When it's time to say goodbye.

[gpw]

Jan 30, 2016 18:12:35 GMT -5 @246baje said:

Bullshit that this isn't @booby . Remember the are she created in the monster thread with specific quotes from the threads harassing @kirlette with the goal of defending her shitey actions?

I don't trust her as far as I can throw her. And that non apology was bullshit. If your normal personality is to gaslight people and be racially insensitive then you have a fucking problem.

As for all those simple bitches talking about forgiving and forgetting. Fuck y'all and fuck that. There will be no forgiveness and no forgetting.

Some folks said y'all were waiting to see if booby's actions have matched up with her apology. Well here you have it. Actions rushing in here to post hmmmph.


Where are the black posters? We are here but we are not here for this racist bullshit.

I thought about leaving the boards too but I will not be run off by hateful cowardly people.

I had been "on a break" (not because of hateful cowardly people per se) but this shit got me riled up enough to come on back because fuck this shit.  I hope this is the start of all the rest of us giving zero fucks and having zero tolerance for this bullshit.  Whether it comes from a "friend" or not.  

[NitaX]

I've said before that I won't be run off because of shit people have said or done. And trust, folks have tried to come for me via a PM because I dared be upset. Why wasn't I more articulate in describing my angst or it made me look bad. Who is ever gracious when they are pissed off?

But years later, I'm still here. I won't be intimidated by such small minded antics and I won't stand for it happening to someone dear to me either.

@booby doesn't know me so that 1st simmer down shit didn't help either. But, I will not tolerate it. Absolutely will not sit back and let mean girl antics harm anyone on CEP. Not going to allow it.

[gpw]

Jan 30, 2016 18:17:54 GMT -5 NitaX said:

I've said before that I won't be run off because of shit people have said or done. And trust, folks have tried to come for me via a PM because I dared be upset. Why wasn't I more articulate in describing my angst or it made me look bad. Who is ever gracious when they are pissed off?

But years later, I'm still here. I won't be intimidated by such small minded antics and I won't stand for it happening to someone dear to me either.

@booby doesn't know me so that 1st simmer down shit didn't help either. But, I will not tolerate it. Absolutely will not sit back and let mean girl antics harm anyone on CEP. Not going to allow it.

Exactly nobody.  Unless you have to worry about being stereotyped.  Which was the message that was lost on SO MANY people this last week.   

[Beeps (WOT?*)]

Now that I"m a wee bit calmer (maybe) I would like to say not only am I sorry this happened to Smo on her behalf, but I am sorry to all the WOC who post here because not only did it target her it tangentially targeted every woman of color who posts on this board, for daring to stand up and speak out. Whomever did this did it because she was a woman of color who dared to call someone out and didn't "know her place." And ergo, all of the women of color on this board are justified in being fearful that the same thing could happen to them.

On behalf of every majority who cares about this stuff, I am so sorry.

[ECB]

The more I think about this....

Damn. Just damn. I've always found SMO to be thoughtful. I've really appreciated this board for a long time - it's been a true learning experience for me. And she was a part of that. I'm really sad that we're losing her voice.

And also, dammit, every time I saw her picture, I was just wowed at how beautiful she is. Clearly BOTH inside and out.

Just "fuck you" to the person who did this. And the people who helped or who were aware of this and are all giggling behind their computer screens.

[smile]

I'm angry that this happened to you Smo. I mostly lurk, but you're one of the posters who I've always enjoyed and learned from the things you've shared. You will be missed.

[05heel]

Jan 30, 2016 18:47:08 GMT -5 @barefootbarista said:

Y'all know booby is reading and eating this shit up. she couldn't dare to let kirkette or smo outshine her. Smo, sfy, they are legit fly, attractive, and cool as hell. She likes to talk about the money her family has but couldn't dare to let kirkette talk about hers.

We are talking about someone whose main source of enjoyment seems to come from talking shit and being a straight hater. Or getting unusually angry at dumb shit like snow pants (which, you got money and live in the tundra, why only one pair of snow pants?)She generally has always had a fucked up attitude. But, people on ML seemed to either love that shit or be to afraid to do anything about it.

So, here we are. This time it's gone too far. But I guarantee when she shows back up people are gonna be up her butt.

or pretending to be some sort of fashion maven, which I have repeatedly said that I never understood. And people ate that shit up, as if they couldn't peruse Old Navy on their own and buy a few hoodies and some cheap ass pants. It was hilarious, even if I had to laugh about it all by my lonesome. I'm sure she disliked Smo for that alone.

