Post by closertofine on Feb 8, 2016 22:41:50 GMT -5
This gives me hope. Real hope.
My sister pointed out, not to be a jerk, just an observation, that I am going to have to relearn so many things when it comes to relationships. That I have no idea what is truly normal anymore. She's right. Right now, I don't even know how I'd respond to a kind, complimentary, communicative man. I'd probably be really suspicious
This is a great post. And I so agree. My BF does or says certain things and sometimes it causes me to pause and wonder why, and then I realize it's because he is a great guy who loves me.
Post by starburst604 on Feb 11, 2016 22:09:11 GMT -5
It's been almost 12 years and I still think of things my ex-FI did and shake my head. For some reason I told T one of the stories that came to mind this past Christmas - ex-FI parents were always so nice to me, and this one year they were very generous to me at Christmas. I could tell he was in a foul mood but didn't know why until we left. He was mad because he felt his parents GAVE ME MORE GIFTS THAN HIM. He was so angry and wouldn't let it go, so finally to shut him up we took back one of the gifts they gave me to the store and got him something instead!!
We actually had a good laugh at that one. ExFi was such a giant man child. Thank God I have a normal husband!
Btw does this mean you are buying a place? Exciting!!!