Well, we did it...We had the talk.

[arielroux]

He actually brought it up before I even had the chance, which was odd. 

And it was ROUGH. Three hours this conversation lasted.  THREE HOURS.

Parts were heated. Parts were intense.  Parts were very, very emotional.  We both laid it allllllll out there and were brutally honest about wants, needs, and feelings.

I cried. He cried.

A lot of what needed to be said was finally said.

But in the end, it was a very good and very necessary talk.

In conclusion - I love him.  He loves me.  Neither one of us wants to be without the other, and we are officially together as an exclusive couple.  No more pseudo-bf.  Just regular bf. 

Holy shit.  I got four hours of sleep last night.  I'm exhausted, lol.

I want to thank all of you for your advice over the last couple days, even though some of it was a little hard to hear.  Honestly, without that push I probably wouldn't have been as honest about my feelings when he brought it up last night. 

[1confused1]

I'm so glad you did it and congrats on your new title ;-)

[sweetchix]

Sounds like it was a much needed discussion and I'm glad it went well.

[bl]

I am so glad you guys were able to have such a good conversation with a good outcome!

[jojoandleo]

Yay! Sounds like you BOTH needed "the talk." I am happy for you! And I am glad he isn't a flaming asshat. However, if it turns out he is, let me know. I'll mail him a glitterbomb.

[thedutchgirl]

Way to go!

[Mrs.Rad888]

I'm so happy for you! It's so nice knowing where you stand within a relationship.

[pandora]

So glad that you had the talk and that it all ended up so well.

[bg]

I'm glad it went well!

[abcdefu]

I'm so glad it turned out well! I hope the talk helped the two of you communicate better since you can both be completely honest about your needs!

oh and YAY for no more pseudo bf!!!