[josieposy]

I don't hang out there much, but is it normal for this kind of craziness to occur on MMM? I don't mean this offensively, but I thought they mostly discussed Disney trips.

[eclaires]

Jan 30, 2016 18:59:19 GMT -5 05heel said:

Jan 30, 2016 18:47:08 GMT -5 @barefootbarista said:

Y'all know booby is reading and eating this shit up. she couldn't dare to let kirkette or smo outshine her. Smo, sfy, they are legit fly, attractive, and cool as hell. She likes to talk about the money her family has but couldn't dare to let kirkette talk about hers.

We are talking about someone whose main source of enjoyment seems to come from talking shit and being a straight hater. Or getting unusually angry at dumb shit like snow pants (which, you got money and live in the tundra, why only one pair of snow pants?)She generally has always had a fucked up attitude. But, people on ML seemed to either love that shit or be to afraid to do anything about it.

So, here we are. This time it's gone too far. But I guarantee when she shows back up people are gonna be up her butt.

or pretending to be some sort of fashion maven, which I have repeatedly said that I never understood. And people ate that shit up, as if they couldn't peruse Old Navy on their own and buy a few hoodies and some cheap ass pants. It was hilarious, even if I had to laugh about it all by my lonesome. I'm sure she disliked Smo for that alone.

lol or land's end love. Which, I buy shit at Land's End, but it's hardly fashionable.

[secretlyevil]

I am livid this happened to you smo and downright sad. I may just be putting this out there in the universe but please know I am a better person for the too brief of time you were in my life. You are an amazingly caring and creative person. I will miss you greatly.

To the "person" who thought they were some kind of way with their assine action, fuck you for invading a valued community member's privacy. Mind you, whether a member has been here for a week or eon, that person is valued. Unless they are an asshole. Karma is a bitch and you will get yours.

[MrsAxilla]

Jan 30, 2016 18:59:55 GMT -5 josieposy said:

I don't hang out there much, but is it normal for this kind of craziness to occur on MMM? I don't mean this offensively, but I thought they mostly discussed Disney trips.

And potty training. At least from what I can see.

[TR]

I hope whoever did this is shitting their pants with the knowledge that GBCN is full of extremely smart and tenacious women who aren't just going to give up on figuring this out. And then? Well. It won't be pretty.

[05heel]

Jan 30, 2016 19:00:35 GMT -5 eclaires said:

Jan 30, 2016 18:59:19 GMT -5 05heel said:

or pretending to be some sort of fashion maven, which I have repeatedly said that I never understood. And people ate that shit up, as if they couldn't peruse Old Navy on their own and buy a few hoodies and some cheap ass pants. It was hilarious, even if I had to laugh about it all by my lonesome. I'm sure she disliked Smo for that alone.

lol or land's end love. Which, I buy shit at Land's End, but it's hardly fashionable.

yes, the ponte pants from the Blanche Devereaux Collection. And while I'm in here being Petty LaBelle, I'll bring up the time where she breathlessly informed us of a new company called Kiehls of Canada. Lol. You're 100% right that we've never heard of that one. We can't all be on the cutting edge of fashion and beauty.

[gpw]

Jan 30, 2016 12:14:30 GMT -5 @booby said:

Jan 30, 2016 12:09:17 GMT -5 NitaX said:

Just so you know Bitch - you are a prime suspect. I saw that shit go down on ML and MMM. Don't you waltz your ass in here all sympathetic when you called Smo a scary black women. 

No Ma'am. If I were you, I'd get my ass up out of here quick, fast and in a hurry.

Simmer. I assume people would think it's me, but that's not how I roll. Also, I did not call smo a scary black woman. And save your bitch comments for someone else.

You know what?  I cannot let this go.  

You really said "Simmer" to NitaX .  Really.  After EVERYTHING that went down and all the shit you got called out for, and all your "I didn't mean it! I learned something here" and the "I'm so sorry" bullshit you fucking spewed?  You say ALL THAT and then come in here and tell a black woman to SIMMER?  

You are....JFC.  I don't even fucking know.  Don't come back.  

