DH's birthday is today and he usually lets me use his birthday discount. And after getting my adoption papers I found out my birthday is on Thursday instead of next month like we've celebrated for the last THIRTY-THREE years. Ya'll the amount of therapy, alcohol and sparkly things needed to deal with this shit is insane. The can't even put into words the amount of anger I have towards Dumb & Dumber.
So onto the sparkly stuff.
I like the long necklace and the bracelet. I'd probably poke DS's eyeballs out with the spikey one.
I like this bracelet because I feel like it's versatille and I can stack it with a ton of stuff. And while it's not sparkly, I have a bunch of other sparkly pieces I can stack with it.
I like the simplicity of this one and that I don't have to stack anything on this one. Just put it on and go.
The necklace. *Drool* The color of it is gorgeous. But I'd be worried it would break my neck.
"He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." - Unknown
To bad it isn't Friday, we could be birthday twins!
But seriously, I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I just don't get how they could have your BIRTHDAY wrong!?! (hug) (hug2)
I LOVE the top one!
I know. It's pretty mind blowing. I asked Dumber why my birthday was the 14th and she said it was because the agency messed it up on ALL my paperwork. Which I totally had to give her the stink eye/roll eye all at once because I knew she was lying because when they talked to DH they said they couldn't get to me for a month after I was born due to logistics. When I was a teenager I read a journal entry in Dumb's journal dated May 17th saying that they 'had' me and it was great blah blah blah. So riddle me this...if my birthday was truly May 14th like she claims it was and it was a clerical error, how then could Dumb have written that journal entry on May 17th if they couldn't get to me for a month?
Thinking back on it all now, it explains why they could never freaking remember my birthday. My theory is that they are such narcissists that they changed my birthday because they wanted to recognize the day they got me as my birthdate because they thought they were such great people for doing such a great thing when in reality they are the spawn of satan. They striped me of the last piece of my true identity and then hid the rest of it.
WOW ditzydi, I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of this. I can't believe that they would do something like that. They definitely were never thinking of you, only themselves. I'm so glad that you've found the truth but what a terrible thing to have to work through.
I hope you get some really amazing birthday gifts this year. Maybe you should have two birthdays now. I think you deserve that easily!!!
WOW ditzydi , I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of this. I can't believe that they would do something like that. They definitely were never thinking of you, only themselves. I'm so glad that you've found the truth but what a terrible thing to have to work through.
I hope you get some really amazing birthday gifts this year. Maybe you should have two birthdays now. I think you deserve that easily!!!
It's funny you mention two birthdays because Dumber did celebrate two birthdays. One was the American calendar and the other was her Chinese calendar birthday and good word if you missed either of them, the ration of shit you'd get was nuts. But was damn near impossible to remember because the Chinese calendar birthday was always a freaking moving target and so her birthday was always just confusing as hell.
My friends have told me I should consider this my first birthday. So I have requested a pony that I will name Princess Sparkles.
WOW ditzydi , I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of this. I can't believe that they would do something like that. They definitely were never thinking of you, only themselves. I'm so glad that you've found the truth but what a terrible thing to have to work through.
I hope you get some really amazing birthday gifts this year. Maybe you should have two birthdays now. I think you deserve that easily!!!
It's funny you mention two birthdays because Dumber did celebrate two birthdays. One was the American calendar and the other was her Chinese calendar birthday and good word if you missed either of them, the ration of shit you'd get was nuts. But was damn near impossible to remember because the Chinese calendar birthday was always a freaking moving target and so her birthday was always just confusing as hell.
My friends have told me I should consider this my first birthday. So I have requested a pony that I will name Princess Sparkles.
Dumber sounds like a real peach. I LOVE the first birthday idea! You definitely deserve that pony! <)
It's funny you mention two birthdays because Dumber did celebrate two birthdays. One was the American calendar and the other was her Chinese calendar birthday and good word if you missed either of them, the ration of shit you'd get was nuts. But was damn near impossible to remember because the Chinese calendar birthday was always a freaking moving target and so her birthday was always just confusing as hell.
My friends have told me I should consider this my first birthday. So I have requested a pony that I will name Princess Sparkles.
Dumber sounds like a real peach. I LOVE the first birthday idea! You definitely deserve that pony! <)
I want the pony from the Amazon commercial. The one that the lady installs the pony door to the house for. Cutest pony ever. DS loves that pony. He thinks it's cute too. He'll hear the music from the commercial and come running, plop on the couch and watch it. Then run back off screaming about farts and poops right afterward. Boys. Gotta take the sweet, quiet moments when I can.
Ditzydi, I am so, so sorry you're going through this. I feel like I don't know what to say but do want you to know that I'm thinking of you.
Thanks. I feel like I'm slowly going crazy. I start individual therapy on Friday and then group therapy on Saturday. The Saturday sessions are to fix a diagnosis that they were told about but did nothing about and I believed the idiots. So now I'm doing group therapy to fix myself.
"He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." - Unknown
Ponnnnny! So cute! DH actually had a co-worker who had a shetland pony that was a therapy pony. We donated to her therapy organization. I may need to go visit her pony for some therapy. I guess I need to see if DH remembers that co-workers name because he worked with her like five positions ago.