FLAMEFULS!

[jojoandleo]

Come on guys, let's have fun on a Friday!

So, I deactivated FB over this Syrian BS. I live in OK, I can only take so much asshole before I have a stroke, and I don't want to have one before my 32 birthday. BUT, My birthday is coming up and I want to be able to reactivate before then because I swear that is the only way most people know my birthday. LOL. I AM OKAY WITH BEING NARCISSISTIC!

[pantsoffdanceoff]

I'll join in on being narcissistic. I just called my vet asking why they never post pictures of my dog on their facebook page. Apparently you just have to ask them; which I will do next time we go for a visit. I also nominated my parent's dog (who almost died) for Pet of the Month. Apparently I'm the first person to ever nominate a pet.

[cuddlyevil]

AF hit me four days early today. I'm kind of hoping this means it'll be early in December too as I'm kidfree for almost 9 days and I am kind of hoping to get laid (no partners on the horizon, but you never know).

[Eureka1984]

I'm going on a date with a navy guy tonight. He seems sweet. I'm going out with another guy tomorrow.


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[jigsy]

This is a XP from an ML thread...but...

I recently became "exclusive" with a dude, and last night the full weight of that decision came to me - while pondering if I would let some random bar guy fuck me. Exclusivity is a good thing and I am pretty sure I am good with that choice right now. There is nothing like telling someone you can't do something to make them really want to do it.

Not really flameful. Just weird. Flameful would have been doing it, lol.

[bl]

jigsy is it Vegas?

The guy I am dating and I agreed to no labels (my original idea) until after my visit in December and maybe longer to just really give us time to figure out if long distance is something we can do. 95% of the time I am good with it and have been getting much better at just doing/being and not over analyzing the situation and what we are/what we will be/ ect which I am usually really bad about. I am definitely leaning toward being really comfortable with the idea of a label in the near future, but sometimes I want to have one now for a really stupid/flameful reason.

He is my ex-boyfriends ex roommate and they are still friends. Ex-boyfriend does not know about us and current guy would prefer not to tell him until we are official. Reason being if we decide it can't work he doesn't want to ruin that friendship, and I completely understand. There is a little piece that feels like I am a secret and it makes me sad. I know I am not a secret in general (I talk to his mom) and I understand his reasoning 100%, but the thought still creeps in occasionally.

[calle28]

Last night my BF and I bought tickets to go visit his family for Christmas in Houston. Tickets were pricey. I was hoping he was going to offer to pay for my ticket!

[jigsy]

Nov 20, 2015 13:07:52 GMT -5 bl said:

jigsy is it Vegas?

Yuppers.

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I'm waiting for my flat tire to be fixed. The waiting room has unlimted popcorn. I've eaten so much popcorn. Also concert "friend"'s birthday is today. I didn't really want to go in the first place, but I was going to go to be a good friend. However sadly I seem to have come down with something... I'm not doing it to be retalitory and I would go if I thought it would be fun. But I don't feel going, and she didn't feel like not getting super wasted at my concert. So I"m like whatever. I'm gonna got to barre and then netflix tonight and it's going to be awesome.

[bg]

@pdx18 neither the popcorn nor bailing on the party are flameful in my book. Enjoy your night!

DH and I have a 'work date' this afternoon and I really don't want to go. And I shouldn't if I don't want to. But I will anyway because I feel like by not going I won't be doing my part in trying to make things work. Blah.

[calle28]

How's the popcorn PDX? The Jiffy Lube I go to always has old and burnt coffee.

I just realized how dirty iffy lube sounds.

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calle28 it's delcious! They make it using like a theater stype popcorn popper and it's always hot. No movie theater liquid butter sadly, but they do have plenty of articfical butter and salt on it when they make it. They also have a pretty nice automated coffee/hot chocolate/ tea thing. It could definetley be a worse place to wait.

[mommadukes]

I had one last week. that's prob my only one for the year

[1confused1]

Nov 20, 2015 13:27:53 GMT -5 jigsy said:

Nov 20, 2015 13:07:52 GMT -5 bl said:

jigsy is it Vegas?

Yuppers.

I really hope things are better this time around.

[jojoandleo]

Nov 20, 2015 15:46:43 GMT -5 mommadukes said:

I had one last week. that's prob my only one for the year

Wanna trade lives? I do flameful shit pretty much daily.

[glitzyglow]

Against everyone's advice, I took my friend's advice and swiped yes on the guy who ghosted me last year. He had swiped yes, too, and messaged me. We met for a drink last Saturday night and are supposed to meet up again this weekend. I am fully aware this could end with him ghosting me again, but I did get some answers as to wtf happened. I am proceeding with caution.

[calle28]

glitzyglow - Have fun! Who knows where it'll end up. Curious though, what was his reasoning?

[glitzyglow]

Nov 20, 2015 16:54:41 GMT -5 calle28 said:

glitzyglow - Have fun! Who knows where it'll end up. Curious though, what was his reasoning?

Without giving details bc they aren't mine to give: surprise job loss, unemployment, and big decisions he quickly had to make about his future.

[verycontrary247]

I met a dude off Tinder last weekend and was pretty much immediately smitten. Like, I was comfortable being close to him/holding hands/inviting him over/banging on the first date.

I have a fair amount of NSA random sex, but never at my house. I also am pretty vigilant about these fuckboys not seeing me looking less than stellar.

He's come over 2 other mornings this week to bang and hang out before work. He has seen me without makeup 2 out of the 3 times we've hung out and is still interested!

He is incredibly attractive, tall, ripped, has a smile that makes me melt, hilarious, fantastic in bed, has no kids/ex drama, has a good job. Has been really upfront and honest with me about intentions and expectations.

For the first time in the 2 years since my divorce, I'm legitimately considering getting rid of my dating apps and seriously pursuing a relationship with someone. WHO AM I?!?

[jigsy]

verycontrary247 - Get it girl! This makes me happy!

1confused1 - So far so good. I mean, we only reconnected in September, and I have been taking it pretty slow, but he is far more "in it" than before. And when I brought up exclusivity, he was the one to say "I don't want to see other people, and I wouldn't like it if you did". So yeah. But it definitely feels weird to have this type of arrangement after being unattached for a year and a half.

[1confused1]

That's great jigsy

[MyName]

I just ordered $25 worth of Chinese food, cracked into a Shock Top Pretzel Wheat beer, and will be getting 'Trainwreck' on demand as soon as my food gets here.

[dreamcrisp1]

I am never inviting my best friend to my house again. Every single time I do, she's 1-1.5 hours late. I wait to have dinner until she comes and I'm fucking starving. I expected to eat at 7!

[glitzyglow]

I think this set of flamefuls was a bust, lol.

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Nov 20, 2015 22:45:20 GMT -5 glitzyglow said:

I think this set of flamefuls was a bust, lol.

Yes yes it was. And I keep trying to come up with something. I'm ready that intuitive eating book and I find it quite scary and am so worried I will just binge eat and end up on that my 600lb life show. Yea...that was still super lame.