It doesn't really matter who you call a race baiter. That's what your simple ass doesn't seem to understand. The terminology itself means that whoever it's used towards is somehow trumping up an issue to play the race card.
The reason it's derogatory with your ignorant ass is that it diminishes the views of others as false, unimportant and unwarranted. Nothing about it is funny. Nothing. I don't care who it's used towards, it is offensive. Point Blank.
WOC on these boards have been extremely vocal in pointing out when something is said or done that is inherently offensive. So, like I said before you don't get to use Race Baiting Fairies wantonly.
Now, you can sit here and feign like you don't understand and your comprehension skills of that of a one year old all you want, but when you finish, you had zero business saying that bullshit regardless of your perceived and failed attempt at a joke.
I just remembered why you're on my list. ::narrows eyes::
You absolutely cannot understand when someone says, "Hey, that's offensive, stop it." You have to keep going and going and going and going because you cannot back down and say that you're sorry.
Guess what? You're wrong again.
For those that don't remember, when ZB died she said something that I asked her not to and explained why it was offensive, and she just kept on going. Not one ounce of self reflection.
It doesn't really matter who you call a race baiter. That's what your simple ass doesn't seem to understand. The terminology itself means that whoever it's used towards is somehow trumping up an issue to play the race card.
The reason it's derogatory with your ignorant ass is that it diminishes the views of others as false, unimportant and unwarranted. Nothing about it is funny. Nothing. I don't care who it's used towards, it is offensive. Point Blank.
WOC on these boards have been extremely vocal in pointing out when something is said or done that is inherently offensive. So, like I said before you don't get to use Race Baiting Fairies wantonly.
Now, you can sit here and feign like you don't understand and your comprehension skills of that of a one year old all you want, but when you finish, you had zero business saying that bullshit regardless of your perceived and failed attempt at a joke.
Got it. So B
Ok that's fair. Sincerest apologies all around to anyone offended by the terminology I used. applied to anyone, friend or foe
Back to my original post - for conjecture... if someone *is* (YOUR WORDS NOT MINE) trumping up an issue to play the race card? And bails out, leaves, takes their ball, their friends and leaves to a whole new spot and calls those left behind the real racists /race obsessed?
No That's not? Yes it is?
For the 100th time I was joking .That's not real ^^ there is no new ml who thinks this
But seriously, what is it about this whole mess that causes people to embarrass themselves like this? Toledo's final keyboard pounding performance, LHC bragging about being berbled out of retirement and putting herself on blast to her boss (still hilarious), Cjoy sniveling and whining but still gamely trying to insult everyone on her way out, Angela doing her thang all up and through here..
Can't you motherfuckers be cool for just five minutes?
Noted!
That is not what happened. I apologized to you and explained that my post wasn't some sort of attack on you. I remember apologizing a few times over pm and I'm still sorry for your loss
I just remembered why you're on my list. ::narrows eyes::
You absolutely cannot understand when someone says, "Hey, that's offensive, stop it." You have to keep going and going and going and going because you cannot back down and say that you're sorry.
Guess what? You're wrong again.
For those that don't remember, when ZB died she said something that I asked her not to and explained why it was offensive, and she just kept on going. Not one ounce of self reflection.
That is not what happened. I apologized to you and explained that my post wasn't some sort of attack on you. I remember apologizing a few times over pm and I'm still sorry for your loss
I just remembered why you're on my list. ::narrows eyes::
You absolutely cannot understand when someone says, "Hey, that's offensive, stop it." You have to keep going and going and going and going because you cannot back down and say that you're sorry.
Guess what? You're wrong again.
For those that don't remember, when ZB died she said something that I asked her not to and explained why it was offensive, and she just kept on going. Not one ounce of self reflection.
You may have apologized, but before that you kept going on and on about why what you were saying WASN'T offensive even though Pixy was telling you it was. She had to explain several times why what you were saying was upsetting.
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
Is this your hill to die on, rube? But first, go answer my questions and tell me who you think I'm calling a race baiter. You dumbass
Using the term race baiter no matter who you are referring to is an issue.
Furthermore unless you have a very poor command of the English language what you subsequently claim to have been saying bears no resemblance to what you actually said.
ETA: I see you have now apologized for race baiter but have now asked what term you use for someone playing the race card.
Is this real life?
I think we have now obviously established that she is Simple Simon.
I just remembered why you're on my list. ::narrows eyes::
You absolutely cannot understand when someone says, "Hey, that's offensive, stop it." You have to keep going and going and going and going because you cannot back down and say that you're sorry.
Guess what? You're wrong again.
For those that don't remember, when ZB died she said something that I asked her not to and explained why it was offensive, and she just kept on going. Not one ounce of self reflection.
I can remove the quote if you'd like but I remember this because even though I'm newish, I always liked Angela up until this moment.
