Would you ask?

[madringal]

DD1 sent a special Valentine to her best friends mom. Last year she spent it with him and then he died less than a month later.

It was a small package and when I took it to the post office they insisted I had the zip code wrong and changed it. I lost my tracking number and haven't heard anything from her, which seems unlike her.

Is it rude to ask if she got it?

[soozy87]

No, I think it is okay to ask.

[undecidedowl]

I don't think it's rude but I'd be careful with my wording as to not make her feel bad for not responding if she did get it. She may be really struggling right now so I would probably reach out just generally to see how she is doing. I might just say "I hope you got the package from DD1, the post office had some issues."

[madringal]

Feb 29, 2016 17:29:05 GMT -5 undecidedowl said:

I don't think it's rude but I'd be careful with my wording as to not make her feel bad for not responding if she did get it. She may be really struggling right now so I would probably reach out just generally to see how she is doing. I might just say "I hope you got the package from DD1, the post office had some issues."

Thanks. That's exactly what I'm worried about!