I'm not sure what the issue is. It had a potential to cause a lot of conflict for several posters. I thought we respected each other's boundaries here.
I posted that I asked for it to be deleted. Look, I'm sorry. I didn't want to engage in this battle tonight. It was deleted. I'm not sure what else you want from me.
I'm not sure what the issue is. It had a potential to cause a lot of conflict for several posters. I thought we respected each other's boundaries here.
How? All identifying info was gone.
PLUS- @this is correct. I thought the only people who could have threads deleted were the people who start the thread. As for reporting a thread, I'd expect a mod to use their own judgement (say, if personal info was contained in the post), but that thread did not warrant being reported and deleted.
I'm not sure what the issue is. It had a potential to cause a lot of conflict for several posters. I thought we respected each other's boundaries here.
I don't even know what happened but not deleting other people's thread is sort of a pretty big boundary.
I'm not sure what the issue is. It had a potential to cause a lot of conflict for several posters. I thought we respected each other's boundaries here.
I don't even know what happened but not deleting other people's thread is sort of a pretty big boundary.
We had already moved on to discussions of Ira Glass sex dreams. No one's privacy was threatened. Well, except maybe Ira's.
There were a bunch of posts referring to it. It made me anxious. I made the request before several internal deletes were made. Listen I can't really win anyone over but I just want to say it's really hard to be in this position.
And really, what do you think is going to happen now? It's going to get rehashed here. And probably rehashed on ML. And probably rehashed on CEP. You don't think someone bat signaled her already? Welcome to the internet!
In case you feel a little bit emboldened by this; know this: it makes me sick that a friend of mine would like that article. I am still hoping it was a misunderstanding. I'm sorry I can't deliver the drama you are craving.
In case you feel a little bit emboldened by this; know this: it makes me sick that a friend of mine would like that article. I am still hoping it was a misunderstanding. I'm sorry I can't deliver the drama you are craving.
You do realize that you put yourself in this position, right? Are you new here?
And most people would send their friend a text or a FB message like "hey, did you really mean to xyz?" They wouldn't come post on a cryptic message in a confessions thread on a board full of women who are going to ask who it is. (Note for those who missed the deleted thread: I never asked or tagged anyone or quoted anything).
So, lol for fucking days that *I'M* the one looking for drama. @this & I are just very confused about why a MOD would delete a thread that had no violations. I know why you reported it. That doesn't mean it should have gotten deleted.
And because it's a mod issue is why it will more than likely be rehashed on ML and CEP. Which will bring up people wondering the backstory. Ah. Full circle!
Asking for someone else's thread to be deleted because you posted something then lost your nerve? UTTER HORSESHIT. No. I do not respect that, not one bit. You aren't brand fucking new here.
And the cowardly mod that did it? WTF to you. You should lose your mod privileges. Maybe they are hiring at The Nest.