[Deleted]

Jan 30, 2016 19:09:23 GMT -5 05heel said:

Jan 30, 2016 19:00:35 GMT -5 eclaires said:

lol or land's end love. Which, I buy shit at Land's End, but it's hardly fashionable.

yes, the ponte pants from the Blanche Devereaux Collection. And while I'm in here being Petty LaBelle, I'll bring up the time where she breathlessly informed us of new company called Kiehls of Canada. Lol. You're 100% right that we've never heard of that one. We can't all be on the cutting edge of fashion and beauty.

The Kiehl's thread almost killed me dead.

Also, harem pants.

[redwino]

This is disgusting. Whoever did it is a piece of shit and so is their crew.

[05heel]

Jan 30, 2016 19:12:25 GMT -5 @koko said:

...I didn't even catch the "black folks aren't liking your posts" bit until now. Yeah. No. I'm done. Fuck this. All this is just fucking ridiculous and I'm over it.

but she called black posters telling her that she was out of line the most ridiculous display of blind support ever. And SEVERAL people liked that comment. You either have to be totally oblivious or totally malicious to make that statement. No in between.

[gpw]

Jan 30, 2016 19:16:37 GMT -5 05heel said:

Jan 30, 2016 19:12:25 GMT -5 @koko said:

...I didn't even catch the "black folks aren't liking your posts" bit until now. Yeah. No. I'm done. Fuck this. All this is just fucking ridiculous and I'm over it.

but she called black posters telling her that she was out of line the most ridiculous display of blind support ever. And SEVERAL people liked that comment. You either have to be totally oblivious or totally malicious to make that statement. No in between.

I hope the spreadsheet was updated. 

[jln]

Jan 30, 2016 19:09:23 GMT -5 05heel said:

Jan 30, 2016 19:00:35 GMT -5 eclaires said:

lol or land's end love. Which, I buy shit at Land's End, but it's hardly fashionable.

yes, the ponte pants from the Blanche Devereaux Collection. And while I'm in here being Petty LaBelle, I'll bring up the time where she breathlessly informed us of a new company called Kiehls of Canada. Lol. You're 100% right that we've never heard of that one. We can't all be on the cutting edge of fashion and beauty.

Oh my, a Petty LaBelle reference.  My two worlds have collided.  

The chucklefuck that did this to Smo better go into hiding.  This won't end well for them. 

[eclaires]

Jan 30, 2016 19:19:12 GMT -5 gpw said:

Jan 30, 2016 19:16:37 GMT -5 05heel said:

but she called black posters telling her that she was out of line the most ridiculous display of blind support ever. And SEVERAL people liked that comment. You either have to be totally oblivious or totally malicious to make that statement. No in between.

I hope the spreadsheet was updated. 

The likes in the long ML thread from the other day made my virtual spreadsheet. There were a TON of people liking some straight bullshit.

[FastHands]

Jan 30, 2016 18:20:22 GMT -5 gpw said:

Jan 30, 2016 18:17:54 GMT -5 NitaX said:

I've said before that I won't be run off because of shit people have said or done. And trust, folks have tried to come for me via a PM because I dared be upset. Why wasn't I more articulate in describing my angst or it made me look bad. Who is ever gracious when they are pissed off?

But years later, I'm still here. I won't be intimidated by such small minded antics and I won't stand for it happening to someone dear to me either.

@booby doesn't know me so that 1st simmer down shit didn't help either. But, I will not tolerate it. Absolutely will not sit back and let mean girl antics harm anyone on CEP. Not going to allow it.

Exactly nobody.  Unless you have to worry about being stereotyped.  Which was the message that was lost on SO MANY people this last week.   

I was one of those, sadly. It was plain to me that Booby was fucking wrong, 100%. But it still took someone comparing my sentiment with that of a slave owner and others referencing the BLM movement to understand when kirkette was drawn to the point of making threats against Booby. I'd like to think I was raised better and am smarter than that, but I guess I showed otherwise.

But further aggression against Smo, after she (and others) suffer(ed) a lot of bullshit here? That is beyond contemptible, and I really and truly hope that Smo and whoever else is in a position to do so can get some justice against this asshole. I hope their cowardice is brought to light, even though I know it won't undo the damage. This is such fucking bullshit.

[callie]

Sorry to see you go Smo. You are such a valuable part of this community, you will surely be missed.

Fuck you to the piece of scum who sent that box.

[saz]

I missed what lead up to this but that is so disgusting and really scary. I'm so sorry it happened and sending a lot of love and peace your way. That feeling of being violated is horrific.

