Would you consider relocating for this job? UPDATE #4 in OP

[daisyn]

Nov 15, 2015 16:59:27 GMT -5 imojoebunny said:

I would go for it. It will be hard on your son, but at the same time, middle school often is. I would look for a neighborhood with lots of kids. I grew up in a neighborhood with only one kid my same age (we are still friends). Maybe 5 kids within an age range I could play with, and while it made me very adaptable to different people, I wished for more opportunities to have friends. If need be, you could look for a townhouse or something that would not be so expensive or require much maintenance, while still giving him a chance to be in a community with more kids, that would allow him to travel more to see his dad or other adventures, and have positive after school/ summer opportunities.

Best wishes!

Yea I'm thinking about a house where they are close together/very small yard.  I bought a house with a half acre and the maintenance is a lot (price wise, I don't do it myself)

[vanillacourage]

If the position has been open for a while, use that + COL increase to get a great salary bump. Good luck!

[compassrose]

Great update!

[aurora]

Excellent update #2! Please be sure to let us know how it goes.

[bostonmichelle]

Great updates! Good luck this week!

[curtains]

I did this when my dd was 11. New state, more money, no real backup care aside from a bff, new middle school horror for my dd.

It is 3 years later and although the beginning was pretty rough we are in such a great place now. Dd adjusted, my income afforded us a better life and all around I really belive we made the right choice.

Good luck I hope it works out for you.

[daisyn]

Thanks everyone! I appreciate all the input and support
My only concern is I don't have experience in this industry except for one client at my last job was in this industry. I don't think it's a requirement of the job (industry experience) but I'm going to have to do a lot of research before the interview to make sure I know what I'm talking about!

[daisyn]

Nov 16, 2015 8:05:24 GMT -5 curtains said:

I did this when my dd was 11. New state, more money, no real backup care aside from a bff, new middle school horror for my dd.

It is 3 years later and although the beginning was pretty rough we are in such a great place now. Dd adjusted, my income afforded us a better life and all around I really belive we made the right choice.

Good luck I hope it works out for you.

Thanks for sharing your experience!  Very similar situation!

[curtains]

Nov 16, 2015 8:06:21 GMT -5 daisyn said:

Nov 16, 2015 8:05:24 GMT -5 curtains said:

I did this when my dd was 11. New state, more money, no real backup care aside from a bff, new middle school horror for my dd.

It is 3 years later and although the beginning was pretty rough we are in such a great place now. Dd adjusted, my income afforded us a better life and all around I really belive we made the right choice.

Good luck I hope it works out for you.

Thanks for sharing your experience!  Very similar situation!

I know, I just lurk over here but when I read your post I had to share.  It is almost exact, right down to being a single mom, leaving not close family behind and a bff in the new place.  
If you get the job feel free to PM me and we can chat more.  It is all still fresh for me so I can listen and maybe help.

[House4Me]

If you are looking for a support structure for your children have you considered a live in au pair? We are looking at hiring one and I was really surprised when I learned a lot of single moms have them. The cost is less expensive and they really help get your kid from a-b-c, etc. Just a thought. 

Good luck in your decision! I say go for it!

[bexporter]

Good luck! It sounds like this would be a great opportunity!

[daisyn]

Nov 17, 2015 23:14:44 GMT -5 House4Me said:

If you are looking for a support structure for your children have you considered a live in au pair? We are looking at hiring one and I was really surprised when I learned a lot of single moms have them. The cost is less expensive and they really help get your kid from a-b-c, etc. Just a thought. 

Good luck in your decision! I say go for it!

yes, I have actually thought of that... I think when you get into this level of income you really can start afford a lot more outside help!  Maybe I can find a stay at home husband to run the household!  lol

[orangeblossom]

Great updates! Good luck.

[bostonmichelle]

Good luck today!!

[MrsE]

Awesome. Good luck!

[daisyn]

Thanks everyone! Waiting for her to call right now...

[heyney]

Can't wait to hear the update, so exciting!

Sending Good Luck vibes your way...

[daisyn]

New update in OP

[compassrose]

Great update! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!

[curtains]

Great update! *fingers crossed*