Saturday Randoms!

[abcdefu]

I found out that I only need 6 courses to become a certified paralegal. I applied to an online program at a local-ish community college and plan to start in the fall. I'm going to start small and take one or two classes so I'm not overwhelmed, as I may still be recovering from ankle surgery. Once my boss retires, I am going to have an awesome resume containing an amazing reference from my boss, 6+ years at the same firm, a bachelor's degree and paralegal certification. I am really trying to focus on my future, career, and the controllable health (ie: Eating healthy, exercise, mental health).

My body is still trying to fight off this sinus infection, but aside from coughing and fever, I am feeling better. I was supposed to take my nieces to see Zootopia, but I'm going to stay home and have a lazy weekend on the couch!

I received great news from my urology appointment yesterday. He was overall very happy with how I am doing, aside from the normal issues from the SB. I don't have to go back until next year unless I'm experiencing issues. I am on a mission to get to the point where I only have to see my specialists once a year.

[liubot]

I'm doing my own acrylic nails and they look great. Wish I could polish better than I do but eh... That's why there's smoothing top coat.
I'm bored and eh and missing my kiddo because she's with her dad. Maybe I'll go out tonight to see some live music. Have a glass of wine. Who knows.

[cuddlyevil]

I had to replace the starter in my car. Whee.

My schedule may be changing, so I might have weekends back! Yay normal single life.

[asoctoberfalls]

H moved out today! I've had several people call to tell me they're sorry, they're thinking of me, they know it is a tough day, etc. but in reality, I feel so light and free and happy! Wheeeee! I've already cleaned a bunch because H is a slob and I love a clean house. So glad he's not here to mess it up any more! I've never lived on my own and I'm excited. I know the house needs to sell asap, but i intend to enjoy having it to myself (I LOVE our house, this was our dream house that we built just over a year ago and intended to stay in forever).

One of the movers was creepy, and now he knows I live here alone with my son. That freaks me out a bit.

[1confused1]

Apr 2, 2016 12:51:23 GMT -5 liubot said:

I'm doing my own acrylic nails and they look great. Wish I could polish better than I do but eh... That's why there's smoothing top coat.
I'm bored and eh and missing my kiddo because she's with her dad. Maybe I'll go out tonight to see some live music. Have a glass of wine. Who knows.

Skip the wine, aren't you working on staying sober? Treat yourself a different way!

[1confused1]

We don't really have plans this weekend besides my kid's baseball game. It's kinda nice.

[sweetchix]

I've done almost nothing but sit on the couch all day. I did manage to clean up the kitchen and run the dishwasher, and throw in a load of wash. But I'm beat from being on the go all week and working out Monday-Friday. I weighed myself this morning and I was down 5 lbs from Tuesday morning, but that doesn't seem right to me. Seems too fast of a loss.

Off to bowling soon. I'm hoping we bowl good tonight because we only have 2 more weeks and we're right in the middle of the pack. It would be nice to move up more and get more prize money.

[cuddlyevil]

I have had so much coffee today and I am still tired.

[dreamcrisp1]

I'm sitting behind this guy who has his arm around his gf. His BO is so horrible that I can smell it all the way here and I'm dying. How does she not smell it or care?!?

[abcdefu]

Apr 2, 2016 16:12:07 GMT -5 dreamcrisp1 said:

I'm sitting behind this guy who has his arm around his gf. His BO is so horrible that I can smell it all the way here and I'm dying. How does she not smell it or care?!?

Your post is giving me terrible flashbacks to home room in high school. This girl who didn't believe in deodorant sat in front of me for 4 years thanks to alphabetical order. I always put lotion or hand sanitizer on during homeroom hoping that no one thought the stench was coming from me.

So gross!

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...I've been transitioning from antiperspirant to natural deodorant and it's a hard transition. I hope people can't smell me like that... my biggest fear is being stinky in yoga class. No my first fear is queefing and My second fear is smelling in yoga class. Luckily a new brand of deordorant came in the mail today so I hope it works better than what I have been using.

[liubot]

Apr 2, 2016 15:07:19 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

Apr 2, 2016 12:51:23 GMT -5 liubot said:

I'm doing my own acrylic nails and they look great. Wish I could polish better than I do but eh... That's why there's smoothing top coat.
I'm bored and eh and missing my kiddo because she's with her dad. Maybe I'll go out tonight to see some live music. Have a glass of wine. Who knows.

