I'm taking the job!!!!!

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I'm so excited and happy and totally nervous! I found out on Friday morning and I came home to J with champagne and strawberries! This is the biggest change (I've purposefully done) in my life! I'm a little emotional...like I cried while putting up our Christmas tree because it's the last Christmas here in NY. I know it's the right choice, but it's still nerve racking.
I am unaware of my start date, J is currently job researching/hunting and we need to house hunt.

Very few people IRL know (no one at work especially), so fb friends please don't mention it.

Any tips for relocation are appreciated. As well as hugs!

[cuddlyevil]

YAY!!!

[pinkdutchtulips]

Congrats !!

[glitzyglow]

CONGRATS!! That is awesome!

[jigsy]

Congrats!

As far as relocation, if it is financially feasible, I would suggest short term housing (like an extended stay) so you can scope out areas for a rental. You may be able to land in an area you love, or you may be moving again in a year. Sometimes things look great on paper, but don't work for your lifestyle.

[cuddlyevil]

Will they assist with relocation?

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Dec 14, 2015 14:21:52 GMT -5 cuddlyevil said:

Will they assist with relocation?

A bit. Not as much as I'd hoped, but should cover the moving truck.

[winecat]

Yay!! Is there a local GBCN board for the area?

[Wanderista]

Just want to say congrats, very exciting!

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Dec 14, 2015 14:48:37 GMT -5 winecat said:

Yay!! Is there a local GBCN board for the area?

Hmmm. I don't know, but now I'll check. Thanks for the idea.

[stephreloaded]

Yay!! Congrats!

[1confused1]

Congrats! !

[sweetchix]

YAY!!! Congratulations! How exciting. Do you know when you'll be down there? I'll be visiting in May and then again for next Thanksgiving. Hopefully we'll be able to meet up. If you have any other questions regarding areas, PM me and I'll check with my sister and BIL.

[bg]

Exciting! Congrats!

Depending on the organization, HR might be able to tell you about where most people who work there live.

[imalwaysme79]

Congratulations!

[abcdefu]

@blueyes623: I am so excited for you! I hope J finds something soon! I know you were super stressed about your housing situation where you are, but I hope you have a lot more options! Plus it will be super fun redecorating your new place!

Congrats again!!

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Dec 14, 2015 16:52:41 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

YAY!!! Congratulations! How exciting. Do you know when you'll be down there? I'll be visiting in May and then again for next Thanksgiving. Hopefully we'll be able to meet up. If you have any other questions regarding areas, PM me and I'll check with my sister and BIL.

I'll PM or FB you when I know the date that I start. I'm sure I'll be there by May. Thanks!

[bl]

Congrats! How exciting. I've moved several states away twice now and having a job already lined up was a big help with the stress factor. Try and give yourself a week after the move before you start the new job if possible, just so you can get settled in and not feel rushed.

[pandora]

I'm just seeing this and SO excited for you!!!! Congratulations! You'll be posting pics of a huge house someday and I'll be all envious, lol.



I'll keep my fingers crossed that J finds something great near your job so you'll both have the best of the best situation - yay!!

[RamblingRose]

Jan 2, 2016 19:09:08 GMT -5 @gracie6414 said:

My best suggest is pack one box with the coffee pot, two mugs, 2 bowls, 2 plates, two sets of silverware, dish soap, dish cloths, tp. Mark the box or take it in car so you can find it easily.

In another box pack your most used bathroom items (hair tools and make up, shampoo, etc...), two sets underwear each, two pains of house pants each, two shirts, two towels, two face cloths, socks, slippers or something. Mark that box or keep it in the car.

And take your laptop, jewelry and any family pictures you can't bear to lose in the car also. 

[MyName]

So exciting!! Congrats!!

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Thanks ladies.  You'll be hearing my worries as time goes on! 

[pandora]

Another vote for moving a week or so before starting your job. I did this and it allowed me to unpack, get my car registered, new car insurance, new license (not in that order), get internet, utilities etc... and feel ready and focused for the new job! It was a lot of running around and unpacking that week and i wouldn't have wished that on top of a new job.

I had owned before, in my old state, but purposely chose to rent again so that I could get to know the area, towns and neighborhoods before buying again. Newcomers are at a disadvantage in jumping into the buyer's market without knowing the area. I ended up in a different area than I originally expected but much happier (until recently but happy for 14 years with my purchase). I asked coworkers, new friends from the area etc about the different areas near work and areas with a reasonable commute to work. I know you want to buy right away but I'd hate for your first home to end up a regret later. Chances are it's not.nearly as hot of a market as we're used to so you will have time to shop around for what you 100% want with little to no settling. Unheard of compared to NYC but not where you're heading, yay!!

So excited for you!!