Sunday randoms

[1confused1]

My son's tonsil removal recovery has been rough, I have felt so helpless because I can't make the pain go away    He finally ate something this morning, so I am hoping he is turning a corner.

XH has checked on him once in 4 days, couldn't understand why I wouldn't invite him over to hang out (I have a restraining order) and called me selfish for not letting my daughter stay with him (she stayed with friends/family, he has supervised visitation that he exercises occasionally).  This guy is so out of touch with reality, it seriously blows my mind.

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1confused1 I'm so sorry he sucks so much and you have to deal with that. I hope you're little guys feels better soon.

I had a really rough night last night and cried and cried then slept for like 12 hours. I feel so much better this morning sometimes you just need to let it all out. I'm watching a cute film that was made in Portland and I'm loving seeing all of the spots I know! Later today I'm going to go check out a new wine bar with some friends!

[glitzyglow]

Glad you are feeling better today @pdx18!

I have a hair appointment tomorrow morning and I'm either going to go VERY blonde (like platinum) or a strawberry blonde. I'm leaning toward the platinum because a) I've never had platinum hair and b) I think it'd be an easy transition from blonde to strawberry blonde. I'll talk to my stylist and get her opinion, but either way it goes I'm excited!

On NYE of 2014 going into 2015, so over a year ago, I chatted with a guy at a bar. I was super drunk, he was from out of town, whatever, it's a tourist city, I chat with lots of out of towners. I drunkly gave him my number and dude blew up my phone. I was not interested and told him so via text the next day. He didn't care and kept texting me incessantly, so I blocked his number. Then he found me on FB and tried to friend me. I blocked him. He found me on Instagram and tried to friend me. Nope and blocked. This morning I woke up to yet another Instagram request from him...he must have made a new profile because the old one is still blocked. I immediately blocked him. This guy needs to take a serious fucking hint. It's been almost 14 months since we met that one time, nothing happened, and I made it pretty fucking clear nothing is going to happen, ever. Leave me alone!

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1confused1, hope he feels better soon.  Your x is crazy.
@pdx18, glad you feel better today.
glitzyglow, omg that guy needs to take a hint!!

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So, to be honest, I'm all fucked up with anxiety.  My stomach is a mess, my sleeping is off (waking up super early with panic attacks and can't go back to sleep--took 2 hour nap this afternoon) and my heart is just pounding out of my chest and I'm on the verge of tears (cried a little while ago).

I have to put in my 4 weeks notice at work tomorrow.  J is more upset than I thought about moving and renting rather than buying.  He basically said that I talked him into moving and now it's a step back and he doesn't know why we are going.  Um, I explained that in a year we can buy a house in an area that we are sure of instead of going on a wing and a prayer right now.  If we stay here, in a year we still can't buy a house or even a decent condo.  We just simply can't do it here and that's why we are relocating.  He's upset, I get it...but I don't think he realizes the level of my anxiety and that I'm trying not to make a mistake.  

I wish I could just fast forward my life a bit. 

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@blueyed623 I honestly think J is being really unfair and acting like a child. It also sounds like maybe he isn't into this move as much as he thought if not buying a house is causing him to be this pouty. Something seems not right here and it isn't fair tonyou

[sweetchix]

My stomach has been feeling a bit upset the past 2 days and unfortunately my toilet decided this was the time to act up and not flush properly. Ugh!

DDs got their hair cut yesterday. DD1 decided she wanted bangs. She looks like a completely different person. I'll add pics in a minute (I don't want to lose this post when I open tinypic).

PDQ

DD1 before:


DD1 after:


I don't have a "before" for DD2. It wasn't much different than this. Just about 2" longer and no layers around her face. She said she didn't want bangs, but then changed her mind. We decided not to since she seemed to be talked into it and really didn't want them at first. I told her that next hair cut she can get bangs.

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@pdx18, I agree that his reaction is unfair.  He will get over it and maybe I shouldn't have said anything here because I will regret it (not just because of your comment, but in general) I'm confident that things happen for a reason and this will all work out as it should. 

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@blueyes623 don't worry about it coming back on you. I'm just watching out for you.

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Feb 21, 2016 17:23:03 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

@blueyes623 don't worry about it coming back on you. I'm just watching out for you.

I know.  I'm just feeling sensitive.

