Can't help because I wax. IME, pain is based on the waxer...My lady is done in literally 10 minutes, and it doesn't really hurt.
The other obvious answer is shaving...I wouldn't put any sort of hair removal creams down there, and if you can't wax, the laser hair removal wouldn't work either.
I really like veet. But I have no skin sensitivities. But I'm usually too lazy to remember to buy it, so I just shave. I don't want to have to grow it out between waxes.
I used to wax and it was pretty uncomfortable, expensive and i didn't like the growing out period. 2 years ago I did laser hair removal. Some areas were a little sensitive, but it wasn't bad. Some of the hairs didn't take (too light colored), so i shave a very small amount.
For the shavers, what kind of razor and gel/cream do you use for this area? I'd think my quattro for my legs is a bit big and too much? Do they make smaller sized razors?
I used to use Coochy from pure romance but they changed their formulation and I am now allergic to an ingredient in it. I now use Eucerine calming body wash as a shave cream and my gillete venus razor. I tried the men's razor that was recommended on here long ago but that actually caused me more little knicks and bumps then my venus.