My date last night was awful. First, he was super late. Secondly, he reeked of alcohol. He tried to say that he had had just one shot, but I could literally smell the alcohol wafting off of him. After a few minutes I told him it was late and that I needed to be going. He asked me to please sit at the bar with him. Nope. He asked if we could go for a walk. Nope. Then he offered to drive us to a different bar. Ha, absolutely no way am I getting in the car with a drunk driver. I literally probably was in his presence for only 10 minutes. I parked right by the door and when I said I was leaving, he leaned over and tried to kiss me! I was like, "No, stop. STOP." He followed me out to my car and was like, "Just 1 kiss!" I said no and got in my car and immediately blocked him.
I deleted all my dating stuff. I had a few more weeks on match, but I am done. The nail in the coffin was finding out yesterday that some dude I talked to on the phone last week (that vented for more than 30 minutes about everything in his life - that I hung up on) was arrested twice in the last year and a half for threats, trespassing and assault on a female. I was a little freaked out that he found me on fb this week and sent a friend request, so I've blocked him and put all of that on lockdown too. Ugh.
I had a dream last night where I was talking with a friend about a person I had hooked up with. When I woke up, I had to really think if I had actually ever hooked up with that person. I don't think I had...I think maybe I hooked up in a dream, so then my dream self remembers the hooking up.
Post by glitzyglow on Mar 18, 2016 10:39:13 GMT -5
That's scary doglove. I hope he disappears from your life without trouble. Also, I'm going to try to come to your neck of the woods come late summer/fall. I'll keep you posted!
I unhid my POF profile yesterday and I'm about ready to hide it again. About 95% of the messages are just "Hi, how are you?", "Do you want to chat?", "You're beautiful"... This is one of the reasons I hid my profile in the first place. I even put a note in my profile to intrigue me if they were to message me, not just say "Hi, how are you, etc..." because it was happening so often. Obviously 95% of them aren't reading my profile or they just don't care. Why do I want to waste my time on them then. Frustrating.
Post by glitzyglow on Mar 18, 2016 15:48:21 GMT -5
OMG. The date from last night just called me from a different number. I had no idea it was him since it popped local...I figured it was my boss or one of my coworkers. I just hung up on him and blocked the number. I'm going to send a text not to contact me again, although I'll have to unblock him to do so. If I immediately reblock him, will he see the text?