I really hope you are able to take a step back and reflect here, Angela. Pile ons happen for sure, but that's not the case here or in the instance with pixy.
It doesn't really matter who you call a race baiter. That's what your simple ass doesn't seem to understand. The terminology itself means that whoever it's used towards is somehow trumping up an issue to play the race card.
The reason it's derogatory with your ignorant ass is that it diminishes the views of others as false, unimportant and unwarranted. Nothing about it is funny. Nothing. I don't care who it's used towards, it is offensive. Point Blank.
WOC on these boards have been extremely vocal in pointing out when something is said or done that is inherently offensive. So, like I said before you don't get to use Race Baiting Fairies wantonly.
Now, you can sit here and feign like you don't understand and your comprehension skills of that of a one year old all you want, but when you finish, you had zero business saying that bullshit regardless of your perceived and failed attempt at a joke.
Got it. So B
Ok that's fair. Sincerest apologies all around to anyone offended by the terminology I used. applied to anyone, friend or foe
Back to my original post - for conjecture... if someone *is* trumping up an issue to play the race card? And bails out, leaves, takes their ball, their friends and leaves to a whole new spot and calls those left behind the real racists /race obsessed?
No That's not? Yes it is?
For the 100th time I was joking .That's not real ^^ there is no new ml who thinks this
Sigh. Here's what you also can't do - "the race card." It is the same thing. You can't run around saying that people are playing the race card or are race obsessed.
Newsflash - I am black 365 days a year (366 this year). When I say that there is a racial component to something, it matters. Subsequently, when any minority or any well read individual says "there is a racial undertone here" and says why, you need to buck up and listen.
Ok that's fair. Sincerest apologies all around to anyone offended by the terminology I used. applied to anyone, friend or foe
Back to my original post - for conjecture... if someone *is* trumping up an issue to play the race card? And bails out, leaves, takes their ball, their friends and leaves to a whole new spot and calls those left behind the real racists /race obsessed?
No That's not? Yes it is?
For the 100th time I was joking .That's not real ^^ there is no new ml who thinks this
Sigh. Here's what you also can't do - "the race card." It is the same thing. You can't run around saying that people are playing the race card or are race obsessed.
Newsflash - I am black 365 days a year (366 this year). When I say that there is a racial component to something, it matters. Subsequently, when any minority or any well read individual says "there is a racial undertone here" and says why, you need to buck up and listen.
Ohhhhh I get it. You can say it, but I can't type your basic bitch quote back to you to ask your opinion
Sigh. Here's what you also can't do - "the race card." It is the same thing. You can't run around saying that people are playing the race card or are race obsessed.
Newsflash - I am black 365 days a year (366 this year). When I say that there is a racial component to something, it matters. Subsequently, when any minority or any well read individual says "there is a racial undertone here" and says why, you need to buck up and listen.
Ohhhhh I get it. You can say it, but I can't type your basic bitch quote back to you to ask your opinion
Because I'm white?
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME WITH THIS
No you did not just say this. Are you now going to ask why you can't say the nword too?
Sigh. Here's what you also can't do - "the race card." It is the same thing. You can't run around saying that people are playing the race card or are race obsessed.
Newsflash - I am black 365 days a year (366 this year). When I say that there is a racial component to something, it matters. Subsequently, when any minority or any well read individual says "there is a racial undertone here" and says why, you need to buck up and listen.
Ohhhhh I get it. You can say it, but I can't type your basic bitch quote back to you to ask your opinion
Because I'm white?
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME WITH THIS
No, it's not because you're white. It's because you lack fundamental comprehension skills which is evident by the fact you didn't read for understanding of the link posted earlier. Also, when told several different times in several different ways that race baiting was offensive and it accuses people of "playing the race card" which undercuts the validity of their concerns.
You lack critical thinking skills is what I gather here. Therefore, yes you are basic as hell. Here's a handy cheat sheet of things you need to refrain from using:
Racial Slurs Uppity Race Baiter Race Card He/She is Articulate (when said about black folks) Thug Ghetto Nappy - when discussing black folks hair Angry - when used to describe black people Militant
Keep all of those out of your mouth and keystrokes so I don't have to be alerted to your foolishness and call you out on it. Because you are making my ass itch. I'm torn between using all the cuss words and saying Bless Your Heart because it's slightly less than obvious that you are not playing with a full deck.
It doesn't really matter who you call a race baiter. That's what your simple ass doesn't seem to understand. The terminology itself means that whoever it's used towards is somehow trumping up an issue to play the race card.
The reason it's derogatory with your ignorant ass is that it diminishes the views of others as false, unimportant and unwarranted. Nothing about it is funny. Nothing. I don't care who it's used towards, it is offensive. Point Blank.
WOC on these boards have been extremely vocal in pointing out when something is said or done that is inherently offensive. So, like I said before you don't get to use Race Baiting Fairies wantonly.