[LoveBug]

Feb 21, 2016 12:46:27 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

My son's tonsil removal recovery has been rough, I have felt so helpless because I can't make the pain go away    He finally ate something this morning, so I am hoping he is turning a corner.

XH has checked on him once in 4 days, couldn't understand why I wouldn't invite him over to hang out (I have a restraining order) and called me selfish for not letting my daughter stay with him (she stayed with friends/family, he has supervised visitation that he exercises occasionally).  This guy is so out of touch with reality, it seriously blows my mind.

Way for him to make it about him instead of your son. What a douche. Hope your son feels better soon.

[1confused1]

Feb 21, 2016 18:32:34 GMT -5 LoveBug said:

Feb 21, 2016 12:46:27 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

My son's tonsil removal recovery has been rough, I have felt so helpless because I can't make the pain go away    He finally ate something this morning, so I am hoping he is turning a corner.

XH has checked on him once in 4 days, couldn't understand why I wouldn't invite him over to hang out (I have a restraining order) and called me selfish for not letting my daughter stay with him (she stayed with friends/family, he has supervised visitation that he exercises occasionally).  This guy is so out of touch with reality, it seriously blows my mind.

Way for him to make it about him instead of your son. What a douche. Hope your son feels better soon.

That was my response "this is not about you"

[berbles]

sweetchix , your girls are so cute! The bangs definitely make her look older/more mature. I'm sure you don't want to hear that but she looks beautiful!!

BF is working all day today so I'm being a bum. I even Doordashed Pollo Loco, lol. I'm just barely getting over a cold but we still went out last night.

[pandora]

I just got home from Babies R Us and I am literally limping, lol. I feel beat up, it was such an overwhelming experience. But, I finally started a registry per demands and against my will, lol. I'm stoked for the discount though now for items I will be purchasing after the fact!

I feel huge yet others think I'm so much earlier which is weird. Guess it helps when you're tall and long?

[glitzyglow]

More randoms because why not?

My headboard delivery was delayed. I was seriously like a kid waiting for Santa yesterday only to be disappointed. Fwp!

I want to eat everything in sight. I just made a buttery rich chicken pot pie for dinner. I plan to eat ice cream, too. And get a DQ blizzard tomorrow bc it's next to my salon. Someone point me back to this when I complain about the 10lbs I gain, lol.

[bg]

I went to see Wicked today. It was cute and fun and I'm glad I went.

I have to get major work done this week and I'm hoping I can pull it together enough to do it. **deep breathes**

[pandora]

sweetchix, your girls are adorable! I bet they can't wait to show off their new styles tomorrow!

[sweetchix]

Feb 21, 2016 22:01:41 GMT -5 pandora said:

sweetchix, your girls are adorable! I bet they can't wait to show off their new styles tomorrow!

Thank you DD1 is really excited for her crush to see her tomorrow.

[pandora]

Feb 21, 2016 22:12:22 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

Feb 21, 2016 22:01:41 GMT -5 pandora said:

sweetchix, your girls are adorable! I bet they can't wait to show off their new styles tomorrow!

Thank you DD1 is really excited for her crush to see her tomorrow.

That is so stinking adorable and sweet, awwwww! :heart:

[pandora]

Feb 21, 2016 17:40:01 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

Feb 21, 2016 17:23:03 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

@blueyes623 don't worry about it coming back on you. I'm just watching out for you.

I know.  I'm just feeling sensitive.

Sending you a hug, girl! I hope that he can take a step back and reevaluate things from the big picture.

[Wanderista]

Feb 21, 2016 17:40:01 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

Feb 21, 2016 17:23:03 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

@blueyes623 don't worry about it coming back on you. I'm just watching out for you.

I know.  I'm just feeling sensitive.

Sorry that you are going through so much stress. I guess I would say to listen to your instincts on this. There's no right or wrong answer. Moments when you feel like this are opportunities for growth, for learning about yourself and for moving forward in life. There aren't really any mistakes just opportunities to move forward in life (though when it comes to buying a house, rushing too much can be a mistake). It is very easy to be complacent and it is much harder to step outside of your comfort zone but doing so can help you to really understand yourself rather than just drifting through life on autopilot. 

Change can be scary, but change in pursuit of what you want is a good thing.