Any vents/rants/annoyances?

[glitzyglow]

I'm in a grumpy, hormonal state tonight (thanks impending period!), so I figured I'd share (ha, lol). First world problems, of course, but meh.

My annoyances, etc.:

I asked my older sister for white sheets for Christmas. Plain, boring white sheets. I really wanted them. She got me plain white sheets...with a weird shiny white Greek pattern stitched into it. And she peeled off the retail sticker, so I have no idea where she got them from to return them. I just wanted white sheets, damn it!

I'm scared I'm going to gain the weight back that I lost the last two months since I can't run because of my ankle. But I also don't want to feel like I have to skip meals or starve to keep the weight off since I can't run, which is where my mind immediately goes. Stupid, dumb ankle.

I am breaking out due to hormones and nothing makes you feel prettier than hormones and acne.

[Deleted]

My team lost in the biggest upset in college football history. I'm drinking heavily.

[mnsnow]

My stbx has the kids for the weekend at his parents for their Christmas celebration. It's his first time with them since getting out of rehab. I know he's filling their little brains with inaccurate info and being manipulative, and there is nothing I can do about it. I'm so angry and just sick to my stomach. Luckily his family is awesome, so hopefully they are running interference. Can't wait until they are back home with me.

[abcdefu]

I have gained nearly 40lbs in the last year due to my back surgery and injuries from my car accident, plus not eating the best I should (I'm not in denial about this).

Why do people feel the need to suggest what I should be doing to lose weight? I HATE unsolicited advice, especially from people who are not medical professionals!

A. why does my weight bother you?
2. if I want pizza, I'm going to eat pizza!
III. show me some exercises that I can do with my dominant hand in a cast, two completely torn ligaments in my right ankle, diminished strength in my left ankle, balance and depth perception issues, back pain, and most likely some kind of disc issue in my neck (Dr. doesn't want me to be on MRI table if it's not necessary, but my neck is on FIRRRRREEEEEE!)and
B. Go away! I want to eat my pizza in peace!!!

/rant over

ETA: Major PMS going on here as well!

[winecat]

abcdefu- tell them to straight up fuck off. Assholes.

[cuddlyevil]

abcdefu tell them to fuck off.

I have annoyances but I am focusing on controlling my reaction to them. Maintaining my composure will be what protects me from being hurt. I have been feeling them too much lately and it was bringing me down. But believe me when I say that I could fill a page with my venting.

[Eureka1984]

abcdefu tell them the fuck off.

I am annoyed that Apple has a bug with switching from them to android. I had to call apple care for help.

[cuddlyevil]

Here's one: I just deactivated my account on okc because I have been getting a ton of pop up ads. No thank you. It's a shame too because I actually matched with a decent guy.

[Deleted]

glitzyglow and abcdefu, I'm right there with you with PMS.  I'm cranky and have a headache that comes and goes and J says I've been a snot all weekend.    

And fuck those assholes abcdefu. I know I'm overweight as well, but I don't need to hear about it in a negative way or unsolicited.  I'm well aware.
Recently, a coworker of mine who is in fairly good shape--but still losing some post baby weight (maybe size 6) was describing an inappropriate/unflattering outfit that some random person was wearing. This is what she said, "This girl was, like, maybe 30 lbs less than you and was wearing a romper that was way too short and everything was hanging out.  I wouldn't wear that even at my size."    Um, fuck you..I'm a size 16....I limit my interaction with her since then.  I was insulted.  

[alleinesein]

abcdefu- those are the twits you need to accidentally on purpose run over with your wheelchair when you have to use it.  

Rants- Damn you weather!!  My right knee swells up and aches whenever it is going to rain.  I am dying over here with a swollen knee and pain shooting up from my knee to my lower back.  OUCH OUCH OUCH!  

Annoyances- the posters on MM who complain about having to do their taxes and they owe money.  Im on month 34 of unemployment and I WOULD LOVE TO BE ABLE TO BITCH ABOUT HAVING TO PAY TAXES because that would mean I have a fucking job!!  I am so ready to throat punch anyone who whines about that shit right now.  

Vents- Tinder is odd.  I keep matching with guys who are only in my area for a layover at the airport.  How damn hard is it to change your location and disable your GPS for the 1-2 hours you are sitting in the airport.  Also WTF does it keep showing me the same guys?  There is one guy who keeps popping up and there is no way in hell I would ever swipe right because this is the same jackhole who told me to eff off when I contacted him on POF.

[abcdefu]

My brother gives me the same advice! I guess I don't want people to know it bothers me. I don't know!

@blueyes623 - that is the same ish people say to me. My coworker told me that she hopes I don't wear a two piece at the beach. Another one told me that I should try losing weigh because I said it was hot in the office. I could go on and on.

I just hate people sometimes!

[winecat]

abcdefu- have you tried Suesue's "Why would you say such a thing?" brightly?

[Deleted]

abcdefu- they said that shit about a 2 piece at the beach!? Are you fucking kidding me?    They need to mind their business.  

[stephreloaded]

I always get comments about my weight. I have put on like 40lbs in the last two years and don't even look like myself. Every single time that I run into someone I haven't seen in a while, I get a nasty comment. Now I purposely avoid people.

[glitzyglow]

abcdefu - OMG. You should throat punch them. I hate them.

My hormones are freaking the fuck out. I am breaking out like crazy. I teared up a few times during the shows I watched. I feel very melodramatic today.

[Mrs.Rad888]

Jan 3, 2016 21:43:53 GMT -5 winecat said:

abcdefu - have you tried Suesue's "Why would you say such a thing?" brightly?

I think I'd skip straight to "fuck off, Dickbreath."

[redshoejune]

I am trying very hard to be even tempered when XH is an asshole to me, but it is not easy.
I spent a lot of the weekend crying and feeling bad for myself about being alone and that XH is in a "serious" relationship. Thank you hormones.

[stephreloaded]

Jan 3, 2016 23:15:12 GMT -5 @gracie6414 said:

Jan 3, 2016 22:44:34 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

I always get comments about my weight. I have put on like 40lbs in the last two years and don't even look like myself. Every single time that I run into someone I haven't seen in a while, I get a nasty comment. Now I purposely avoid people.

People are so weird about weight. Ugh

Fuck them, it's just a size.

I have gotten a lot better about this honestly. I would cry and a simple comment would ruin my entire day. While it still bothers me, I get over the whole thing pretty soon. 

Last week, I ran into my 2nd grade teacher who told me that if it weren't for my mom, she wouldn't have recognized me. You used to be skinny but have gained to much weight. I don't know what goes on in people's minds to be honest. It's as if they are just telling me in case I haven't noticed lol.

[jojoandleo]

I'm over winter. I am cold ALL. THE. TIME. And no one else ever wants to turn up the heat. So I am swamped in fucking blankets/hoodies. I just want to be able to sit around my house in my goddam underwear. It's cold in my office, too, which makes my Chai go cold WAAAAY too quick.

I'm going to Puerto Rico in February. I really want to be in shape before then, but I don't actually want to DO anything about it. Working out is hard, yo.

Student Loan bills. Enough said.

Trying to budget. I hate it. I just want to be able to impulse shop and not be kept accountable for it later. I DON'T WANT TO ADULT!

[glitzyglow]

I dreamed about my exH. OMG Brain, how many times are we going to do this?