Now, you can sit here and feign like you don't understand and your comprehension skills of that of a one year old all you want, but when you finish, you had zero business saying that bullshit regardless of your perceived and failed attempt at a joke.
I have stayed out of this and other, similar, recent threads on a couple of boards because of low-post-count syndrome. Always a concern for new folks. But there have been so many excellent points made here- I think nitaX sums it up.
When you say something that is hurtful or offensive to someone else, it's not a matter of opinion, like "are these shoes fug?" or "Batman v Superman - what's your vote?" kinds of posts. It's a fact, a truth - their truth. It is not a joking matter.
Post by gretchenindisguise on Apr 16, 2016 0:55:40 GMT -5
Why does this keep happening?
Angela come on dude. Wtf. This isn't that hard. I keep saying that in HRC posts over on c&pe and apparently it is that hard because it keeps happening, but it shouldn't be. I don't get it.
I need to figure out the magical combination of words that gets people to get it, because clearly something is being lost.
Ohhhhh I get it. You can say it, but I can't type your basic bitch quote back to you to ask your opinion
Because I'm white?
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME WITH THIS
No, it's not because you're white. It's because you lack fundamental comprehension skills which is evident by the fact you didn't read for understanding of the link posted earlier. Also, when told several different times in several different ways that race baiting was offensive and it accuses people of "playing the race card" which undercuts the validity of their concerns.
You lack critical thinking skills is what I gather here. Therefore, yes you are basic as hell. Here's a handy cheat sheet of things you need to refrain from using:
Racial Slurs Uppity Race Baiter Race Card He/She is Articulate (when said about black folks) Thug Ghetto Nappy - when discussing black folks hair Angry - when used to describe black people Militant
Keep all of those out of your mouth and keystrokes so I don't have to be alerted to your foolishness and call you out on it. Because you are making my ass itch. I'm torn between using all the cuss words and saying Bless Your Heart because it's slightly less than obvious that you are not playing with a full deck.
Bullshit. I will absolutely call you on your bullshit. Act like I can't type your words back to you because I'm not smart enough? Bull fucking shit. You have a set of rules for me and one for yourself based on MY RACE. EW. This isn't a joke. You're not joking. I was joking about sue and the others that bailed, calling them names. I accidentally offended and meant no harm. I apologized. You are a blatant asshole. Bless your own heart, asshole.
No, it's not because you're white. It's because you lack fundamental comprehension skills which is evident by the fact you didn't read for understanding of the link posted earlier. Also, when told several different times in several different ways that race baiting was offensive and it accuses people of "playing the race card" which undercuts the validity of their concerns.
You lack critical thinking skills is what I gather here. Therefore, yes you are basic as hell. Here's a handy cheat sheet of things you need to refrain from using:
Racial Slurs Uppity Race Baiter Race Card He/She is Articulate (when said about black folks) Thug Ghetto Nappy - when discussing black folks hair Angry - when used to describe black people Militant
Keep all of those out of your mouth and keystrokes so I don't have to be alerted to your foolishness and call you out on it. Because you are making my ass itch. I'm torn between using all the cuss words and saying Bless Your Heart because it's slightly less than obvious that you are not playing with a full deck.
Bullshit. I will absolutely call you on your bullshit. Act like I can't type your words back to you because I'm not smart enough? Bull fucking shit. You have a set of rules for me and one for yourself based on MY RACE. EW. This isn't a joke. You're not joking. I was joking about sue and the others that bailed, calling them names. I accidentally offended and meant no harm. I apologized. You are a blatant asshole. Bless your own heart, asshole.
Post by mrsukyankee on Apr 16, 2016 3:21:11 GMT -5
There is far too much ignorance here. Seriously. You didn't apologise, you told people to fuck off. And then, when someone told you that as a WHITE WOMAN you shouldn't use certain words, again, you tell them to fuck off. Yes, you are not to use certain words. You are white. People of colour and white women are coming on here to let you know that you are wrong. Just stop. Step back and quit it. Say I'm sorry and then stop posting. That's it. That's all you had to do and should do now. And then I'd stay away for a bit and then come back and re-read this thread as if it wasn't you posting so you can get a bit of education and figure out how you did the wrong thing.
I've said the wrong thing in the past. We all do. We're all learning. And what you do when you say the wrong thing - I'm sorry. And then you stop.
No, it's not because you're white. It's because you lack fundamental comprehension skills which is evident by the fact you didn't read for understanding of the link posted earlier. Also, when told several different times in several different ways that race baiting was offensive and it accuses people of "playing the race card" which undercuts the validity of their concerns.
