Come in if you have kids and your ex has a significant other

[abcdefu]

Poof!

Thanks everyone! J reported the pics as inappropriate/nudity. Hopefully it gets taken down and B tells K not to post pics like that again.

[Mrs.Rad888]

Honestly, if the pics weren't pornographic, I think I'd ignore them. Also, I think I'd stop stalking my ex's Facebook. He's obviously going to have his SOs around his kid, and as long as the SO seems to care for the kid and treat her well, there really isn't anything you can do. Also, it sounds like the XBF's SO has been around for the LO's entire life, so it's not like he parading a new skank through E's life each week.

[jellymankelly]

I'm not okay with the naked pic on a public FB page. There are some sick bastards out there, and even though I'm not over the top paranoid about my kids' pics being online, I wouldn't be okay with this at all.

As far as the rest, I would figure K knew what she was getting into when she started a relationship with a married man, so him cheating on her all the time shouldn't come as a shock to anyone. This always makes me raise an eyebrow - if he'd cheat WITH you, why don't you think he'd cheat ON you? He's already shown you at the start what kind of character he has.

And the part about her hash tagging pics with "my girl" and stuff like that - that kind of thing always screams insecurity to me. My cousin's wife does that with pics of his daughters. Sure, she loves them, but she also knows his XW probably looks at his Facebook page, so it's as much to try to get under the XW's skin as anything (bitter divorce, and my cousin and his new wife eventually ended up with primary custody).

[cuddlyevil]

I'm not a FB friend with him or his GF. But I would ignore as much of it as possible while expressing my concerns regarding the tub pictures and hash tags.

[housewife]

A nude pic of my child on the internet would be my hill to die on. The other stuff? Eh, whatever, so long as K is treating E well.

[daisyn]

I would be pretty pissed about naked pictures of my 4 yo online
Most social media pages have rules against that so you could just report it and they will likely take it down.

[abcdefu]

The picture of E naked is NOT okay. The other stuff J has let go because she knows thatK probably takes better care of E than B during visitation. J messaged B about the tub pic only and said she thought K posting them made her uncomfortable especially since it's public. J didn't say anything to B about the hashtags because she really doesn't care. I just mentioned it it in here so the dynamic was clearer.

@mrsrad88 J wasn't online stalking K. One of B and J's mutual friends sent J the link and because it was public she could see It. The pictures were posted by K on her page, not B's page.

[Deleted]

I would report the pic on FB, they may make her take it down. I would NOT be okay with that