[10nille]

I just want to say to SMO, I'm sorry this happened to you. It's a disgusting violation and I hope whoever did this is punished.

Am I getting it correct it was a company that does this shit for cowards who don't want to be connected to their disgusting acts? Maybe one day The Anonymous group will out them like they did the AshleyMadison dirtbags.

[05heel]

Jan 30, 2016 18:24:07 GMT -5 Beeps (WOT?*) said:

Now that I"m a wee bit calmer (maybe) I would like to say not only am I sorry this happened to Smo on her behalf, but I am sorry to all the WOC who post here because not only did it target her it tangentially targeted every woman of color who posts on this board, for daring to stand up and speak out. Whomever did this did it because she was a woman of color who dared to call someone out and didn't "know her place." And ergo, all of the women of color on this board are justified in being fearful that the same thing could happen to them.

On behalf of every majority who cares about this stuff, I am so sorry.

oh I ain't scared in the slightest. I'm pretty anonymous, but you'd have to be legitimately crazy to come for me. I have neither class nor good breeding nor good sense. Lol. I've stated as much many times over the years.

[aqualuv]

formerlysmo You will be missed. I'm so very sorry this happened to you. I'm pissed that someone and likely multiple people think this is ok. It's wrong and cowardly. Stay safe and I will keep you and your family in my prayers. ((Hugs))

[gpw]

Jan 30, 2016 19:33:31 GMT -5 05heel said:

Jan 30, 2016 18:24:07 GMT -5 Beeps (WOT?*) said:

Now that I"m a wee bit calmer (maybe) I would like to say not only am I sorry this happened to Smo on her behalf, but I am sorry to all the WOC who post here because not only did it target her it tangentially targeted every woman of color who posts on this board, for daring to stand up and speak out. Whomever did this did it because she was a woman of color who dared to call someone out and didn't "know her place." And ergo, all of the women of color on this board are justified in being fearful that the same thing could happen to them.

On behalf of every majority who cares about this stuff, I am so sorry.

oh I ain't scared in the slightest. I'm pretty anonymous, but you'd have to be legitimately crazy to come for me. I have neither class nor good breeding nor good sense. Lol. I've stated as much many times over the years.

Sits here.  In Detroit.  Come at me, bro.  

[teflepi]

Jan 30, 2016 16:06:36 GMT -5 scottyderp said:

Jan 30, 2016 15:45:05 GMT -5 teflepi said:

I am so pissed at those feigning they are creeped out. Still pissed. Fuck off and good riddance.

Who? 

Already answered, but lhc, kevin arnold, etc.  KA at least apologized for behavior since, but I am pissed.

[teflepi]

Jan 30, 2016 16:18:14 GMT -5 turnipthebeet said:

Super lurker, but I remember in the other thread when Kirkette said she was worried for her and her kids' safety, and so many people jumped in to tell her that she had nothing to worry about, that basically nothing off-board would happen. And look what happens, less than a week later.

Smo, I am sorry that this happened to you. Fuck whoever did this.

Many were the same fucking posters who are a lll "this place is crazy yo."  Yeah, how many hours later?

[teflepi]

Jan 30, 2016 16:24:51 GMT -5 Dig Ophelia said:

Jan 30, 2016 16:14:43 GMT -5 NitaX said:

I saw those posts, but one of the things that bothered me most was that there was a comment about how the WOC on GBCN weren't liking Kirkette's posts. That bugged me, but because 1) it was late and night when I saw them and 2) last week was a busy work week with multiple meetings, I couldn't post to provide any support for Kirkette. But, there was very much an undertone as if we - the WOC - weren't helping Kirkette then there was justification for continuing the asshole posts.

This is a bridge too far because now you've got Smo getting a package. It's flat out wrong and everyone who participated in it was out of order. 

Yeah, I saw those too.  It blows my damn mind that people were trying to be all "Well, none of the other WOC agree with you (by not "liking" her posts or responding in the thread), SO YOU MUST BE WRONG".

As if @kirkette 's feelings are only valid if other WOC come in and agree.  

This is why I hate coming into threads late and not being a part of the current conversation.  I wanted so badly to tell some of those asshole to go fuck themselves. 

One of the reasons the whities who all fist bumped booby's ass for her half-ass apology with the bitch ass title bugged the shit out of me.  Gah, I can't stop swearing!