Skip the wine, aren't you working on staying sober? Treat yourself a different way!

Yup I'm 21 days sober. I took a long nap and decided to not go out. I may order Chinese and watch tv.

[1confused1]

Apr 2, 2016 19:23:54 GMT -5 liubot said:

Apr 2, 2016 15:07:19 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

Skip the wine, aren't you working on staying sober? Treat yourself a different way!

Yup I'm 21 days sober. I took a long nap and decided to not go out. I may order Chinese and watch tv.

Much better plan!  Congrats on the sobriety!  

[spedrunner]

i just moved all my belongings from SC BACK to NJ. It was a quick trip. My mom helped. I put it all in storage and COULD NOT BE HAPPIER
Moving sucks y'all!

plantain chips are delicious

I do NOT want to go backt o work on Monday after being off for spring break this week 

I read , and really disliked, The Circle by David Eggers

I am loving hot yoga and its opening my body up so much and I am starting to feel good again

I made my parents a pretty awesome steak and hasselbeck potato dinner tonight

I am so happy being single. I have no desire to get in a relationship bc I am having so much fun doing my thing

[thedutchgirl]

I'll get the house in the divorce. But STBX is resistant to the divorce. Because things were volatile, I moved out to a furnished apartment. He's saying he can "maybe" by out in June. He's out of town this weekend, so I'm at my house with my dog. It's weird. My clothes and such are all at my apartment. I love my house, but I hope I don't have to "housesit" again while he's still living here.

None of the food here is mine. My dinner was the other half of a bowl I got for dinner last night from Chipotle. And some Doritos.

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Apr 2, 2016 22:06:54 GMT -5 thedutchgirl said:

I'll get the house in the divorce. But STBX is resistant to the divorce. Because things were volatile, I moved out to a furnished apartment. He's saying he can "maybe" by out in June. He's out of town this weekend, so I'm at my house with my dog. It's weird. My clothes and such are all at my apartment. I love my house, but I hope I don't have to "housesit" again while he's still living here.

None of the food here is mine. My dinner was the other half of a bowl I got for dinner last night from Chipotle. And some Doritos.

That must be awkward. There's no way to compel him out of your property or do you have to wait until the divorce is finalize? 

[thedutchgirl]

Apr 4, 2016 11:34:29 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

Apr 2, 2016 22:06:54 GMT -5 thedutchgirl said:

I'll get the house in the divorce. But STBX is resistant to the divorce. Because things were volatile, I moved out to a furnished apartment. He's saying he can "maybe" by out in June. He's out of town this weekend, so I'm at my house with my dog. It's weird. My clothes and such are all at my apartment. I love my house, but I hope I don't have to "housesit" again while he's still living here.

None of the food here is mine. My dinner was the other half of a bowl I got for dinner last night from Chipotle. And some Doritos.

That must be awkward. There's no way to compel him out of your property or do you have to wait until the divorce is finalize? 

I am trying not to push too hard because then he gets resistant. It is legally his house too right now, so there's not much I can do to force him out, unfortunately.

[doriswe]

Apr 4, 2016 11:34:29 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

Apr 2, 2016 22:06:54 GMT -5 thedutchgirl said:

I'll get the house in the divorce. But STBX is resistant to the divorce. Because things were volatile, I moved out to a furnished apartment. He's saying he can "maybe" by out in June. He's out of town this weekend, so I'm at my house with my dog. It's weird. My clothes and such are all at my apartment. I love my house, but I hope I don't have to "housesit" again while he's still living here.

None of the food here is mine. My dinner was the other half of a bowl I got for dinner last night from Chipotle. And some Doritos.

That must be awkward. There's no way to compel him out of your property or do you have to wait until the divorce is finalize? 

I know this is a serious question but I immediately went to this:

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Apr 4, 2016 12:05:29 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Apr 4, 2016 11:34:29 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

That must be awkward. There's no way to compel him out of your property or do you have to wait until the divorce is finalize? 

I know this is a serious question but I immediately went to this:

LOL. IF only divorce was also that easy...