Told my H today.

[noradog]

We're going to sell our house and get a divorce. Not a good day. I hate that I hurt his feelings, but I feel so much better. 

[1confused1]

It's such a roller coaster of emotions, hang in there.

[noradog]

Dec 13, 2015 11:14:41 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

It's such a roller coaster of emotions, hang in there.

Thanks. It's really weird.  We're sitting here watching bob's burgers now. 

[bg]

It must be somewhat of a relief to have made a decision. Good luck moving forward!

[abcdefu]

I'm sorry! It's a rollercoaster of emotions. Be proud of yourself for taking the first step! Hang out here. There is a lot of support on this board! hugs to you

[sweetchix]

Telling my ex I wanted a divorce definitely was a weight off my shoulders. I'm sorry you find yourself here, but you'll find a lot of support here.

[noradog]

Thank you all. It is a relief. That's the biggest feeling, but thee are a lot of other mixed ones included. The thing is , I know it's absolutely the right decision. For both of us. And if I don't make it now we'll end up hating each other, rather than where I am now which is really just ambivalence.

It helps that there are others out there dealing with this and I'm not the selfish bitch his family thinks I am. I know it isn't the truth, and I have no desire to give anyone else the daily crappy minutiae that got us here, because it's not the worst ever, but I don't want to live like this forever.

Blerg

[redshoejune]

I'm sorry you are going through this. It's hard and awkward and scary no matter what the situation is that led to it.

[glynn]

It's hard but it will get better. I hope your house sell quickly. Our still has not and we have been living in a award situation since May. Good Luck.