I have asked for my post to be DD. Thank you all so much for the advice and support. I have saved the thread for me to be able to read it all over again later. I will keep you all posted as changes happen.
I was able to quickly glance at your post earlier but wasn't somewhere where I could whip out my phone and start typing, so I didn't get to reply. But I wanted to say that I am impressed by your strength and I know that you will be so super fine it won't even be funny.