You lack critical thinking skills is what I gather here. Therefore, yes you are basic as hell. Here's a handy cheat sheet of things you need to refrain from using:
Racial Slurs Uppity Race Baiter Race Card He/She is Articulate (when said about black folks) Thug Ghetto Nappy - when discussing black folks hair Angry - when used to describe black people Militant
Keep all of those out of your mouth and keystrokes so I don't have to be alerted to your foolishness and call you out on it. Because you are making my ass itch. I'm torn between using all the cuss words and saying Bless Your Heart because it's slightly less than obvious that you are not playing with a full deck.
Bullshit. I will absolutely call you on your bullshit. Act like I can't type your words back to you because I'm not smart enough? Bull fucking shit. You have a set of rules for me and one for yourself based on MY RACE. EW. This isn't a joke. You're not joking. I was joking about sue and the others that bailed, calling them names. I accidentally offended and meant no harm. I apologized. You are a blatant asshole. Bless your own heart, asshole.
Jesus Christ. Leaving all of the rest of your tirade out of this for a minute, you STILL do not understand what the words actually mean? I see you edited your first post to try and be clearer and it is STILL doesn't mean what you insist you are saying. And then you post this and say you were joking about people who bailed. Which, again, implies that you think the "race baiting fairies" are those who bailed. Which, no. Even if that term wasn't obscenely offensive and completely inappropriate, it does not mean what you are continually repeating that it does.
And as to the rest of this? Is your daily life and vocabulary really so filled to the brim with words and phrases on this list that you can't just back up and drop them all immediately because people are telling you that they are seriously offensive? Maybe that should be the clue you need that the problem here is you. How fucking hard is it to stop saying things that have been specifically pointed out to you as offensive? Were you one of the original staunch supporters on ML of the r-word as well?
I'm really embarrassed for you. Everything you've said has had me cringing. Please take a step back and evaluate yourself. You're lucky to not have to experience what WOC have experienced, can't you at least show them some respect?
Ohhhhh I get it. You can say it, but I can't type your basic bitch quote back to you to ask your opinion
Because I'm white?
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME WITH THIS
No, it's not because you're white. It's because you lack fundamental comprehension skills which is evident by the fact you didn't read for understanding of the link posted earlier. Also, when told several different times in several different ways that race baiting was offensive and it accuses people of "playing the race card" which undercuts the validity of their concerns.
You lack critical thinking skills is what I gather here. Therefore, yes you are basic as hell. Here's a handy cheat sheet of things you need to refrain from using:
Racial Slurs Uppity Race Baiter Race Card He/She is Articulate (when said about black folks) Thug Ghetto Nappy - when discussing black folks hair Angry - when used to describe black people Militant
Keep all of those out of your mouth and keystrokes so I don't have to be alerted to your foolishness and call you out on it. Because you are making my ass itch. I'm torn between using all the cuss words and saying Bless Your Heart because it's slightly less than obvious that you are not playing with a full deck.
No, it's not because you're white. It's because you lack fundamental comprehension skills which is evident by the fact you didn't read for understanding of the link posted earlier. Also, when told several different times in several different ways that race baiting was offensive and it accuses people of "playing the race card" which undercuts the validity of their concerns.
You lack critical thinking skills is what I gather here. Therefore, yes you are basic as hell. Here's a handy cheat sheet of things you need to refrain from using:
Racial Slurs Uppity Race Baiter Race Card He/She is Articulate (when said about black folks) Thug Ghetto Nappy - when discussing black folks hair Angry - when used to describe black people Militant
Keep all of those out of your mouth and keystrokes so I don't have to be alerted to your foolishness and call you out on it. Because you are making my ass itch. I'm torn between using all the cuss words and saying Bless Your Heart because it's slightly less than obvious that you are not playing with a full deck.
Bullshit. I will absolutely call you on your bullshit. Act like I can't type your words back to you because I'm not smart enough? Bull fucking shit. You have a set of rules for me and one for yourself based on MY RACE. EW. This isn't a joke. You're not joking. I was joking about sue and the others that bailed, calling them names. I accidentally offended and meant no harm. I apologized. You are a blatant asshole. Bless your own heart, asshole.
The only bullshit in this thread belongs to you. And yes, I am saying that you aren't smart enough to understand anything because you keep trying to justify your ill-attempted joke. It wasn't funny. Several posters said your comments were gross, then you jumped in feet first trying to call folks morons when you obviously didn't look in the mirror.
It's not funny and FWIW I was trying to be helpful in the hopes that maybe you'd se the list and go, ok, duly noted, won't do that either. Also, are you one of those folks who say "well black folks use the N-word, so Imma say it too!" Because, that's what you're doing here.
In my city, a bunch of white folks thought it was "funny" to tie a sock monkey up and hang it out of the window. Now, they're confused trying to figure out why black folks were upset about it. Words, symbols have meaning and power rooted back in centuries of racial oppression.
If you would take the time to stop stomping your feet and read for understanding, you wouldn't still be in this thread looking like this: