bg, just wanted to say So sorry about this turn of events! You and I have sort of connected in a few posts over the last few months here so I have a special place in my heart for you. We also had a sort of lengthy separation with reconciliation attempts and a lot of limbo which was ridiculously hard. I am now two months out from when he decided he was completely done and I do feel better. I just went back and read my post from back then and I can honestly say I am in a better place now. Still sad at times, still dealing with the emotional rollercoaster at times but a lot better and I have so much more hope for my future and just feel in a lot more control over my destiny. It still sucks but there is hope and my future no longer depends on anybody but me.
Hugs to you.
Thank you! Not the outcome I had hoped for, but he really needs to focus on getting healthy.
I'm glad that you're feeling better! I'm sure I'm on my way there...