DH and I are invited to a wedding next weekend (Memorial Day weekend). I responded that I'm going and DH isn't because his IPs told him they wouldn't approve leave for that weekend.
Well now everyone is on a pass Friday-Monday, so he can theoretically come. Is it ok to ask to change our RSVP?
I've changed RSVPs in the past in the opposite direction - coming to not coming, but never no to yes. If it were my wedding I'd be fine with it, but it's not.