Was there ever any resolution to the bag of d--ks?

[eddy]

I can still see pms sent prior to the incident from booby. She doesn't show as active but her screenname is still associated with her pms.

[Lucy Honeychurch]

Feb 25, 2016 21:06:42 GMT -5 eddy said:

I can still see pms sent prior to the incident from booby. She doesn't show as active but her screenname is still associated with her pms.

I have PMs too. Presumably if her PMs were deleted, I would not still have them.

[iamgrace]

I have booby PMs too, so I'm not about this whole PM deletion business. Seems odd.

[EllieArroway]

Feb 25, 2016 21:06:42 GMT -5 eddy said:

I can still see pms sent prior to the incident from booby. She doesn't show as active but her screenname is still associated with her pms.

Huh, I just assumed that she had them remove everything. Y4m had emailed me explaining that booby was asking for a delete, and when I logged in my PMs from her (she had sent me other messages over the previous days) were all gone, along with all of her posts. I checked the logs and there was nothing, which is how I found out that PB deleted for her.

[Lucy Honeychurch]

According to booby, all her other PMs were still intact after her posts were deleted. So no, I don't buy the story that they were wiped out.

[EllieArroway]

Feb 25, 2016 21:07:28 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

Well where did the myth that admins deleted their interactions with booby come from then?

My messages from booby all disappeared along with her posts.

[papie]

Feb 25, 2016 21:03:34 GMT -5 EllieArroway said:

Feb 25, 2016 20:50:14 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

EllieArroway,y4m, would you like to address this?

This is false. At her request, PB deleted everything for booby - including her PMs.

I am assuming that any PMs she sent any of you before that time were also deleted.

She specifically looked for those PMs and only those were gone. I guess it's your word against hers, is it?

[Eagles]

Now I'm even more confused.

[EllieArroway]

[pixy0stix]

Receipts.

[Deleted]

This is all awful. I had no idea.

[Lucy Honeychurch]

Feb 25, 2016 21:12:50 GMT -5 EllieArroway said:

I think you were lied to.

[KKD]

Feb 25, 2016 21:11:27 GMT -5 papie said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:03:34 GMT -5 EllieArroway said:

This is false. At her request, PB deleted everything for booby - including her PMs.

I am assuming that any PMs she sent any of you before that time were also deleted.

She specifically looked for those PMs and only those were gone. I guess it's your word against hers, is it?

Really, it's y4m's against booby's, right?

[eddy]

I on my third glass of wine. I am here for the long haul.

I would also love it if members accused could have their names cleared. Not that they would come back, but it seems the right thing to do.

[papie]

Feb 25, 2016 21:13:39 GMT -5 KKD said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:11:27 GMT -5 papie said:

She specifically looked for those PMs and only those were gone. I guess it's your word against hers, is it?

Really, it's y4m's against booby's, right?

Yes sorry Ellie. Kristin is right. Maybe you just weren't aware.

[underwaterrhymes]

Feb 25, 2016 21:13:44 GMT -5 eddy said:

I on my third glass of wine. I am here for the long haul.

I would also love it if members accused could have their names cleared. Not that they would come back, but it seems the right thing to do.

I've had almost a bottle.

But I'm on bedtime duty with a jealous toddler.

[bugandbibs]

Everything about this sucks

[rugbywife]

I have always kind of wondered if someone sent the BOD to get to Booby, because obviously everyone would think it was her who did it, or at least enough that she would end up leaving.

[VeryViolet]

I have kind of stayed out of a lot of this because I haven't been around much lately and while I read everything I wasn't involved when everything went down so I feel weird chiming in now. In addition to clearing anyone's name I would also really like to know who the psychos mailing dicks and emailing people's workplace are. I understand there may be reasons whatever they are for keeping it under wraps but honestly it may help people still posting feel a little better if we at least know who. This is one of those times the call out flow chart should lead directly to yes, "did you go irl psycho?" Call that shit out for all to see so other posters can defriend, block, delete, or whatever.

ETA I get that I am basically saying the same thing as OP. I just was trying to inarticulately make the point that people don't want to know just because "ohhhh juicy gossip". There is some of that I am sure but also so we can protect ourselves and hopefully purge the board of people who deserve it.

[eddy]

Toledo is back for the night. My world is complete.

[iamali]

If someone in touch with booby is comfortable answering this: does she have a good feel for who did this?

In the same vein, can any of smo's friends confirm that she's ok and hasn't had any further disturbances?

[rugbywife]

Feb 25, 2016 21:19:39 GMT -5 @beagle said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:15:14 GMT -5 rugbywife said:

I have always kind of wondered if someone sent the BOD to get to Booby, because obviously everyone would think it was her who did it, or at least enough that she would end up leaving.

I'm sure whomever did it knew that booby would be accused. Then they got to sit back and watch the board tear each other apart.

