes back in, and after checking the notes, says “That’s a shame – I was really looking forward to doing your pap smear!” He stammered for a second and then said that he had to perform a certain number of them to be certified, and most of his patients were post-menopausal and didn't need them. He further went on to comment, while checking my eyes, ears, and lungs, that “those (paps) aren’t really [his] forte. I mean, there’s a reason [he] didn’t go into GYN as a specialty.” After a pause, he continued further, “Now, breast exams, I could do those all day!” It was so. so. bad. I felt like Tobias Funke was my Dr. I will never forget walking back to my office and like randomly bursting out laughing at the insanity of it.
No. No. No.
no.
I feel like that experience excuses you from doctors forever.
He is seriously just SO lucky it was me. I'm not some hot lil thang, and I knew there was zero come-on involved, but holy shit if he had said that to the wrong person who wasn't giving him a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge benefit of the doubt?! You just don't SAY that!! I actually sat on it for a few days, and since I work at the same place, I sent his supervisor an email. I asked that he be coached but refused to file a formal complaint. Though I did request a new doctor. LOL
it actually kind of is. The west coast is much more friendly to and familiar with family medicine than the east coast.
Internists: adults Family medicine: everything (babies, pregnancy, delivery, adults, elderly) OB/GYN: only female exams/delivery
The big argument for FM is that if you are an otherwise healthy individual, you don't need a specialist and with a more broad knowledge base they can help you with more aspects of your healthcare. It also saves money and for many people, it's nice that the whole family can see the same Dr. It's actually a weird notion that's gotten popularized that you need a specialist for every part of your body/stage of life.
I had to get a pap done at the student health center back in college when I needed to get a new Rx for some birth control pills. They see it all there.
I guess my PCP has always been a GYN? I've always seen my PCP for this and other things relating to OB/GYN.
ETA: I looked up my favorite Dr and I guess she's an Internist? I don't know exactly what that means. And my current Dr.'s specialty is Family Medicine.
Family medicine doctors are trained in treating patients from birth through geriatrics, so they can take care of kids and adults. They're also trained in ob/gyn. Sometimes (in more rural locations) they will take care of pregnant patients, including birth or will take care of women up through their first trimester. Depending on the residency program is how much training you get in peds, and obgyn, but all programs have minimum requirements.
Internal medicine doctors (internists) are only trained in adult medicine. They are also not trained in ob/gyn at all. So they typically can't do pap smears and you would need a family medicine or ob/gyn to do your routine gyn care.
Post by sandyapples on Oct 22, 2015 15:23:14 GMT -5
I have gone to the same family doctor since I was a toddler. He has always done my Pap smears. One time he put in the speculum and then knocks over the rickety lamp he was using as a vag spotlight. So I'm lying there, naked under a sheet with the speculum stuck up my hoohaw while he tried to fix the light. I was just hoping it wouldn't pop out to add to the chaos.
My RE also followed me for my first pregnancy. So super specialized doctor. And one day, at my post partum appointment, right before inserting my IUD, as I say there with my legs in stirrups and a fucking speculum in my vagina, his CELL PHONE RANG AND HE ANSWERED IT.