How many people to date?

[jojoandleo]

It's a personal preference. I dated different people until I became attached to one. Other people wait until the talk. Other people go one at a time. It's like-some people eats M&Ms one at a time. I eat a fucking handful. I feel men are the same. Why pick through one at a time when I can shove a handful in there and be satisfied much faster?

So, if you feel uncomfy, don't do it. You do you!

[Deleted]

Do whatever you feel comfortable with.

I think I dated 3 at a time at some points, but I quickly realized that 2 was my limit. I would sometimes get confused with who I had told stories to or specifics we had talked about. These were all casual dating relationships so I didn't feel guilty or anything about going on dates, but coordinating with more than 2 guys at a time became too much for me after awhile.

[Deleted]

Agree with the above, all personal preference. Until you've committed to being exclusive with one person you do whatever you want with a clear mind! I usually know pretty well after the first date if I want to move or keep seeing someone. And honestly I usually only want to see maybe 1 in 10 again? So I don't typically end up juggling much, but I can have a few first dates in one week. Again that's just me. Do what feels good for you!

[bl]

Whatever you are comfortable with. I would go on a couple of dates a week until someone stood out as a front-runner against the rest then I would let the others sort of fade out. If it works for you and you're comfortable with it then do it!

[Linie]

I have never dated more than one man at the time. Actually, the whole US concept of dating - the talk - exclusivity seems a little strange to me (but of course no judgment!). I will meet someone and if I am available and like him, there will be other meetings until we end up as a couple, as friends or nothing. As soon as we have a proper kiss, I will not consider anyone else.

[pinkdutchtulips]

Mar 11, 2016 7:52:26 GMT -5 bl said:

Whatever you are comfortable with. I would go on a couple of dates a week until someone stood out as a front-runner against the rest then I would let the others sort of fade out. If it works for you and you're comfortable with it then do it!

this ... I've talked to plenty of guys and weeded out from there. I met my bf late Jan as I was feeling out 2 other guys. The other 2 have fallen by the wayside and cream rose to the top