I mean more that sending the BOD wasn't actually about making a point to Smo, but about 'getting rid' of Booby...like Smo was collateral damage in the actual attack. 

[fryjack2]

Feb 25, 2016 21:22:06 GMT -5 rugbywife said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:19:39 GMT -5 @beagle said:

I'm sure whomever did it knew that booby would be accused. Then they got to sit back and watch the board tear each other apart.

I mean more that sending the BOD wasn't actually about making a point to Smo, but about 'getting rid' of Booby...like Smo was collateral damage in the actual attack. 

This is quite the conspiracy theory.

[pixy0stix]

Feb 25, 2016 21:20:49 GMT -5 toledo said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:13:26 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

Receipts.

OMG shut the fuck up with your goddamn "receipts" mantra. You were suspiciously silent on the subject of proof when accusations were being hurled at booby.

Really? I needed smo to provide proof that she was sent a bag of dicks? Hi toledo, welcome back.

[pixy0stix]

Feb 25, 2016 21:20:49 GMT -5 toledo said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:13:26 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

Receipts.

OMG shut the fuck up with your goddamn "receipts" mantra. You were suspiciously silent on the subject of proof when accusations were being hurled at booby.

AND, the reason I'm asking for receipts is because none of what flex said ever fucking happened. I want to know if the admins were doing something shady, which it appears not. Unless y4m did something. So... again, why is this a bad thing? I didn't ask for booby to provide the email, did I?

[rugbywife]

Feb 25, 2016 21:24:07 GMT -5 fryjack2 said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:22:06 GMT -5 rugbywife said:

I mean more that sending the BOD wasn't actually about making a point to Smo, but about 'getting rid' of Booby...like Smo was collateral damage in the actual attack. 

This is quite the conspiracy theory.

When it happened, it was like INSTANTANEOUS belief that Booby did it. That's what gets me. I mean, I get it, a lot of shit was said, bad shit, really really bad shit, by Booby, in the threads/days that lead up to the BOD incident. But when it happened, it was her, it HAD to be her.  

And hey, maybe it was. But now the word on the street is that even if someone figures out who did it, nobody will ever be told? 

[KKD]

Feb 25, 2016 21:18:21 GMT -5 @kirkette said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:03:34 GMT -5 EllieArroway said:

This is false. At her request, PB deleted everything for booby - including her PMs.

I am assuming that any PMs she sent any of you before that time were also deleted.

Again in the spirit of transparency, I guess it's also my place to add that the mods and PBs were waiting for me to finish backing up all the files related to this case, before they could delete everything for Booby. Hence the freeze on post deletions. Unfortunately, backing up files that large takes time. We were working round the clock to grab those files. I have the files saved, as I mentioned I would, should Smo or I, ever need them. 
Had the mods and PBs deleted everything right away, it would've been lost forever. The site was very clear about that fact. Everything would've been gone.
As soon as I gave them the green light that I was done, they allowed for deletions to occur as usual.
So, it may not be a case of malicious intent on the part of the Mods and PB, it could come down to timing of the process. 

Either way, it's still shitty that someone is taking these things into real life.  
That is pure craziness. 

Backing up what files? Do you mean copying posts, or...?

And I don't think the bold is true. PB was able to delete booby's posts while the deletion ban was still in effect, presumably before you gave the GBCN mods "the green light."

[rugbywife]

Feb 25, 2016 21:27:53 GMT -5 @stilljustash said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:22:06 GMT -5 rugbywife said:

I mean more that sending the BOD wasn't actually about making a point to Smo, but about 'getting rid' of Booby...like Smo was collateral damage in the actual attack. 

this is...i don't even have fucking words.

? I am not sure what you mean, maybe I misused words here.  I am not saying what happened to Smo wasn't horrible - it was horrific, like beyond words. 

edit: I mean maybe I worded my thoughts in a horrible way.

[pixy0stix]

Feb 25, 2016 21:26:18 GMT -5 toledo said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:24:31 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

Really? I needed smo to provide proof that she was sent a bag of dicks? Hi toledo, welcome back.

Proof that it was booby, you deliberate dumbass.

Oooooh, so I need proof that it was booby, do I? Is this where the crusade to bring booby back occurs and her friends welcome her with open arms because she was just so misunderstood? Her actions on the board were enough for me to want her gone.

[rugbywife]

Feb 25, 2016 21:28:18 GMT -5 @natariru said:

Feb 25, 2016 21:22:06 GMT -5 rugbywife said:

I mean more that sending the BOD wasn't actually about making a point to Smo, but about 'getting rid' of Booby...like Smo was collateral damage in the actual attack. 

Oh yes... Pooooorrrrr booby. Smo was just caught in the crossfire. GTFO with this shit.

Oh, okay, yeah, totally not what I meant, I didn't communicate my thoughts properly.  I shouldn't have used the metaphor that I did, it isn't what I meant.  Smo was totally the victim. Nevermind.