How did 2015 shake out for SO?

[jigsy]

Anyone care to chuckle at our amazing future telling abilities for some posters...

pandce.proboards.com/thread/395973/own-predictions-thread

[jojoandleo]

Good job, @pdx18 , this did happen!

Dec 3, 2014 12:51:45 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

My predictions:
jojoandleo is going to find an amazing job that challenges her and she loves

[cuddlyevil]

I WAS RIGHT ABOUT fuckstick!

No one was right about me and WG (no make outs, he's dating someone else so we're friends). I haven't met anyone who's knocked me off my feet either But I have been able to hang out with lyssbobiss, Command, B613 and her BF.

[jojoandleo]

Dec 3, 2014 14:55:04 GMT -5 mp said:

pantsoffdanceoff will continue being beautiful inside and out, but will come to a place where she owns it and believes it.
gozf will continue being awesome. And she'll get engaged and maybe get a baby in the ute soon, too.
starburst604 will have the second cutest baby in the world (the first being me, of course) and she's going to be an amazing mom.
@pdx18 will continue to grow and challenge herself - and she'll be in a place where she feels really ready to open her heart to someone.
jigsy , between the 6 month and 12 month mark from her divorce being finalized, will really feel confident and know what she wants. She'll find herself in a new job/career, and will be content with how far she's come.
jojoandleo will grow and find her groove in her career, strengthen her marriage, and continue being a good friend and an awesome person.
achase123 will find more strength than ever within herself, as she navigates the exH and job sitch - and P will be better off for it.

A lot of these were at least half true. LOL. I found the career groove and am a pretty awesome friend. The marriage, eh, still working on it, but it is in a better place, lately.

pantsoffdanceoff-I forgot about you being a bit insecure after your divorce. You have made GREAT strides! You are awesome!

jigsy-you totally are more confident.

[jojoandleo]

MAN! I was a Debbie fucking Downer, wasn't I? Life is actually a lo better. 2015 has been pretty good to me. New job, better connection to friends, things getting better with MH, and not getting hit by a bus. GO ME!

[sweetchix]

So I did have a FWB (unbeknownst to me), but not a lot, and no Mr. Right came into my life. Yet.

[Deleted]

Ha! These are funny. I do think I grew a lot this year and had some good dating experiences. I still haven't found the one, but I'm hopeful this slow reconciliation with my exbf might actually turn into something really good!

Work took a CRAZY turn for me this year and I"m so incredibly happy it did. I feel like this year I might actually find that relationship I've been searching. A lot of things in my life seem to falling into place.

[alleinesein]

Well mp did land a new job so a bunch of you were right on that one!

I had no predictions 

[jigsy]

In some ways, I feel like I haven't made a ton of progress in life based on my posts last year. Same dude, although we are in a different place. Still hoping for a new job in the new year.

But for the first time in a long time, the stagnation doesn't feel so bad. The only real sore spot is my career, and I know if I get my ass in gear, I can make that change.

And I am really looking forward to 2016.

[gozf]

My ute is yet vacant, and I am not engaged. Sorry, guys!

We are working with a realtor and looking to buy a house, so there's that. And I got a new job, but I don't think that was predicted.

[glitzyglow]

I said jigsy would get official with Vegas! Woot!

I did get a new job that I love! No great love in the romantic front. Maybe in 2016...

[pandora]

I had no predictions but it was a rocky year physically yet was joyfully eclipsed with a baby growing in my ute. Never guessed I'd have to put my sweet angel kitty down this year, this week, though. Definitely a mixed year. Next year will hopefully be a wonderful year being a human Momma and figuring others things out!

[dreamcrisp1]

It was predicted I'd be engaged. I am not! Lol. Instead he's moving halfway around the world for a year. But we will be engaged sometime in the latter part of next year.

[starburst604]

Dec 23, 2015 16:53:08 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Dec 3, 2014 14:55:04 GMT -5 mp said:

pantsoffdanceoff will continue being beautiful inside and out, but will come to a place where she owns it and believes it.
gozf will continue being awesome. And she'll get engaged and maybe get a baby in the ute soon, too.
starburst604 will have the second cutest baby in the world (the first being me, of course) and she's going to be an amazing mom.
@pdx18 will continue to grow and challenge herself - and she'll be in a place where she feels really ready to open her heart to someone.
jigsy , between the 6 month and 12 month mark from her divorce being finalized, will really feel confident and know what she wants. She'll find herself in a new job/career, and will be content with how far she's come.
jojoandleo will grow and find her groove in her career, strengthen her marriage, and continue being a good friend and an awesome person.
achase123 will find more strength than ever within herself, as she navigates the exH and job sitch - and P will be better off for it.

A lot of these were at least half true. LOL. I found the career groove and am a pretty awesome friend. The marriage, eh, still working on it, but it is in a better place, lately.

pantsoffdanceoff-I forgot about you being a bit insecure after your divorce. You have made GREAT strides! You are awesome!

jigsy-you totally are more confident.

Heyyyy you got mine right! Has achase123 been around at all?

[RamblingRose]

Well, mp was closest in her prediction for me.
Things are rocking along in our world.

[Deleted]

Lol. So many people from last year have disappeared. I can't believe how empty it is here now.

