My mom is so freaking competitive over dd with my inlaws. It sucks. It is why we do a marathon Christmas Day where we celebrate at home drive an hour to nh to celebrate with dw's family and then another 45 min to my parents all so we can not be accused of playing favorites.
Of course my mother who is alway obsessing over how much time she gets with her grand child has booked a trip to st Martin jan 26-feb 10 when the baby is due February 13 because she doesn't want to miss her yearly trip. Ugh so yeah miss your gran child's birth to get a tan when you are retired and can go any other freaking time you want. For gods sake woman you can not have it both ways.
Oh and if any of you need more ammo for your sock full of nickels she is the one who thinks fertility treatments are "a wimpy way to get pregnant." SORRY WE ARENT STRONG ENOUGH TO GET KNOCKED UP BY OUR BOYFRIEND AT 18!!