Sunday Randoms!

[abcdefu]

Good morning!

I am so annoyed! I had off yesterday and today. Yesterday I was wide awake at 4:30 AM and this morning, 6:45 AM. I most likely will not want to wake up on time for work tomorrow.

I'm seriously contemplating writing my dad(SD-sperm donor) off for good, which would mean not being able to see my mom. This is where I am struggling because my mom bends over backwards for me.

SD does nothing to help me, but continues to help my sister, who lives out of state, by driving up to her (1.5 hours, 1 way) to pick up her dirty laundry, wash and fold it over the weekend and then drives all the way back to deliver it. Yet he has offered absolutely no help to me and I live 3 houses down from from him. FTR, my sister is completely able bodied. My mom offered to help me and asked SD to pick up some stuff from my house. He never showed up. Just a little reminder, this is the man who told me that I was using a wheelchair for attention at my niece's birthday/baptism party, which was 10 days after having my spinal cord operated on. I'M SO DONE!

I am looking at townhouses (so I don't have to do yard work) and jobs in VA and FL. As soon as my boss retires, I'm outta here!

vent/random - over!

[cuddlyevil]

We skipped church and are hanging out at home. It's a movie and snuggle day.

[Eureka1984]

I'm sorry abcdefu

I am PMSing like no tomorrow. It sucks!

Last night I went out with a guy who I think is pretty cool. I'm hoping he will text me today but I'm trying not to get my hopes up.

[bg]

I had a really fun girls night last night but was up way too early this morning and will be dragging all day. I only have yoga and more organization planned for today so dragging is ok.

[dreamcrisp1]

I'm going to walk my dog then shower and grocery shop. It's raining so I plan on staying in and not doing much.

[sweetchix]

I'm sorry abcdefu. (((Hugs)))

I was planning on taking all the Christmas decorations down but I'm feeling a bit burned out from working so much this week. I slept until 10:30ish and am feeling like I'm ready to take a nap. I am seriously lacking any motivation today

[1confused1]

I'm sick and feel like shit.

We have to take the tree down sometime today since tomorrow is the last day the garbage company will take it.

[glitzyglow]

Went to a work event this morning. I successfully avoided a hug from a politician who makes me uncomfortable and forced him to shake my hand instead.

I took myself to see The Revenant. Great film. Leo was spectacular. Tom Hardy was also amazing. I hope they each take home an Oscar.

[glitzyglow]

@32flavors, how fun you have another date with fun guy! Woot!

abcdefu, that's a hard spot to be in. Sorry he sucks so bad.

I had popcorn at the theater and I am miserable now. So not worth it. I have a headache from too much salt and I feel terribly bloated.

[abcdefu]

Jan 10, 2016 18:20:27 GMT -5 @32flavors said:

abcdefu that's insane. Aside from the obvious, he could pay to have her laundry done for the price of gas.

Db is still harassing me. It's all being re-directed to my bff who is going to help build a file, out of my vision, to bring in if/when I get enough for a RO.

Great weekend with the kids. I head to the Dominican next weekend for a 4 day girls trip, yay!

Eta: I have a second date tomorrow with a really fun guy!

Right?! He's definitely not the smartest, plus his "daughter" doesn't use a laundromat! Ridiculous!

Also I really hope you get enough to get a RO soon! I know harassment cases are very difficult for RO, at least in my state due to harassment being a conclusion from someone's behavior. It's easier when someone threatens harm because it leaves no room for interpretation. I'm sorry you are going through this and you def need that trip to the Domincian! Have a blast!

[abcdefu]

Jan 10, 2016 20:34:08 GMT -5 glitzyglow said:

@32flavors, how fun you have another date with fun guy! Woot!

abcdefu, that's a hard spot to be in. Sorry he sucks so bad.

I had popcorn at the theater and I am miserable now. So not worth it. I have a headache from too much salt and I feel terribly bloated.

It really sucks! I think I am more angry at the fact that my mom deserves better! I know he has not considered me his child for a while now. It's stings a little when he says things, but my mom doesn't deserve to be treated that way. I wish she would just leave, but she always says she can't afford to leave. I am well aware that it's just an excuse.

[cuddlyevil]

This container smells awesome.

abcdefu I am sorry your Dad's a jerkface.

[alleinesein]

Mom and I got all the Christmas stuff packed up today.

Last night while we were cleaning out some stuff in the garage the outdoor kitty snuck into the garage. We closed the door and he got 'trapped'. My dad let some of the other cats into the garage and there was a kitty turf war around 1am. The kitty is still in the garage and he has been lounging on random stuff. It is driving some of the other cats nuts; they are sitting in front of the garage door trying to get the cat door open to get out there and check out the intruder.