WTF. Let it go.

[glitzyglow]

Here's the backstory:

Mar 18, 2016 at 9:33am
Post by glitzyglow on Mar 18, 2016 at 9:33am

My date last night was awful. First, he was super late. Secondly, he reeked of alcohol. He tried to say that he had had just one shot, but I could literally smell the alcohol wafting off of him. After a few minutes I told him it was late and that I needed to be going. He asked me to please sit at the bar with him. Nope. He asked if we could go for a walk. Nope. Then he offered to drive us to a different bar. Ha, absolutely no way am I getting in the car with a drunk driver. I literally probably was in his presence for only 10 minutes. I parked right by the door and when I said I was leaving, he leaned over and tried to kiss me! I was like, "No, stop. STOP." He followed me out to my car and was like, "Just 1 kiss!" I said no and got in my car and immediately blocked him.

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Mar 18, 2016 at 3:48pm
Post by glitzyglow on Mar 18, 2016 at 3:48pm

OMG. The date from last night just called me from a different number. I had no idea it was him since it popped local...I figured it was my boss or one of my coworkers. I just hung up on him and blocked the number. I'm going to send a text not to contact me again, although I'll have to unblock him to do so. If I immediately reblock him, will he see the text?

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And I woke up to a missed call from a number unknown to me and a voicemail this morning. The voicemail said something like, "Hey! I'm a friend of a guy you went out with named X. He's a good guy...." And I heard no more because I immediately deleted that fucking message and blocked that number.

Holy shit. We met once for 15 minutes and it was awful! LET IT GO.

[bl]

Wow, I am at a loss. I can't imagine why this guy thinks that this behavior would win him another shot.

[jigsy]

Said no woman ever.

[jigsy]

Side note...so I wanted to find this specific gif, but I cannot for the life of me remember what movie/TV show it is from. There is a woman, who kind of laughs uncomfortably and says "psycho" while turning away.

Or something like that.

Ringing any bells for anyone. This is driving me crazy.

[cuddlyevil]

[arielroux]

OMG, it was uncomfortable and unnerving just reading this. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this guy, and his apparently just as insane friends.

[doglove]

Be really careful about this, don't respond and keep deleting/blocking. I had a guy like this that I hung up on and after he kept searching/trying to contact me - I found out he'd been arrested for assaulting a woman. These men clearly don't have normal/healthy relationship boundaries. It really bothers me in this day and age that a lot of healthy boundaries are trampled.

[glitzyglow]

doglove, this is the first time this has happened to me and it is freaking me out. It sucks that my simply saying "no" isn't enough for him to step off. I don't owe him an explanation why I'm not interested...my saying NO should be clear and respected. I agree, it is so bothersome that these types of guys exist and don't respect boundaries.

[1confused1]

Holy shit!

[Deleted]

Dude I'm SO SORRY! But great job with the not engaging part. Do you have his full name? I might try and run it through arrest records if available.

[bg]

Yikes! Not ok at all! I hope he leaves you alone.

[doglove]

It is very nerve wracking glitzyglow. :/

[Wanderista]

He is creepy. You don't owe him anything.

[sweetchix]

Ummm... Wow!
I wish I could add a gif, but I don't know how

[jojoandleo]

But seriously, no.  Block.   If he or anyone else contacts you on his behalf, I might call the non-emergency police number and talk to them about stalking.

[jenstar]

Holy crap dude, what a weirdo! I had a guy who wouldn't let go once too but we had gone on one actual date.. He was fairly innocuous but still texted me randomly like 18 months later to see if I wanted to go rock climbing.. #movethefuckonman

I'm betting 1 billion gbcn dollars that he sent that text himself, unless he's managed to find friends who are as creepy as he is..

[stephreloaded]

This is completely crazy! I hope he leaves you alone!!

I wonder what is going on in his head. Ohhh if I keep trying she will see how much I liker and she is going to think that I'm the sweetest guy on earth.

[stephreloaded]

Mar 30, 2016 21:05:07 GMT -5 @32flavors said:

I can relate but with a totally different start/end. The thing in common that I don't get- how does a fixated obsessed guy get the people around him to reach out? Wtf?

My ex FI had his best friend called me and tell me that he had committed suicide because of me. I still wonder to this day why did he think it was fine to do it. 

[pandora]

OMG, that dude is out of his mind crazy. That is downright alarming. This guy is reminding me of the crazy stalker that I dealt with who wouldn't go away. Keep blocking but I do think you may want to call the police just to see what they say.

This is why I used the google # instead of my real cell # when I was dating. I don't even remember how to use it anymore but I think any woman dating should consider using the google # which forwards the calls to your cell and you can call from the google # so they never have your real #. It was super easy to block the crazy too and if you run into randos calling like this, you can just set up a new google # and start over.

Do you have this guy's full name at all? I'm guessing not since it was just one date. I hope he moves on soon now. I'm also guessing that it was him calling and not some friend but as Jojo mentioned, crazy hangs with crazy so you never know. I am so sorry that you went through that!

Crazy is as crazy does. :/

[FormerlyRR]

Mar 30, 2016 21:05:07 GMT -5 @32flavors said:

I can relate but with a totally different start/end. The thing in common that I don't get- how does a fixated obsessed guy get the people around him to reach out? Wtf?

THIS! I had one try to call me after work hours from a co-worker's desk phone. It had the same prefix as his, so I didn't answer since I suspected that it was him, then I blocked it. What.in.the.actual.fuck. 

[starburst604]

Mar 30, 2016 11:18:49 GMT -5 jigsy said:

Side note...so I wanted to find this specific gif, but I cannot for the life of me remember what movie/TV show it is from. There is a woman, who kind of laughs uncomfortably and says "psycho" while turning away.

Or something like that.

Ringing any bells for anyone. This is driving me crazy.

Forgetting Sarah Marshall comes to mind? 

[abcdefu]

Omg glitzyglow! That is cray cray! You are right, you don't owe him an explanation or anything! I hope he leaves you alone. If he continues with this behavior, please contact the police and protect yourself as much as you can!

[abcdefu]

Apr 1, 2016 11:33:09 GMT -5 starburst604 said:

Mar 30, 2016 11:18:49 GMT -5 jigsy said:

Side note...so I wanted to find this specific gif, but I cannot for the life of me remember what movie/TV show it is from. There is a woman, who kind of laughs uncomfortably and says "psycho" while turning away.

Or something like that.

Ringing any bells for anyone. This is driving me crazy.

Forgetting Sarah Marshall comes to mind? 

Mila kunis says it about Kristen Bell, right? Love that movie!