[Deleted]

Dec 23, 2015 22:02:10 GMT -5 dreamcrisp1 said:

It was predicted I'd be engaged. I am not! Lol. Instead he's moving halfway around the world for a year. But we will be engaged sometime in the latter part of next year.

Yes I was predicted to be engaged too (I'm not), but I predicted that it would happen in 2016. Maybe!!

[calle28]

I don't post nearly enough!

My 2015 has been pretty great. I: Turned 30.
Met my BF.
Was laid off from my job, which was a blessing in disguise.
Found a new job that I start on January 4th.
Maintained my close friendships.

[stephreloaded]

No one made a prediction for me last year!

This year I got a promotion and things have been great with DD. I am also going to therapy and making a lot of progress so I am really happy about that. I did have a few issues at work but nothing major.

Where did everyone from that thread go?

[RamblingRose]

Dec 28, 2015 23:29:39 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

No one made a prediction for me last year!

This year I got a promotion and things have been great with DD. I am also going to therapy and making a lot of progress so I am really happy about that. I did have a few issues at work but nothing major.

Where did everyone from that thread go?

Whispers: I have a new name here.

[boing]

Dec 28, 2015 23:29:39 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

Where did everyone from that thread go?

I got a new job that doesn't allow the Internet freedom I was used to, so now I'm just a creepy lurker. I still check in almost daily, it's just harder to post now.
It was predicted I'd have an awesome wedding and get ku, and neither of those happened YET. But I'm planning an awesome wedding for June and hoping a baby follows shortly after. There's lots of pressure from both of our families about the state of my uterus.

[jojoandleo]

Dec 23, 2015 20:46:22 GMT -5 gozf said:

My ute is yet vacant, and I am not engaged. Sorry, guys!

We are working with a realtor and looking to buy a house, so there's that. And I got a new job, but I don't think that was predicted.

How many years have I predicted your engagement now?  I feel it's more important to me than you.  At this point, I expect an INVITE!    KIDDING!  I'll just crash it.

[gozf]

Dec 29, 2015 14:25:41 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Dec 23, 2015 20:46:22 GMT -5 gozf said:

My ute is yet vacant, and I am not engaged. Sorry, guys!

We are working with a realtor and looking to buy a house, so there's that. And I got a new job, but I don't think that was predicted.

How many years have I predicted your engagement now?  I feel it's more important to me than you.  At this point, I expect an INVITE!    KIDDING!  I'll just crash it.

Lol! You'd get along with our friends! It'll be a blast!

Truth be told, while I'm not panicked it hung up on it, I would like to be engaged. We've been together 4 years and living together for 3. We talk about getting married; we know what kind of wedding we want. We're solid!

And now I would like a sparkly ring and a fun party.

[sweetchix]

I will say one thing... I truly do feel like I've grown and learned a lot because of all the shit I went through with both DJ and WG. I can't say I won't fall for it again with someone new, but I think I'll be more aware. I seriously do feel like a great weight was lifted off my shoulders when I deleted their numbers. Here's to a cleanse of the douche bags of 2015 and on to a better 2016.

[doriswe]

Dec 29, 2015 15:19:04 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

I will say one thing... I truly do feel like I've grown and learned a lot because of all the shit I went through with both DJ and WG. I can't say I won't fall for it again with someone new, but I think I'll be more aware. I seriously do feel like a great weight was lifted off my shoulders when I deleted their numbers. Here's to a cleanse of the douche bags of 2015 and on to a better 2016.

Seriously, my dear, while there have been plenty of times I wanted to fly out there and shake you, you have grown soooooooo soooooo sooooo much since I first "met" you.  You're learning and growing and I know good things are coming your way! 

[verycontrary247]

I didn't have any predictions, but 2015 definitely had its ups and downs.

I bought/renovated/moved into my house, traveled places I'd never been, continued kicking ass at work and school, got some new tattoos, learned a few love lessons the hard way, met some awesome people and removed some not awesome people from my life.

[verycontrary247]

Dec 29, 2015 15:19:04 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

Here's to a cleanse of the douche bags of 2015 and on to a better 2016.

Amen to that

[blanca]

I had a great year at work after a few pretty rough years. My daughters great. No dating/relationship success but focusing on other things has been good. Started working out regularly if not as frequent as I would like. Looking forward to seeing what 2016 has in store

[jellymankelly]

Dec 28, 2015 23:29:39 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

No one made a prediction for me last year!

This year I got a promotion and things have been great with DD. I am also going to therapy and making a lot of progress so I am really happy about that. I did have a few issues at work but nothing major.

Where did everyone from that thread go?

No one made one for me either, and I never participate in those "say something nice about everyone" threads because I'm afraid of leaving people out. But anyway, I had the best year I've had in years. After a totally shitty past 5 years, 2015 was the year that I really came into my own again. It feels good to be at the end of the year and look back without that "kiss my ass, let's move on to the next year" kind of feeling.

[liubot]

My year has had big ups and downs. My mental health had been better (it's on the better side now) and I had some really low moments. I fought for custody of my child in court and lost my job. I did go back to school doing something I love, I stopped partying so much, and I've had a few moments that made me realize how important my little girl is to my life. I think I grew up a lot more than I expected to.